It goes both ways Marcuzdoesn't matter, they all agree with your sentiments about wanting a man to "do for them"
It goes both ways Marcuzdoesn't matter, they all agree with your sentiments about wanting a man to "do for them"
i don't know what you mean by that but i'm sure it doesIt goes both ways Marcuz
I am referring to a coupling. It's a give and take. I want someone to do for me and in return I will do for them (in a relationship).i don't know what you mean by that but i'm sure it does
But you sound like a taker tho I didn't see you bragging about what you do for your man or men but bragging about what a dude you first met did for youI am referring to a coupling. It's a give and take. I want someone to do for me and in return I will do for them (in a relationship).
these women really want the benefits of being women, they get upset because they feel that they're not getting it fully... nothing more and nothing less...While I agree with SOME of that @Cuzo you may have derailed the entire thread.
But you sound like a taker tho I didn't see you bragging about what you do for your man or men but bragging about what a dude you first met did for you
True but it obviously speaks volumes to your mentality and beliefsObviously the OP took the quote from another thread so it was made in context.
True but it obviously speaks volumes to your mentality and beliefs
no need to buck no one was saying you're dating for me....thats a sad mentality but I bet you brag about being independent where's the self respect? Any nikka who simps for someone that they're not at least in a relationship with is a fool.....with all that said what do you have to offer a man?It does. I have no problem saying I expect things from the people I date. If you don't like it so be it. I don't date for you.
but, but, I'm not a trick, I give the stripper my entire paycheck and she says I'm a really good guy! She even kissed me on the cheek one time too.
no need to buck no one was saying you're dating for me....thats a sad mentality but I bet you brag about being independent where's the self respect? Any nikka who simps for someone that they're not at least in a relationship with is a fool.....with all that said what do you have to offer a man?
I just have standards that other women don't have. I am not corrupted. I just don't date for the hell of it. I cook and clean, I am fun and interesting, and I take very good care of myself. And b/c of all that I get to have my pick of men. I'm not choosing a cheapo when I could have someone who wants to do nice things for me. I don't see the problem.
Honestly, I don't usually have to ask. They just do it off the up and they have the money to spend. It's how I am use to being treated. I am not sending anyone to the poor house.
That's obviously just it, I don't even know why nikkas are out here trippin' like you're somehow cheating the game when really you're just playing on your customized mahogany chessboard. Not all women can afford the game you play (not even the ones that may be called hotter/smarter/more accomplished than you are), so it's cracking me the fukk up to read how nikkas are scared that somehow you have a wand that's gonna make all the women you meet like you.
You're clearly just playing the best you can given your circumstances and qualities...and honestly – given that you're a black woman – I you for that and hope you play intelligently not only short-term but also long-term ma. Do your thing and take care of your seed nikkas out here are making a storm in a glass of water.