Would you wife a girl with kid(s)

[Thebadguy]

I would. I might get lucky like Shaq's step-dad.

 

[iMajor]

If i was interested in ever getting married again, then yes of course i would. As long as she acts grown, minimizes the bullshyt and knows how to take care of her business i'm all in.

Some of yall say the dumbest shyt. You'd date a broad with kids but wouldn't wife...why? U still already took the so-called L at the point where u are doing shyt for and with another mans kid. U mean to tell me yall datin these chicks on some, "The kids? Naw i ain't payin for them." type shyt? I mean i can understand some of yall without kids co-signing....but some of yall other nikkas are straight hypocrites. Nikkas knowing they got a gang of kids on here talmbout how they wouldn't wife a chick with even one kid? FOH.

I can understand tho, cuz some of yall ain't even trying to take care of your own kids much less wife any of your baby mommas.

Although you have some points breh I think it's just a responsibility thing... nikkas probably feel like they aren't really entitled to take care of the kid when they are dating as opposed to being serious so... They find it ok...

I personally don't take a girl seriously if she has kids. I remember quite recently I met a beautiful girl at the club. She seemed like the total package... Started talking for a bit came to find out she had a new relationship and like a 1 year old son...

If only I had met her a year and half ago...

But when I found out she just had a new bf and I knew he wasnt the baby daddy I felt relieved cause up until that point I didn't know how to break it to her.. That I was not down for being serious.

 

[Scotch Hall]

I can't do it. That's a bill and baggage. Plus there's always gonna be another nikka in her life (the baby daddy). fukk that shyt.

This

 

[Metta World Movement]

I would. I might get lucky like Shaq's step-dad.

in that case, lemme have someone shoot me nine times. I might get lucky and survive, then get rich as hell and get to fukk Ciara

 

[Egomaniacal1]

You can date/mess with a chick who has kids and not really interact with them. Once you marry the girl those kids are yours.

Nope, no thanks.

This sounds like reality to you? How many chicks with kids u done DATED(ie in a committed relationship, not just shopliftin the pooty) that'll let u get away with shunning their kids??

My point is still valid because if its a real dating situation then you gonna be forced or obligated by that woman to take some level of responsibility for her kid(s), and as well you should if u being serious about being with her.

Also what do u mean by the kids are your once u get married? You're not ever forced to take on any and every level of responsibility that you don't agree too whether u are either dating or married. Marriage just makes it so u better know what she expects from u in regards to her kids and vice versa because the walking away part isn't as easy as with just dating, as well it shouldn't be because u choose to make that higher level of commitment.

Although you have some points breh I think it's just a responsibility thing... nikkas probably feel like they aren't really entitled to take care of the kid when they are dating as opposed to being serious so... They find it ok...

I personally don't take a girl seriously if she has kids. I remember quite recently I met a beautiful girl at the club. She seemed like the total package... Started talking for a bit came to find out she had a new relationship and like a 1 year old son...

If only I had met her a year and half ago...

But when I found out she just had a new bf and I knew he wasnt the baby daddy I felt relieved cause up until that point I didn't know how to break it to her.. That I was not down for being serious.

With all due respect breh...i'mma have to call ducktales on this one.

My spidey-sense is telling me that without the bf in the picture you'd more than likely would have gave ole girl a shot and from there its unknown what could have happened between u two. I think u are using the kids as the excuse now when clearly the new bf would have been the bigger concern in that scenario. To be clear i doubt that if u ever had a real chance with her and she ended up treating u like a king you'd have the stance u have now or we'd even be having this discussion.

At the end of the day its yalls prerogative to reject chicks on whatever grounds, its just a shame some of the nonsense reasoning some of you cats be giving out around here. I'm a bit older and been around the block a few times...i just know there are good chicks who are single moms who just made a few bad decisions in their lives. Some of these single moms are out there with their shyt together just waiting for a nikka to come into a good situation and make it greater for both of yall.

 

[iMajor]

This sounds like reality to you? How many chicks with kids u done DATED(ie in a committed relationship, not just shopliftin the pooty) that'll let u get away with shunning their kids??

My point is still valid because if its a real dating situation then you gonna be forced or obligated by that woman to take some level of responsibility for her kid(s), and as well you should if u being serious about being with her.

Also what do u mean by the kids are your once u get married? You're not ever forced to take on any and every level of responsibility that you don't agree too whether u are either dating or married. Marriage just makes it so u better know what she expects from u in regards to her kids and vice versa because the walking away part isn't as easy as with just dating, as well it shouldn't be because u choose to make that higher level of commitment.



With all due respect breh...i'mma have to call ducktales on this one.

My spidey-sense is telling me that without the bf in the picture you'd more than likely would have gave ole girl a shot and from there its unknown what could have happened between u two. I think u are using the kids as the excuse now when clearly the new bf would have been the bigger concern in that scenario. To be clear i doubt that if u ever had a real chance with her and she ended up treating u like a king you'd have the stance u have now or we'd even be having this discussion.

At the end of the day its yalls prerogative to reject chicks on whatever grounds, its just a shame some of the nonsense reasoning some of you cats be giving out around here. I'm a bit older and been around the block a few times...i just know there are good chicks who are single moms who just made a few bad decisions in their lives. Some of these single moms are out there with their shyt together just waiting for a nikka to come into a good situation and make it greater for both of yall.

Believe what you want... But gtfo why would I type all that for duck tales?!!? I don't gain anything to lie on the Internet.

There are single moms that are good and made some mistakes you're absolutely right. But they just don't fit my m.o.

 

[kevm3]

I'd prefer not to. 1, you are already walking into the relationship as second priority. She has to put her kid first, which is a respectable thing to do, but that just lowers her value in terms of how she fares against the competition. 2, you will have to deal with the kid's father hovering around, and more times than not, he's going to want to have a night or two to re-experience the past... 3, you have to be careful with how you deal with that kid you're raising that's not yours. It can be a lot of trouble if the "baby daddy" feels you are disciplining his kid too hard. Lastly, there's a possibility you can get saddled with child support for a kid that's not yours. No thanks.

 

[King Jove]

hell naw

 

[iMajor]

I'd prefer not to. 1, you are already walking into the relationship as second priority. She has to put her kid first, which is a respectable thing to do, but that just lowers her value in terms of how she fares against the competition. 2, you will have to deal with the kid's father hovering around, and more times than not, he's going to want to have a night or two to re-experience the past... 3, you have to be careful with how you deal with that kid you're raising that's not yours. It can be a lot of trouble if the "baby daddy" feels you are disciplining his kid too hard. Lastly, there's a possibility you can get saddled with child support for a kid that's not yours. No thanks.

And with point number 1 makes it easier for guys to not take em seriously because she can't worry about you when her focus is on the kid... Which is what my friends were telling me as well. Which could make her not as clingy and less dependent because she knows or should know she has to raise her kid (by herself). In which my case she did.

 

[MikelArteta]

Kevm with good points

 

[Hammer]

Kevm with good points

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[NovaKane]

[Martin]HELL NO![/Payne]

 

[itsyoung!!]

its 2012, in the bay area, almost every single girl I meet has a kid

 

[Emperor Sol]

hell naw

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[Steve Piffler]

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