Lose the Morals and the Ego
This is great advice. Stop putting women on a pedestal and looking for "love" in every interaction. Realize that most women ain't shyt just like most men. Develop a hardcore mindset, or more importantly, develop a mindset that works for you. If you like that smooth ladies man stuff, do that. If you like treating hoes in a hardcore way, do that, but own it and live it.
Don't be afraid to mess with less than dimes (just keep it on the low) and stop using the "she ain't a dime" as an excuse not to talk to women. Most of y'all just afraid.
Admit it and move on.
Develop Your Sex Appeal
Square up your hair cut to make your face seem more masculine (male model technique), mess around with your hair and your style. Find someone who has your type of swagger (don't try and emulate someone opposite your type) and straight up copy their fashion until you get your own.
Create a vibe, work on tone, posture, all of those basics.
Silver Tongue
Go out and talk to women non-stop. Don't expect anything from the interaction but talk to every single one you can about absolutely anything you can think of. Figure out what works and what doesn't (can only be done through action) and start working with what works and getting rid of the rest.
Sex appeal, vibe, energy, emotion; all of those are more important than "looks" but you have to believe in it. A simple formula is, unless you verifiably look like a male model, stop worrying about it and improve what you can improve (gym, style, etc).
The best improvement you can make is work on creating a beast mouthpiece, develop that confidence, and lose that fear.
Probably one of the better dudes who can and is willing to *show* it to you.