yo my girl is a psycho?

[Turbulent]

Well it IS man's lot in life to bend to the will of a woman.

 

[MadameMoreaux]

Negged

I love the hate

 

[No_bammer_weed]

This is normal. No misogyny.
You can't let it slide though. You don't have to get confrontational with it but you have to bring BS to the light in a straightforward but respectful manner so it doesn't get out of hand. Else there will be no good end to it for you.

listen to this cat right here. Best advice you will get.

 

[Swing]

Sounds like BPD

 

[The 2020 New Member]

Sounds like BPD

that's what i thought. i'm just going to have to sit her down and figure out to the least painful way to say that i need to move on.

i feel like an ass cuz i didn't see the signs earlier about her instability. she lives with her sister (with no intentions of moving out until someone saves her) and she has major issues with her parents @ 34. i'm in over my head.

it's better to have this lady potentially hate me than to hate myself forever for tryin to stick it out.

 

[Man On Fire]

that's what i thought. i'm just going to have to sit her down and figure out to the least painful way to say that i need to move on.

i feel like an ass cuz i didn't see the signs earlier about her instability. she lives with her sister (with no intentions of moving out until someone saves her) and she has major issues with her parents @ 34. i'm in over my head.

it's better to have this lady potentially hate me than to hate myself forever for tryin to stick it out.

If you can't deal with that shyt gtfotasap

 

[Swing]

that's what i thought. i'm just going to have to sit her down and figure out to the least painful way to say that i need to move on.

i feel like an ass cuz i didn't see the signs earlier about her instability. she lives with her sister (with no intentions of moving out until someone saves her) and she has major issues with her parents @ 34. i'm in over my head.

it's better to have this lady potentially hate me than to hate myself forever for tryin to stick it out.

The signs are like a puzzle anyway my dude, that shyt takes time to put together... Go with your gut.

 

[bouncy]

not to be an armchair psychiatrist but you might want to suggest couples' counseling so that you can get her into counseling. What she's doing sounds familiar to me.... That's all I can say. Really you have to be willing to go into counseling because up and saying she should go is not gonna work, trust me on that one.

I wouldn't chalk it up to a "this is how women are" thing, at least from the way you described it in those short details. If you intend to be with her in the long run, then consider couples' counseling and talk to her about going into it. Erratic mood swings are not normal; even of women.

She sounds like she is a narcissist, the real type not some word just to use. I know because I grew up seeing EVERYTHING he described, and then dated women like that. Most people are narcissist, but when you deal with an extreme case, he is going to feel like he is going crazy, trust me.

She won't go to the counseling because she doesn't think anything is wrong with her, she just wants her way. If you don't go along with it, she WILL make you pay for it somehow.

Also, if she wants kids, he better watch out because she WILL do something to make sure she gets it. She will either trick him to get his sperm OR she will get pregnant by someone else, and say he's the father.

I recommend he leave her before he falls deeply in love with her, and it will be hard to leave. He just needs to make HIMSELF look bad, and use that as an excuse to leave because he makes it out to be her, she will make his life harder. She may spread gossip about him or claim he did something foul, I don't know, but it won't be pretty. He can be nice to her, but he needs to keep space between them for HIS safety.

 

[DeuceZ]

sounds like a woman to me....no news here

 

[killacal]

who actually believes in this pagan bullshyt

:foh: bytches be like what are you? Im born first week of december

Were gonna get along so well!!! fukk her for a week and stop returning her calls.

People who believe that shyt are fukkin retarded, and they just figured out there was another sign recently and fukked the whole scale up But no one wants to use that

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

she literally looks like janet jackson but...

More like Freddy Jackson

 

[EVILRICO]

My ex wanted to taser the cat

That bytch was crazy

 

[Swing]

More like Freddy Jackson

 

[The 2020 New Member]

My ex wanted to taser the cat

That bytch was crazy

[ame=http://youtu.be/AkMkGOpAF4s]"Don't Tase Me, Bro!" (UF Student Tasered Remix) - YouTube[/ame]

 

[Ohnoits]

This is normal. No misogyny.
You can't let it slide though. You don't have to get confrontational with it but you have to bring BS to the light in a straightforward but respectful manner so it doesn't get out of hand. Else there will be no good end to it for you.

Agreed. Problem is with women they've been socialized to be catty and shyt. You can get her out of it but only if she wants to. She has to realize that shyt is not productive or healthy and that's why she's 35 dating a 23 year old. (No offense breh)