Ya'll think a lot of women today will end up single at an old age?

[JT-Money]

The funniest shyt is women with kids,crappy job talkn about “baggage” and “wont settle”


Lmao

Most women live in a fantasy land and have zero self-awareness. They get that wake-up call eventually when the reality of their choices finally hit them. But until then most still believe some Balleer is gonna show up and solve all their problems.

 

[semicko82]

Most women live in a fantasy land and have zero self-awareness. They get that wake-up call eventually when the reality of their choices finally hit them. But until then most still believe some Balleer is gonna show up and solve all their problems.

No they can't be true. You sound like a bitter incel

 

[DJK]

When I see that homeless brother out on the street begging for money.,

I think that's a single man who either has no family or burned all his bridges.

 

[Lemons]

Y’all have painted a ridiculous picture in your mind that all these young women with “high” standards will end up all alone crying for dikk in their benz at their old age. It’s honestly laughable.

The thing about women is that they will always, always, always under every circumstance have options. They may not be the options they want, but they are there simply because they have a vagina. Men do not have this luxury which is why they are most of the homeless population. Women have friends, family, and a bunch of men willing to take them in.

You need to be asking what do these men plan to do when they are old, washed up, and can’t find a woman willing to give them play?

 

[Phitz]

I think just as many single men will be in that same boat unfortunately. Hopefully some of the Brehs who post on this site start to focus on that possibility for their own lives.

There’s actually a desperate breh who’s nearly 40 on here who hits up Brehettes, so desperate for some cheeks that even when he finds out you’re in a relationship he asks if you’d be open to inviting him in a mmf threesome. That’s after he tries to find out if you have single friends and why no one on tinder wants him.

All I’m saying is some of y’all are single asf and perhaps need to be worrying about getting a partner yourself and less about what’s going to happen to women you don’t even know.

And so many of them have no children, carrying the no children flag past 35 as if that is something to cheer about. I think about that myself, because I know family is important. PEOPLE(male and female) who spent their who lives being selfish and not making any connections have it tough in old age. If they have a strong emotional connection to the family they intend to have.

They dont see it now, but they will. I listen to old men and they tell me how much more important family becomes to you after you turn 60.

 

[semicko82]

And so many of them have no children, carrying the no children flag past 35 as if that is something to cheer about. I think about that myself, because I know family is important. PEOPLE(male and female) who spent their who lives being selfish and not making any connections have it tough in old age. If they have a strong emotional connection to the family they intend to have.

They dont see it now, but they will. I listen to old men and they tell me how much more important family becomes to you after you turn 60.

What if people tried to have families but had no luck?

 

[Phitz]

What if people tried to have families but had no luck?

that's a small percentage and out of their control. Im talking about people with options.

Things that are out of your control you pray to God for special circumstances..

 

[Michael's Black Son]

I think a great majority will at least settle with some dude in they mid 40s, I feel like even hoes can win if they seal their past, but I could be wrong.

ain’t enough dudes to settle with and there’s not enough dudes in their 40s who will settle without a fight. The numbers don’t line up and it’s not like these chicks you’re talking about look like Lisa Ray when she was in her 40s.

what kids can these chicks give a man who wants to start a family? And then you have some who already have kids from back when they were young/attractive. Not sure if there’s a large pool of dudes who wanna dip their toes in that

 

[Phitz]

Y’all have painted a ridiculous picture in your mind that all these young women with “high” standards will end up all alone crying for dikk in their benz at their old age. It’s honestly laughable.

The thing about women is that they will always, always, always under every circumstance have options. They may not be the options they want, but they are there simply because they have a vagina. Men do not have this luxury which is why they are most of the homeless population. Women have friends, family, and a bunch of men willing to take them in.

You need to be asking what do these men plan to do when they are old, washed up, and can’t find a woman willing to give them play?

Men can always find a woman espeically given the numbers, the problem with alot of men is building a strong connection(with wife and/or kids) and not sabotaging their life.

You're speaking out of emotion and not facts

 

[Mugenight]

Ya'll think a lot of women today will end up single at an old age?

Of course.

 

[Lemons]

Men can always find a woman espeically given the numbers, the problem with alot of men is building a strong connection(with wife and/or kids) and not sabotaging their life.

You're speaking out of emotion and not facts

I’m speaking facts.

You think prostitution is the oldest profession in the world because men can have easy access to women? Lmao.

Men spend their hard earned money to get their d*cks sucked by random girls.

Women don’t have that problem.

 

[Alvin]

I think a great majority will at least settle with some dude in they mid 40s, I feel like even hoes can win if they seal their past, but I could be wrong.

