Yo, I can't figure out why the hell I keep thinking about this one ex

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It's been years since we broke up and I've had a couple girlfriends since. I've banged out prolly 10-15 other jumpoffs but this one ex of mine always stays in my thoughts. I feel like I'm over her but my conscious seems to be saying..naaahhh nikka. :usure:

Anybody experience this? :wtf:
 

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You want that old thing back. Call her and tell her you love her. :yes:

Oh and I've never experienced this.
 

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I'm guessing she's the one who ended things.

normally it's easy to move on from exes where there was a mutual breakup or if you were the one to initiate it. it's different when you're on the receiving end and it's on her terms though
 

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I'm guessing she's the one who ended things.

normally it's easy to move on from exes where there was a mutual breakup or if you were the one to initiate it. it's different when you're on the receiving end and it's on her terms though
Yeah, she thought I fukked this chick I was cool wit and snapped out. Crazy thing is I didn't even fukk ol girl and I could have easily. :beli:
 

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I'm guessing she's the one who ended things.

normally it's easy to move on from exes where there was a mutual breakup or if you were the one to initiate it. it's different when you're on the receiving end and it's on her terms though

BINGO. You want the win...problem is you'd be so wrapped up on actually having her back, youd blow it. Vicious cycle it is...
 

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Yeah, she thought I fukked this chick I was cool wit and snapped out. Crazy thing is I didn't even fukk ol girl and I could have easily. :beli:

bruh you need to be real with yourself and figure out your real motivation for getting back with her. is it because she bruised your ego or do you genuinely want her back?

tough question but you need to answer it before you go forward with anything
 

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bruh you need to be real with yourself and figure out your real motivation for getting back with her. is it because she bruised your ego or do you genuinely want her back?

tough question but you need to answer it before you go forward with anything

Naw, it ain't about the ego. I don't feel played or nothing because she left. I took it as it was her lost.
 

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Dreamed about this chick like 5 nights in a row. WTF man. :mindblown:


Your mind has created a defense mechanism on how to deal with the breakup and it slowly created a side effect in the form of a yearn for her causing you to have put her on a mental pedistool higher then most of the females you have encountered in your life. This is obvious because the relationship is over yet you cant get over her. The feelings you have for her are all in your head, you actually invented them. You invented the feelings that you currently have and at the same time you can reverse the affects and destroy those feelings. Here's my advice, go to the store, buy you a Snapple of your choice, take it home, sit down in the most comfortable chair in your house and just slowly drink. After your drink is empty go to the table and write down your feelings to this woman on a piece of paper. Get it all out of your system. Then read the letter outloud to yourself so you can hear how foolish you sound. Read it 5 times. After the 5th time tear the paper up and flush it down the toilet. And if the days go by and she pops up in your head again, just remind yourself that your have flushed her goodbuy and that she is no longer at your reach because you made it that way.
 

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Your mind has created a defense mechanism on how to deal with the breakup and it slowly created a side effect in the form of a yearn for her causing you to have put her on a mental pedistool higher then most of the females you have encountered in your life. This is obvious because the relationship is over yet you cant get over her. The feelings you have for her are all in your head, you actually invented them. You invented the feelings that you currently have and at the same time you can reverse the affects and destroy those feelings. Here's my advice, go to the store, buy you a Snapple of your choice, take it home, sit down in the most comfortable chair in your house and just slowly drink. After your drink is empty go to the table and write down your feelings to this woman on a piece of paper. Get it all out of your system. Then read the letter outloud to yourself so you can hear how foolish you sound. Read it 5 times. After the 5th time tear the paper up and flush it down the toilet. And if the days go by and she pops up in your head again, just remind yourself that your have flushed her goodbuy and that she is no longer at your reach because you made it that way.


Snapple is probably right, especially if you've only been feeling this way recently. You're probably idealizing her and the relationship you had breh
 

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Your mind has created a defense mechanism on how to deal with the breakup and it slowly created a side effect in the form of a yearn for her causing you to have put her on a mental pedistool higher then most of the females you have encountered in your life. This is obvious because the relationship is over yet you cant get over her. The feelings you have for her are all in your head, you actually invented them. You invented the feelings that you currently have and at the same time you can reverse the affects and destroy those feelings. Here's my advice, go to the store, buy you a Snapple of your choice, take it home, sit down in the most comfortable chair in your house and just slowly drink. After your drink is empty go to the table and write down your feelings to this woman on a piece of paper. Get it all out of your system. Then read the letter outloud to yourself so you can hear how foolish you sound. Read it 5 times. After the 5th time tear the paper up and flush it down the toilet. And if the days go by and she pops up in your head again, just remind yourself that your have flushed her goodbuy and that she is no longer at your reach because you made it that way.

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