Yo, I can't figure out why the hell I keep thinking about this one ex

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It's been years since we broke up and I've had a couple girlfriends since. I've banged out prolly 10-15 other jumpoffs but this one ex of mine always stays in my thoughts. I feel like I'm over her but my conscious seems to be saying..naaahhh nikka. :usure:

Anybody experience this? :wtf:

She probably had that good puss/head better they anyone you had since

I feel with that, one of my exes I still jerk off to her memory
 
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Your mind has created a defense mechanism on how to deal with the breakup and it slowly created a side effect in the form of a yearn for her causing you to have put her on a mental pedistool higher then most of the females you have encountered in your life. This is obvious because the relationship is over yet you cant get over her. The feelings you have for her are all in your head, you actually invented them. You invented the feelings that you currently have and at the same time you can reverse the affects and destroy those feelings. Here's my advice, go to the store, buy you a Snapple of your choice, take it home, sit down in the most comfortable chair in your house and just slowly drink. After your drink is empty go to the table and write down your feelings to this woman on a piece of paper. Get it all out of your system. Then read the letter outloud to yourself so you can hear how foolish you sound. Read it 5 times. After the 5th time tear the paper up and flush it down the toilet. And if the days go by and she pops up in your head again, just remind yourself that your have flushed her goodbuy and that she is no longer at your reach because you made it that way.



:salute::salute::salute:
 

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i'm going thru this right now breh. i feel like i let "the one" get away. but i was a shytty boyfriend so the scars might be too deep to ever heal but sometimes i do feel like getting her back. never had that feeling about any ex before.
 

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Your mind has created a defense mechanism on how to deal with the breakup and it slowly created a side effect in the form of a yearn for her causing you to have put her on a mental pedistool higher then most of the females you have encountered in your life. This is obvious because the relationship is over yet you cant get over her. The feelings you have for her are all in your head, you actually invented them. You invented the feelings that you currently have and at the same time you can reverse the affects and destroy those feelings. Here's my advice, go to the store, buy you a Snapple of your choice, take it home, sit down in the most comfortable chair in your house and just slowly drink. After your drink is empty go to the table and write down your feelings to this woman on a piece of paper. Get it all out of your system. Then read the letter outloud to yourself so you can hear how foolish you sound. Read it 5 times. After the 5th time tear the paper up and flush it down the toilet. And if the days go by and she pops up in your head again, just remind yourself that your have flushed her goodbuy and that she is no longer at your reach because you made it that way.

:dwillhuh: Its like you spoke directly into my soul Snapple. Thank you
 

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She probably had that good puss/head better they anyone you had since

I feel with that, one of my exes I still jerk off to her memory
Hmmm it was decent but I've had better sex since we broke up. I actually had the best sex of my life post breakup with her.
i'm going thru this right now breh. i feel like i let "the one" get away. but i was a shytty boyfriend so the scars might be too deep to ever heal but sometimes i do feel like getting her back. never had that feeling about any ex before.
The thing with me is that I don't even think about this chick when I'm awake but she is allll over my dreams. And I wake up with her on my mind and start to think what if. Then I go about my day and never think about her again.
 
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