Yup

 

[NobodyReally]

Because the clock is ticking on these dudes as well.. If black relationships fall to the ground, so does the black nation in this country.. You're a million miles away from being about your people if you don't value black relationships..

Yeah 'cause the #GMB crew that runs TLR really cares about the black family and black relationships. Stop being disingenuous.

 

[JT-Money]

Yeah 'cause the #GMB crew that runs TLR really cares about the black family and black relationships. Stop being disingenuous.

GMB=Get Money Brothers? Is against the black family?

 

[the bossman]

When I turned 50, this older buddy used to ask me when was I going to get that nurse, since I had a house paid off, nice car, and retired. I knew it was coming from jealousy, no matter how smooth he would ask. So I began telling people if they don't have a girlfriend for me, then shut up. Most of those brothers bringing up my love life were single themselves, or still chasing skeezers. Like if a brother isn't complaining about being single, then why ask those questions, especially after he done came this far single. Most of these cats were saying these things because I was always jolly for somebody who was living alone, until they start talking like that. Once I started setting them straight, that stopped.

As far as a nurse, you'e not really suppose to marry so your wife can be your nurse at old age. That's a misconception. Your wife is suppose to be your help-mate, so she don't have to be your nurse in old age. I mean when you get up there, you may wound up being her nurse instead, because she's gonna age right along with you. Hopefully she cooks healthy meals along the way, that helps prevent you both from coming down with any of those comorbilities. And if you do get sick while you're still young, hopefully that will be temporary. Truth be told, nobody wants to be 75 or 80, nursing their disabled spouse in a wheel chair. I've heard my aunt say this to my disabled uncle, after he was bragging about how good she takes care of him while he's in his wheel chair. She didn't say that in front of my mother, my uncles sister. She said it when we came back to visit a few years later without my mother, lol. That's why it's good to have some kind of health plan that includes in-house visits, or better yet, you and your spouse move to a senior living facility together, where they do your house cleaning, prepare healthy meals, while checking on you both, before you get to a point they have no choice but to put you in a nursing home. But I never see it work out this way. Maybe it does for certain older White couples who had money, but not for too many senior Black couples. Plus the husband is usually gone before it gets to that point, especially if he's Black. Or most of the time, your spouse is going to wound up sending you to a nursing home anyway when you come down with mental conditions like Alzheimer's, and it gets to an advanced stage. Truth be told, a lot of times when people get old and sick, and near death, they don't even recognize their own spouse or family members. That's how one of my grandfathers died.

I use to suggest my older buddy move to a senior living facility, since he was so concerned about being lonely, and dying alone. That seems to be a bigger issue with those who had been divorced from long-term marriages, and raised two or three children. But he told me he seen too many ambulance's coming out of those senior living facilities. I checked out a few when I turned 50, and he was right. I guess you be watching people pass away right after you get close to them. But that depends on which senior facility you live in, plus there are different categories. So not everybody living in a senior living facility is near death, especially the "independent living" senior facility category.

I always believed in hanging on to close buddies along the way, because I wanted them to be around when I got old one day. But I wasn't expecting so many to fall off this early, or become disabled (mentally and physically). So don't be surprised if a lot of them aren't there for you anyway, or if tolerating some of that over-the-board nonsense wasn't even worth it. I'm not even sure if my older buddy I was speaking about above is still here. The last time I spoke with him he was in rehab, coming back from his second near death experience. Then he vanished, and his phone number went from saying, "this number is not in service" to "this person hasn't set up their voice box yet", which sounds like somebody else has his number.

Personally if I ever get that sick, I would never want to become a burden to the point I would need my wife to wipe my butt and all, if I had a wife. I wouldn't want my daughter to do all of that for me either, if I needed her to move in. She already have two teenage boys of her own. If I ever get that incapacitated, it would be better if I just went to a nursing home, because that's exactly where they're gonna wound up sending us most of time anyway. If we don't have WW3, I'll probably wound up checking out one of those independent living facilities, or just get Life Alert...just in case I fall and can't get up!, lol. All jokes aside, I'll probably get the kind where they call you everyday, if they have that. Then again, that might me annoying. And I'd hate to move a girl in here, just so she can find out I'm leaving everything to my daughter (who don't deserve it), and she wound up homeless. Then again, my daughter have her own house. Some men wound up leaving everything to the one who was there for them. I guess it all depends.

Yo this OG was just rambling on and on. nikka went from talking about nurses to World War 3 to his begrudgingly giving his estate to his daughter. Lol. I respect it tho. Props for still doing you at 50

Drop some wisdom for a breh at 35