Would you relocate for an S/O?

[Boy C]

I did. We were on track for marriage though- already living together. Best choice I’ve ever made. I may not have left my home city if I didn't have someone to do it with. Even though I ended up back home after 3.5 years, I got to live in some great cities! I guess like people have said, depends on what your future is with this person. OR if you’d be willing to be there on your own if something didn’t work out….

Did not think about that.

 

[61 Corpses]

@His_Excellence_Reincar what about you breh

 

[Jamal514]

It all depends on where I'd be relocating too.

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

Did not think about that.

Especially if financially, you couldn't do it alone. If myself and my ex had broken up after the move to SF Neither of us would have been able to make it alone.

 

[Boy C]

@His_Excellence_Reincar what about you breh

 

[Boy C]

Especially if financially, you couldn't do it alone. If myself and my ex had broken up after the move to SF Neither of us would have been able to make it alone.

Feel that.

 

[Data-Hawk]

or someone you're getting serious with?

- you're guaranteed a job, a place in a good area but you gotta up and leave where you're currently living.

Yes or no and why?

Sure if

You are young
No kids
Good area.
Met the person before.

I say yes because you are young n not really affecting anybody else's life. if it doesn't work you can bounce back with no problem

 

[MikelArteta]

Hell no

Uproot your life for a girl brehs

@His_Excellence_Reincar what about you breh

 

[Jone2three45]

I would,
The love and care I would have for her,
She would have to give in equal return,
Especially if the same circumstances where to happen on my end,
Respectively.

 

[61 Corpses]

Hell no

Uproot your life for a girl brehs

 

[Boy C]

Sure if

You are young

This could be a disaster or a fantastic thing. Could go both ways really.

Move out to a strange city, break up with partner, go broke and move back with your parents.

Move out to a strange city, get married, have kids, be happy. (then divorce 10 years after )


Edit: I'd want to be older with more life experience. Age 30+

 

[Sad Bunny]

My girl and i are planning on moving on together soon.

 

[Data-Hawk]

This could be a disaster or a fantastic thing. Could go both ways really.

Move out to a strange city, break up with partner, go broke and move back with your parents.

Move out to a strange city, get married, have kids, be happy. (then divorce 10 years after )


Edit: I'd want to be older with more life experience. Age 30+

Lol. I meant young as in under 35-40. But the biggest factor is kid(s) and having a job lined up at the new location.

About 8 yrs ago, I had a job offer for a Oracle DBA position in SC ( Live in MD ), it was a hookup through my teacher, starting salary was around 50k+. At the time I was working in a warehouse making $8.50. I was ready to bounce of course LOL, but me and my sons mother aren't together and I couldn't leave him behind..so I turned it down. No kid, I would of been gone in a second...lol

 

[Mickey Kane]

@His_Excellence_Reincar what about you breh

 

[Lana Kane]

This could be a disaster or a fantastic thing. Could go both ways really.

Move out to a strange city, break up with partner, go broke and move back with your parents.

Move out to a strange city, get married, have kids, be happy. (then divorce 10 years after )


Edit: I'd want to be older with more life experience. Age 30+

My aunt actually did that, she was about 27/28 when she moved with her then-bf to Calgary. They ended up breaking up, she didn't move back, struggled for a bit and met her future husband on a plane flying back to Toronto for a business trip. That being said, she's now happily married and still living in Calgary.

It could've ended badly for her but she pushed on and is now married to a wonderful guy that was from the same city.