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What is your definition of a hoe? I don't have sex for money so in my opinion I'm not a hoe. You all throw around term that aren't accurate. If you don't agree that's fine but calling me a prostitute is not accurate. I expect a guy I am dating to pay for the date. That's hoeing now? You guys can be so ridiculous.
you said you want money from other men. I'm not talking about some weak ass dinner date. yo u just said you mak e your own money and you want more money from a man.
 

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I'm fake it till I make it, the way i roll is, i spend that 100 dollar on tinted windows for my ride. That 20 dollar on dates i save all of them and buy me accessories, whether is a Gucci hat, jewelry or whateva i can use to catch. I spend all that money i woulda spent on a date or woman on upgrading myself, my ride, my crib then i let all that shyt talk and do all the work for me.

I grew up spitting game before the internet so i know how to put words together but the game done changed so i upgraded with it. All that shyt is just a smokescreen to reel the bytch in so i can tell my story, by the time she realize we never go no where or im the one always asking for money every now and then because im short here and there it wont' make a difference cus i never spent my money to begin with.

Some hoes stick around and some don't u can't trip off that, u can spend 100 dollar on a date and 3 months later u want to just chill with the bytch at the crib and she gun still question ur intentions. Invest in urself, don't invest in no bytch, the bytch come and go, u can catch another one with the assets u invested in.
 

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You are hustling backwards. Again, if you're an attractive woman there are more easy ways to make money than showing your vagina to a room of anonymous men. In 2014 there is no reason o be a stripper.

name them :heh:

people always talk about the other ways to make money besides stripping but then tell you to go be a secretary or some shyt. :rudy:

Please tell me where an 18 year old attractive in shape female with no education or specialized training can go and make $50+/hr?
 

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@TheStripper Do your thing but, make sure you make your decision on other things besides money, because once you hit your 30's, if your man is with you for looks, and provided you with things, you better keep them looks up or its a good chance he will get a younger chick or cheat on you with someone younger. I wish you the best but, I noticed you posted that men just do nice things to be nice, and I'm hear to tell you its because you look nice, not to be nice. I seen it over, and over, again. Ladies who think like you, and then they get older, gain a little weight, don't know how to lose it, their looks got older, and all the nice men vanish. Then they turn bitter, and complain all day about men.

I like that you want to find a provider but, be careful to not confuse someone who is trying to trick you into thinking he's a provider by doing what you like, from someone who is a real provider but, won't give you anything you want. For instance, I love to provide for my woman when in a relationship but, if you came to me talking about paying for a babysitter or a $100 ticket, I would think you are trying to play me because its common sense not to expect someone you aren't in a serious relationship with to take care of your responsibilities. Trust me, I know guys who play that good guy role. They got the wife, and nice picture for facebook but, they are fukking hookers, and cheating like CRAZY. One of them fukked damn near everyone his wife knows! Maybe you don't mind, like their wives knew about them cheating but, living a certain life was more important to them but I always wonder how their kids will turn out when everything is exposed because it will be exposed eventually. Just don't fall for that good guy, provider, game a lot of women fall for. To me its the easiest game to run, yet women keep falling for it.

I know the game hun. We are talking about one aspect of dating b/c that is what the OP and others want to focus on. That's doesn't mean I don't look for other qualities b/c I do. I usually date men who have bread anyway so the money a guy has or him paying are really an non-issue. It's on a big deal to people on here. As far as my b/f, he is a great person and I have no doubt in his sincerity.

When I say doing something "nice" I mean with out the expectation of getting something out of it. He may do it b/c he likes the way my booty looks but if he is not trying to go any further then I would categorize it as nice b/c in the end he didn't have to do it. Do I know it's not a pure act of kindness? Of course but still something he didn't have to do but did.
 

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name them :heh:

people always talk about the other ways to make money besides stripping but then tell you to go be a secretary or some shyt. :rudy:

Please tell me where an 18 year old attractive in shape female with no education or specialized training can go and make $50+/hr?

Right, straight cash.
 

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I know the game hun. We are talking about one aspect of dating b/c that is what the OP and others want to focus on. That's doesn't mean I don't look for other qualities b/c I do. I usually date men who have bread anyway so the money a guy has or him paying are really an non-issue. It's on a big deal to people on here. As far as my b/f, he is a great person and I have no doubt in his sincerity.

When I say doing something "nice" I mean with out the expectation of getting something out of it. He may do it b/c he likes the way my booty looks but if he is not trying to go any further then I would categorize it as nice b/c in the end he didn't have to do it. Do I know it's not a pure act of kindness? Of course but still something he didn't have to do but did.
No doubt. I disgree on the money aint a thing just because they have money. Trust me, he is remembering all of the money he spends on you. Unless its something small like a meal, or that both of you are benefiting from, he will remember him giving you money like that, and will bring it up when need be. Some people don't care about stuff like that but, if you do, trust he will bring it up to other people. Money for a grown man, is not the same as it is for a woman. Unless he got it from his parents, or hustling for fast cash, a man does not play with money because we cant get it easy as women do. I can't go to a chick and get some money out of her, without trying to play a game on her head because as a man our society doesn't care about me, and expect me to do things myself. As a woman you can play the innocent card or pretty girl card, and get sympathy, so you get help. A man rich or poor, is not giving up money with nothing expected in return. Even if its a good rep, he wants something, If he is dating you. Now, if you date men who play with money and throw it away like nothing, then more power to you but chances are, he will be broke in a few years, and cant provide for you in the future. I doubt you will believe me, but maybe you will listen, I don't know for sure but, do your thing.
 

