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I would think they want to at least break even.
If she wants sex and he wants sex then that would be pretty even. :yeshrug:

If she wanted money and he wanted sex then I would agree with you that it is uneven.
 
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Nope... Nary a valentines day gift.... nary a Christmas gift...nan one of my bills have ever been paid by a man...no cash to hand....no shopping sprees

The most I've ever gotten from a guy is a 60$ (total) bday dinner at my favorite Thai restaurant... oh... and some Theraflu cold medicine one time when I was sick...
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at least I've gotten chipotle....:yeshrug:
 

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If she wants sex and he wants sex then that would be pretty even. :yeshrug:

If she wanted money and he wanted sex then I wold agree with you that it is uneven.

I wouldn't consider covering the cost of a baby sister as "wanting money." The money goes to the sitter not the woman. It's isn't breaking even if she needs to drop money just for the specific purpose of fukking him. I mean the dude has the right to feel the same way however either way it wouldn't be me footing the bill.
 

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I wouldn't consider covering the cost of a baby sister as "wanting money." The money goes to the sitter not the woman. It's isn't breaking even if she needs to drop money just for the specific purpose of fukking him. I mean the dude has the right to feel the same way however either way it wouldn't be me footing the bill.
Does she need the cost of the baby sitter covered though?

You yourself may need money but her needs could be more toward sexual satisfaction. :yeshrug:

Its like you said here:
Pretty much. I've never heard a dude who had the money to spend complain about spending it.
If she isnt complaining then she obvious has money to spend like the dude in this example. :yeshrug:
 

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Nope... Nary a valentines day gift.... nary a Christmas gift...nan one of my bills have ever been paid by a man...no cash to hand....no shopping sprees

The most I've ever gotten from a guy is a 60$ (total) bday dinner at my favorite Thai restaurant... oh... and some Theraflu cold medicine one time when I was sick...
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at least I've gotten chipotle....:yeshrug:

:patrice: Nah nah nah don't despair. You probably just don't know how to use what you have. I could give you a few pointers if you'd like.
 

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Does she need the cost of the baby sitter covered though?

You yourself may need money but her needs could be more toward sexual satisfaction. :yeshrug:

Its like you said here:

If she isnt complaining then she obvious has money to spend like the dude in this example. :yeshrug:

Maybe. Maybe not. It isn't whether she can pay. The point is that he pays. The point is that she doesn't have to come out of her pocket to make it happen. fukking a dude who cares nothing about you should not cost money regardless if she can pay for it or not.
 

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Maybe. Maybe not. It isn't whether she can pay. The point is that he pays. The point is that she doesn't have to come out of her pocket to make it happen. fukking a dude who cares nothing about you should not cost money regardless if she can pay for it or not.
Oh when you put it that way it is interesting.

Well hey if she demands that and he is ok with it then more power to her.

Yet if money isnt an issue I doubt that she would even care enough to ask him to pay for that just like the dude you was talking about being able to pay because money isnt an issue for him. :yeshrug:
 

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Oh when you put it that way it is interesting.

Well hey if she demands that and he is ok with it then more power to her.

Yet if money isnt an issue I doubt that she would even care enough to ask him to pay for that just like the dude you was talking about. :yeshrug:

It's not about money being an issue. It's about principle. I have enough money to buy a plane ticket but if someone invites me to their city I expect them to pay for the ticket. I see this as the same.
 

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It's not about money being an issue. It's about principle. I have enough money to buy a plane ticket but if someone invites me to their city I expect them to pay for the ticket. I see this as the same.
That logic is crazy to me, but to each their own.
 

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It's not about money being an issue. It's about principle. I have enough money to buy a plane ticket but if someone invites me to their city I expect them to pay for the ticket. I see this as the same.
But in this case its like you want to go to the city and this person you know wants you to go there too.

You paying to go to their city is you paying for what you want which is to go to the city.

Same thing here.

She wants sex and this person wants sex so she pays the babysitter to get what she wants which is sex not money.
 
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