@TheStripper Do your thing but, make sure you make your decision on other things besides money, because once you hit your 30's, if your man is with you for looks, and provided you with things, you better keep them looks up or its a good chance he will get a younger chick or cheat on you with someone younger. I wish you the best but, I noticed you posted that men just do nice things to be nice, and I'm hear to tell you its because you look nice, not to be nice. I seen it over, and over, again. Ladies who think like you, and then they get older, gain a little weight, don't know how to lose it, their looks got older, and all the nice men vanish. Then they turn bitter, and complain all day about men.
I like that you want to find a provider but, be careful to not confuse someone who is trying to trick you into thinking he's a provider by doing what you like, from someone who is a real provider but, won't give you anything you want. For instance, I love to provide for my woman when in a relationship but, if you came to me talking about paying for a babysitter or a $100 ticket, I would think you are trying to play me because its common sense not to expect someone you aren't in a serious relationship with to take care of your responsibilities. Trust me, I know guys who play that good guy role. They got the wife, and nice picture for facebook but, they are fukking hookers, and cheating like CRAZY. One of them fukked damn near everyone his wife knows! Maybe you don't mind, like their wives knew about them cheating but, living a certain life was more important to them but I always wonder how their kids will turn out when everything is exposed because it will be exposed eventually. Just don't fall for that good guy, provider, game a lot of women fall for. To me its the easiest game to run, yet women keep falling for it.