Throughout life there have always been women who everyone would universally agreed were the baddest women on campus, highschool, the gym, work, ect. and I'm not talking about these Dr, Miami insta-built chicks.Who one considers a 9 or above is all relative.
I don't see this in life. The 9s at the gym have to talk to every man they're acquainted with during their workout. To think these women aren't constantly approached is silly, plus they're married with kids.
As to the op, Friendly yes, humble no.
if they have kids, they are probably not a 9I don't see this in life. The 9s at the gym have to talk to every man they're acquainted with during their workout. To think these women aren't constantly approached is silly, plus they're married with kids.
As to the op, Friendly yes, humble no.
Because women over a certain age can't be 9s, or because children destroy their bodies, or because children somehow make them less attractive?if they have kids, they are probably not a 9
your scale needs to be recalibrated
combo of all 3Because women over a certain age can't be 9s, or because children destroy their bodies, or because children somehow make them less attractive?
Explain
Humbleness is extremely attractive.
I’ve seen dudes touch on it in here, but it’s funny how more men don’t consider their own “rating” when approaching extremely beautiful women.
The same way y’all talk shyt about how 5/6s behave and how you deal with them is the same way beautiful women respond differently to men who are also average/unattractive.
Only difference is whether a man is attractive or not, rich or not, he’s still a man who is physically stronger than you so you still have to proceed with caution…because men also go psycho on beautiful women who don’t respond to their advances.
Hell, I saw a Tiktok or YT short of a girl who was recording a man who was following her for blocks who wouldn’t leave her alone until she found a random man in the street who protected her and made the other guy leave her alone. For beautiful girls— that shyt is a normal occurrence and you learn to either be a bytch to let the world know you aren’t scared or you are super nice to the world so you placate everyone and avoid everyone thinking you’re stuck-up.
But you do understand that a legitimately good-looking woman can also spot out a legitimately good-looking man, well-off man, etc and respond positively when she meets her equivalent?
The issue is highly desirable guys are as rare as highly desirable gals.
Someone said it- it isn’t necessarily humility, but confidence and lack of a need to do “too much”. Certain people don’t feel the need to overcompensate because of how they are received in the world. If ppl are nice to you for merely existing…you have a little less to be mad about. Truthfully, we should all be confident enough to not overcompensate, but society def puts a premium on aesthetics.
Might have something to do with the way society shyts on women and perceives them as untrustworthy when they "act too proud", whatever that means. I put that in quotation marks because I have seen people call someone stuck up simply for not smiling or responding the way they wanted them to. What gets labeled as humble is suspect. Some men want beautiful women literally walking with their eyes cast down and to not act confident in themselves. That's not humble that's something else. Beautiful women especially have to constantly toe the line between humility and self-awareness of just how close they are to being hated and distrusted.
The disturbing reason people don’t trust attractive women in the workplace
A new study suggests beautiful businesswomen are viewed with suspicion. In an appearance-obsessed world, it almost seems as though women can’t win.www.stylist.co.uk
“For this latest study, researchers at Washington State University and the University of Colorado took images of “professional women” from Google and ranked them by attractiveness, using feedback from users of an online crowdsourcing platform. (It’s worth remembering here that conventional notions about what constitutes an attractive face are often influenced by Western – that is, white – beauty ideals.) They then presented participants in the study with fake news reports about redundancies in various different industries, including those perceived as being male-dominated (for example, the tech industry) and traditionally feminine (e.g. the healthcare sector).
Highly attractive women can be perceived as dangerous and that matters when we are assessing things like how much we trust them and whether we believe that what they are saying is truthful,” said Leah Sheppard, an assistant professor of management in the WSU Carson College of Business, who was the lead author on the paper.