Don't know your situation so what I'm saying isn't targeting you directly but what you said is exactly why fatherless or single mothers are so hard to deal with, the wall of victimization they place around themselves.
Everyone is out to get them, the black girls are easy to fukk, they'll fukk us but marry white women, the broke nikkas keep in hollering at me.
The while the world is against me role affects how dudes deal with certain women, which is why dude in the video is completely wrong.
The fatherless girl is constantly worrying about her situation and her image in America.