Great postAgain...this is where black feminists lose me as an ally...
...black women can't even take a joke anymore and anything short of worship is viewed as an all-out assault on their black womanhood.
Yes, black men are the biggest critics of black women because we're the ones who have to marry you -- and we don't want our pool of women thinking it's okay for them to be walking around with un-kept hair.
I have a square-head and a tragic hairline -- if I snapped a photo without my fitted-cap on, then posted something on Twitter like, "Still a 10 without the hat", any reasonable person would expect a certain amount of push-back.
Not black women though...our women think they're above reproach -- I say this with love, but get over yourselves.