Ya'll gonna help me spit some game, will update thread daily with results
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Hail the victors
I would say don't worry about "spitting game" and just talk to them like you would anyone else. Get to know them, make them laugh just be yourself.
ya sure, thats too bad.
Anyways the other girl was cool. Was making her laugh all night. When she i swear she felt up my arm. She then added my on fb a little while later.
Now im not saying she wants the D, but that must mean something.
Or am i just over analyzing it.
I see it like this. You go to the shoe store if you see a pair of shoes you want and they don't fit your attitude doesn't shift to "I have to have those shoes what do I have to do to my foot to make it fit in them?"
Lots of guys look at a woman they like and feel as if "I have to have that woman what do I have to do to myself to get her to like me?"
The attitude if we go back to the shoes should be "these shoes don't fit but there's plenty of shoes in the world. I'll just keep shopping around get a pair that fits me."
I thought a bytch wasn't one of your problems in life....
Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
Kenny West
Veteran
You aint tell us the first thing about either chick
But I'm just gonna drop this:
Actions speak louder than words, even when you gaming/chopping it up with a chick. Many many MANY people don't look at social interactions from an ACTION standpoint, and that's where lot's of nikkas fukk up they game. You can't just focus on what you say, you gotta almost be your third own third person on the side examining the frame of your conversation.
Now when I mean social actions it's less about what they say and more about what they're doing when saying it. When you can understand that you really start getting better with chicks.
For example, if you ever get the chance (don't do it on the two chicks you finna fukk though) ask some chick about her last relationship and why it's over. Regardless of what they say, 90% usually preform the same ACTION; they shift the blame somehow to their ex boyfriend (even if they themselves cheated
) They'll say "We broke up, he didn't appreciate me", crazy ones will say "he couldn't handle me" even if they admit to cheating there will be some side cliffnote making him the reason she cheated "He was cheating too!/ he made me feel insecure" etc.
When you can recognize social actions in a convo that is looking at the FRAME. What you wanna do with frame is assume a dominant one. A lot of this is a$$holeish stuff but bytches eat it up. Dudes on the other hand just find it fukking annoying (because it is) Now some typical frame fukkups you wanna avoid
- Don't explain yourself and ESPECIALLY don't apologize and make excuses. this is called supplication. never supplicate. she don't pay your bills and if she aint give you the p*ssy you don't owe her shyt, not even an explanation.
- When she ask a question dodge that shyt, even the little shyt. At the very least turn it around and make her answer the question she posed to you before you answer it
- Make her do shyt for you. and don't ask, just tell. Doesn't even have to be big shyt and she doesn't have to do anything. Like if I walk away from my cup at a bar I'mma tell the chick next to it "watch my cup, don't let none of these pimple lipped hoes touch it"....and when you come back....instant convo
- Know when to walk away. if you at a party and she turns to talk to someone else GTFO and go mingle. Standing around will drop your chances of hitting it by the second like getting poisoned in Pokemon
anyway thats all I feel like typing. good luck
But I'm just gonna drop this:
Actions speak louder than words, even when you gaming/chopping it up with a chick. Many many MANY people don't look at social interactions from an ACTION standpoint, and that's where lot's of nikkas fukk up they game. You can't just focus on what you say, you gotta almost be your third own third person on the side examining the frame of your conversation.
Now when I mean social actions it's less about what they say and more about what they're doing when saying it. When you can understand that you really start getting better with chicks.
For example, if you ever get the chance (don't do it on the two chicks you finna fukk though) ask some chick about her last relationship and why it's over. Regardless of what they say, 90% usually preform the same ACTION; they shift the blame somehow to their ex boyfriend (even if they themselves cheated
) They'll say "We broke up, he didn't appreciate me", crazy ones will say "he couldn't handle me" even if they admit to cheating there will be some side cliffnote making him the reason she cheated "He was cheating too!/ he made me feel insecure" etc.When you can recognize social actions in a convo that is looking at the FRAME. What you wanna do with frame is assume a dominant one. A lot of this is a$$holeish stuff but bytches eat it up. Dudes on the other hand just find it fukking annoying (because it is) Now some typical frame fukkups you wanna avoid
- Don't explain yourself and ESPECIALLY don't apologize and make excuses. this is called supplication. never supplicate. she don't pay your bills and if she aint give you the p*ssy you don't owe her shyt, not even an explanation.
- When she ask a question dodge that shyt, even the little shyt. At the very least turn it around and make her answer the question she posed to you before you answer it
- Make her do shyt for you. and don't ask, just tell. Doesn't even have to be big shyt and she doesn't have to do anything. Like if I walk away from my cup at a bar I'mma tell the chick next to it "watch my cup, don't let none of these pimple lipped hoes touch it"....and when you come back....instant convo
- Know when to walk away. if you at a party and she turns to talk to someone else GTFO and go mingle. Standing around will drop your chances of hitting it by the second like getting poisoned in Pokemon
anyway thats all I feel like typing. good luck
