if your wife fukks another nikka because you didn't bring her a sandwich and he told her that he would, then she was only there for the sandwiches.
Sandwiches>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>you
LOL that's not pampering. When I say pampering, I mean buying her nice things and treating you and her to good food, vacations, etc. I ain't talking about being no butler, waiting on her every want and call nikka.