Y'all Ever Got Hit With That [spoiler] ether from your crush as a young breh? :wow:

[General Mills]

I swear to God bro, you're like my twin or something.

I've got an ex, the one I originally planned to marry and life my days with, who is in the EXACT same spot!
We were together since freshman year of college and her family (traditional muslim from egypt) constantly broke us up every other week, even went as far as abducting her to another state to live so we couldn't be together. So after a while of being off and on...I moved south.
Waaaay south.
Crazy thing...she followed me!
We finally started out our life together and things were going well for a while.
Until her damn family got involved again...then it was back to the same bullshyt. They wanted to enforce their family tradition of arranged marriages and I was their enemy.
I wasn't about to be anybodys dirty little secret...so I bounced.

So she contacts me like 10 years after we split up and tells me the whole sad story of her life after us.
She went through with the arranged marriage her family wanted and the guy did nothing but treat her like shyt, beat her bloody and cheat on her with backpage hoes. All that family money didn't make up for her misery and degradation.
She whored out after getting away from him for a few years, but he stalked her and her boyfriends and she wound up moving across the country with her kid to get away from him.
She constantly lets me know that I'm the only guy that never did her wrong and that she still loves me and will always love me. She says we'll always be friends and that she will always love me.
Calls and texts me every few weeks and keeps it friendly, never steps over the line because she knows i'm happily married.
But...
I hate it...but I love it...because where was all that love and devotion when we were together?
Why couldn't she tell her family to fukk off and let us be together?
Why did she let them back in after we ran away and started a life together?
Why didn't she choose me over them?
Why'd she fukk everything up?
Why didn't she just follow her heart?

Maybe I was just dumb for thinking she ever really loved me too...Guess she was kissing a fool...


Imma go cry in my coffee now...

Oh yeah....Pics.

Spoiler

Breh..

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

Breh..

I die a little inside when I see her kid and she sees my kid and talks about how they should be playing together.
I like to think that if anything happened to my wife we could be together again...but then I remember her family and how she does everything they say.
I couldn't...can't trust her.
Not unless her family is dead.
And only then.

Can't do nothin but be sad and keep it movin...We'll always be friends...

 

[KravenMorehead™]

Classic shyt

 

[MalikX]

I swear to God bro, you're like my twin or something.

I've got an ex, the one I originally planned to marry and life my days with, who is in the EXACT same spot!
We were together since freshman year of college and her family (traditional muslim from egypt) constantly broke us up every other week, even went as far as abducting her to another state to live so we couldn't be together. So after a while of being off and on...I moved south.
Waaaay south.
Crazy thing...she followed me!
We finally started out our life together and things were going well for a while.
Until her damn family got involved again...then it was back to the same bullshyt. They wanted to enforce their family tradition of arranged marriages and I was their enemy.
I wasn't about to be anybodys dirty little secret...so I bounced.

So she contacts me like 10 years after we split up and tells me the whole sad story of her life after us.
She went through with the arranged marriage her family wanted and the guy did nothing but treat her like shyt, beat her bloody and cheat on her with backpage hoes. All that family money didn't make up for her misery and degradation.
She whored out after getting away from him for a few years, but he stalked her and her boyfriends and she wound up moving across the country with her kid to get away from him.
She constantly lets me know that I'm the only guy that never did her wrong and that she still loves me and will always love me. She says we'll always be friends and that she will always love me.
Calls and texts me every few weeks and keeps it friendly, never steps over the line because she knows i'm happily married.
But...
I hate it...but I love it...because where was all that love and devotion when we were together?
Why couldn't she tell her family to fukk off and let us be together?
Why did she let them back in after we ran away and started a life together?
Why didn't she choose me over them?
Why'd she fukk everything up?
Why didn't she just follow her heart?

Maybe I was just dumb for thinking she ever really loved me too...Guess she was kissing a fool...


Imma go cry in my coffee now...

Oh yeah....Pics.

Spoiler

She was likely just too young to deal with her controlling family. I don't know what to tell you. A part of me says that she wasn't as much in love with you but, you represent a period of time in her life where she was finally FREE from her family and able to live life on her own terms. So she romanticizes it. She loved you probably but, if she REALLY loved you, she would've never left your side. Then another side of me is empathetic to the fact that she was likely a young girl when yall were together and at that point in life, some people are still heavily influenced by their families and what they want for them. Maybe she did really love you, champ but, her family got in the way. I can't call it. You're better off cutting contact with her so you don't have to keep bringing up sad feelings and memories of someone you really cared about. She made her choice and you made yours and that's how it is.

 

[MalikX]

I'll put it like this: God sent me the woman I was supposed to marry at 28....back when I was an immature 14/15 year old. The tv show Power is basically what happened.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

She was likely just too young to deal with her controlling family. I don't know what to tell you. A part of me says that she wasn't as much in love with you but, you represent a period of time in her life where she was finally FREE from her family and able to live life on her own terms. So she romanticizes it. She loved you probably but, if she REALLY loved you, she would've never left your side. Then another side of me is empathetic to the fact that she was likely a young girl when yall were together and at that point in life, some people are still heavily influenced by their families and what they want for them. Maybe she did really love you, champ but, her family got in the way. I can't call it. You're better off cutting contact with her so you don't have to keep bringing up sad feelings and memories of someone you really cared about. She made her choice and you made yours and that's how it is.

Thank you, I really appreciate that analysis and advice.
You're right, I probably should just cut contact...it's not like we're really in each others life at all...she just texts me when she's down or lonely or the usual female bullcrap.
And after more than 10 years of not seeing, speaking to or being involved with her...there's nothing there on my side beyond wanting to see her huge t*ts...