You ever struggle to find something to buy for yourself?

[B86]

I couldn't find a better way to put the title. For like the past 2 months I've had an urge to buy something for myself. All I do is constantly spend money on my family, household, and cars, it seems, but never really buy anything for myself except food, weed, and IPAs, then invest the rest.

I can chalk it up to I have everything and don't need shyt but there has to be something out there to buy. I dont know if I'm looking for something to entertain myself or what but shyt, I have every type of entertainment you can think of already.

I was going to buy an OLED TV but I just can't make myself spend over $1000 on a TV. That's just retarded. I thought about 3d printing resin casting molds, buying a vacuum casting machine, and making jewelry but then lost interest for some reason after weeks of research and adding shyt to 10 different carts on different sites. I have a shyt ton of products my TEMU cart but when actually look at what's in there, there isn't 1 thing I actually need or want, really.

I dont know, man.

Anybody else ever feel this way?

 

[cyndaquil]

Sometimes. You get to a point where a lot of things seem like a waste of money. Maybe spend it on an experience for yourself rather than a thing?

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Nah. I just started looking at topcoats for business attire recently. Might drop a couple hundred soon.

Nothing wrong with that though, keeps money in your pockets

 

[Buddy]

Every man should own a quality pocket knife. I'd buy a few cheap ones from the gas station to get a better idea of what you want before a quality purchase

 

[Da_Eggman]

Backpage

 

[The Guru]

Always man. Or moreso i struggle to make the purchase. I always feel bad spending on myself. There are only a few things i'd actually want to buy anyway.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Always man. Or moreso i struggle to make the purchase. I always feel bad spending on myself. There are only a few things i'd actually want to buy anyway.

This is crazy I never feel bad spending on myself.

 

[B86]

Sometimes. You get to a point where a lot of things seem like a waste of money. Maybe spend it on an experience for yourself rather than a thing?

My wife, kids and I are constantly in Orlando at all the different parks. Wife and I go places often. Go on cruises fairly often. Idk man

 

[Action Mike]

I 100% understand this

 

[I'm Blackman]

Constantly.

Im blessed to have the bread.

I would LOVE to want something.

But everything i want (that i can reasonably afford...so no Ferraris) I have. Nice house, cars, jewelry, watches, too many clothes, electronics, cigars.....and money burning a hole in my pocket.

 

[B86]

Always man. Or moreso i struggle to make the purchase. I always feel bad spending on myself. There are only a few things i'd actually want to buy anyway.

This. It's a strange feeling. And I'm not sure that I really feel bad spending on myself, but it's just like "why am I buying this" is all I keep asking myself before deciding not to do it

 

[B86]

Constantly.

Im blessed to have the bread.

I would LOVE to want something.

But everything i want (that i can reasonably afford...so no Ferraris) I have. Nice house, cars, jewelry, watches, too many clothes, electronics, cigars.....and money burning a hole in my pocket.

YES! Like there is shyt way out of reach that I'd love to buy, like you said, but for the attainable stuff, I don't want anything and its bothering me for some reason

 

[TL15]

Yep.

So this year I decided a “new years resolution” was to get a new tattoo every month. It forced me to think of myself and to commit to something specifically for me

 

[Stir Fry]

Maybe cop a nice timepiece for yourself?

 

[I'm Blackman]

YES! Like there is shyt way out of reach that I'd love to buy, like you said, but for the obtainable stuff, I don't want anything and its bothering me for some reason

Its like i peaked with my "possessions" lol. Unless its Gods plan for me to have Jay Z money (then its a big list of wants i got). But currently at my level (household income over 6 figures, wife and i have no kids)......everything we want we have and more seems like a waste.

Prime example ive been looking at the Longines Conquest or hydrocongquest gmt. Watches i can afford and not blink. I look at them online constsntly and my wife is like treat yourself...they dont cost a lot, buy them. But then i go to my bedroom and get down my watch cases (total over 60)....im like i dont need another fukking watch.

On the good side....ive been eating better and working out..so i will have to buy new clothes at some point lol.