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name them :heh:

people always talk about the other ways to make money besides stripping but then tell you to go be a secretary or some shyt. :rudy:

Please tell me where an 18 year old attractive in shape female with no education or specialized training can go and make $50+/hr?
that's what I was getting at asking these cats what she could go do. nikkas on here just be talking to talk.
 

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No ones caping. But its hilarious watching a bunch of broke/average salary having mofos whine about some shyt that has no affect on them. If a man has it and is willing to spend it why do you care? What affect does this have on you? Are you mad because all the women you want are being showered with gifts and you can't afford to keep up so when you try to holla you get shut down?
We are speaking about it because its harder for men who don't want to spend money on a chick just because she looks nice. I seen too many chicks expect me to take them out to some fancy restaurant, buy her something we see in a store, or open doors for her or some other fake gentleman shyt because other guys who don't care about their money do these things for them. I don't care what someone else does with their money but, don't come to me expecting me to simp on you because someone else did. This is why so many guys are bullshyt artists. They wear the fake jewels, talk the good guy shyt, tell you want to hear, buy you a little something, and in the end he shyts on you. Its because too many women expect you to treat them like that one simp they dated.

There is nothing wrong with wanting someone to treat you nice but, too many women go overboard with the meaning of nice. Maybe this is how life is supposed to be because damn near ALL the people I seen who play these stupid games end up with a wack ass life when they got older, so this may be our form of "survival of the fittest" that animals go through in the jungle. The difference is in our world the fittest are the ones who can maneuver through this world without getting caught up in it. You know you won when you don't have the issues others have, and everything is smooth when you hit your mid 30's, and up. Your health is good, the money has turned into wealth, and ownership. You also enjoy life to the fullest. These people are the fittest of the concrete jungle because they didn't let the bullshyt of the world take them down.

Also, you better do something with that fast cash because I rarely seen anyone who get fast cash still live good when they hit their 30's. Everything is all good when they are young but that shyt stops for numerous reasons once them 30's hit. They love talking about how it was when they had shyt, but because they never used the money properly they are regular just like everyone else. They invested in shyt but because they weren't educated in these things, the shyt is gone now. Use that money properly. The money comes fast but that means your lifestyle has to be slow, and well below your means. Let it grow. Watch all them chicks you worked with who lived a glamorous life slowly fall off and still trying to be young looking like clowns. I'm telling you from someone who got the fast cash FOR REAL, and saw everyone around me do the same but wasted the shyt trying to be like stars on tv, who were broke. It was nothing but fools following fools.
 
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I don't blame you for not answering that question on here stripper. get ya money however you get it.
 

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so what are you doing for men for them to give you money? let me know where these nikkas do that so I can get a piece of that simp action,
If you find the right kind of man they will for you just b/c or if you just ask. You don't have to do anything besides show up, be pretty and be pleasant. The guy at the bar just gave me the money b/c I asked him for it. I gave him a hug and never saw him again. There is nothing you need to do except act like it is how u are use to beinmy treated. I like young black professionals so you can find them downtown.
 

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Personal Trainer..

But then you might complain about having to work out n shyt..:manny:

what brand new personal trainer is out here making money like that IN THE BEGINNING? Top trainers take years to build clientele or they go work for a gym or company and have to give a cut to them. Try again.
 

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We are speaking about it because its harder for men who don't want to spend money on a chick just because she looks nice. I seen too many chicks expect me to take them out to some fancy restaurant, buy her something we see in a store, or open doors for her or some other fake gentleman shyt because other guys who don't care about their money do these things for them. I don't care what someone else does with their money but, don't come to me expecting me to simp on you because someone else did. This is why so many guys are bullshyt artists. They wear the fake jewels, talk the good guy shyt, tell you want to hear, buy you a little something, and in the end he shyts on you. Its because too many women expect you to treat them like that one simp they dated.

There is nothing wrong with wanting someone to treat you nice but, too many women go overboard with the meaning of nice. Maybe this is how life is supposed to be because damn near ALL the people I seen who play these stupid games end up with a wack ass life when they got older, so this may be our form of "survival of the fittest" that animals go through in the jungle. The difference is in our world the fittest are the ones who can maneuver through this world without getting caught up in it. You know you won when you don't have the issues others have, and everything is smooth when you hit your mid 30's, and up. Your health is good, the money has turned into wealth, and ownership. You also enjoy life to the fullest. These people are the fittest of the concrete jungle because they didn't let the bullshyt of the world take them down.

Also, you better do something with that fast cash because I rarely seen anyone who get fast cash still live good when they hit their 30's. Everything is all good when they are young but that shyt stops for numerous reasons once them 30's hit. They love talking about how it was when they had shyt, but because they never used the money properly they are regular just like everyone else. They invested in shyt but because they weren't educated in these things, the shyt is gone now. Use that money properly. The money comes fast but that means your lifestyle has to be slow, and well below your means. Let it grow. Watch all them chicks you worked with who lived a glamorous life slowly fall off and still trying to be young looking like clowns. I'm telling you from someone who got the fast cash FOR REAL, and saw everyone around me do the same but wasted the shyt trying to be like stars on tv, who were broke. It was nothing but fools following fools.

you could have saved yourself the keystrokes and simply said youre tired of other men spoiling women you want because you cant afford to keep up with their demands. and every stripper story doesnt end in tragedy :rudy: if you were really bout that life you would know that. some people are just bad with money and will blow through it whether its $10 or $10,000,000.00. yes some girls crash and burn, but some marry their customers, some go to school, some open businesses, etc. like i said dont be mad at the women who have demands and the men willing to meet them. go find a chick who doesnt have those demands, there are PLENTY of girls who will be happy with chilling at a dude at his moms house with a $5 pizza from lil caesars and a bootless movie on a 16 inch tv.
 
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