Would you let your girlfriend wear a jumpsuit as your wedding date?

[Bolzmark]

His invite so he should have at least have a say in what she wears but he’s going about it wrong. Telling her she’s gonna look “stupid” was surely not the right choice of words.

 

[SATAN]

His real issue with her isn't just the outfit, it's that she's an attention whore.

Bush her. She doesn't respect him.

 

[Gold]

You don't have home training.

You think that is suitable at a black tie event?

How I know women like you are full of shyt is I am almost certain you wouldn't wear that attire to a job interview.

I'm surprised that this is even a discussion. An event where people people spend thousands, filled with their close relatives, friends, business partners etc. And you would draw questions over the expectation of formalities.

1. A wedding is not a black tie event unless they specifically state that it is one
2. A wedding is not a job interview

3. These are the maids of honor at my own wedding, my wife's sisters

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Oh look, jumpsuits, the audacity

 

[Umoja]

1. A wedding is not a black tie event unless they specifically state that it is one
2. A wedding is not a job interview

3. These are the maids of honor at my own wedding, my wife's sisters

Oh look, jumpsuits, the audacity

You're comparing apples and oranges. That's formal attire from a different culture, an acceptable means of showing respect to the host.

 

[Umoja]

I dont really know why this is a hard point for people to understand.

Some degree or formality is expected at a wedding. He received the invite, she didn't, meaning he has a better grasp of what's expected.

Her not taking into account the impression he wants to leave at an event he was invited to shows a lack of consideration and respect.

He is soft for not disinviting her. I doubt she would give someone like Idris these problems.

 

[Gold]

I dont really know why this is a hard point for people to understand.

Some degree or formality is expected at a wedding. He received the invite, she didn't, meaning he has a better grasp of what's expected.

Her not taking into account the impression he wants to leave at an event he was invited to shows a lack of consideration and respect.

He is soft for not disinviting her. I doubt she would give someone like Idris these problems.

I actually agree that he should have a say as he is the one who got the invite. I'm 100% with u on that.
I'm just saying that most weddings are not a formal as you guys think.

If this is a black tie wedding, no issue with what he's saying.

 

[Prodyson]

See, I don’t think it’s ugly, but certainly not formal enough for a wedding, anniversary dinner or other black tie affair, IMO. I think he’s an a$$hole for how he talked to her and some of the things he said, but not out of line for suggesting a new outfit and even offering to pay for it. She can wear that jumpsuit to happy hour when outside opens up.

All weddings aren’t black tie affair. I didn’t read everything that was written, but did it say it was a black tie event? If so, then he definitely has a point. If not, jumpsuits (quality ones) are worn to weddings all the time these days. If it wasn’t black tie, then it’s just preference at that point. Clearly your preference is against it, for a wedding, but plenty of people think it’s just fine.

 

[Gold]

See, I don’t think it’s ugly, but certainly not formal enough for a wedding, anniversary dinner or other black tie affair, IMO. I think he’s an a$$hole for how he talked to her and some of the things he said, but not out of line for suggesting a new outfit and even offering to pay for it. She can wear that jumpsuit to happy hour when outside opens up.

Where do yall live where every wedding is a black tie event


See the picture i posted above, if u saw that would u think its not appropriate? Genuinely asking, because this is foreign to me

 

[Rawtid]

All weddings aren’t black tie affair. I didn’t read everything that was written, but did it say it was a black tie event? If so, then he definitely has a point. If not, jumpsuits (quality ones) are worn to weddings all the time these days. If it wasn’t black tie, then it’s just preference at that point. Clearly your preference is against it, for a wedding, but plenty of people think it’s just fine.

And plenty of people agree it’s not adequate for a wedding, so I’m with them. As I’ve stated before, I don’t have an issue with the jumpsuit, I just don’t feel that particular one works for a wedding.

 

[Rawtid]

Where do yall live where every wedding is a black tie event


See the picture i posted above, if u saw that would u think its not appropriate? Genuinely asking, because this is foreign to me

I don’t have an issue that it’s a jumpsuit, that one just is not for a wedding. If you’re seriously saying the jumpsuits in the pic you posted are equivalent to what’s in the OP, then there is nothing I can say or do. But what you posted is significantly more formal.

 

[Gold]

And plenty of people agree it’s not adequate for a wedding, so I’m with them. As I’ve stated before, I don’t have an issue with the jumpsuit, I just don’t feel that particular one works for a wedding.

That's fair

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

You think if the situation was reversed, and he was going to an event that was important to her, she would allow him to go dressed up like a farmer?

I said he was being an a$$hole, but that’s cuz I’m not a fashionista so I generally don’t give af what my girl wears as long as she’s not embarrassingly inappropriate (which is also subjective, of course). However, minus the hyperbole this is a very valid point.

Wether it’s dinner with friends, going to family’s house, a double date, a work event, whatever, there’s nothing wrong with voicing an opinion on what your SO wears. And if the stakes are raised with one party having more skin in the game (i.e. you’re visiting HER family, or it’s an event with YOUR coworkers, or it’s YOUR friend’s wedding) there’s nothing wrong with having a strong opinion about what she wears. If she’s truly a partner, she should have no problems compromising and changing her fit. It’s not like he’s asking someone who never wears dresses to throw a dress on.

Chick in this case comes off as a selfish brat. She’s grandstanding on this solely on some “you can’t tell me to what to wear” bullshyt. The fact that she’s throwing a tantrum (locking herself in the bathroom for hours) and unwilling to compromise on something he rarely requests but felt compelled to request in this instance. fukk disinviting her, time to bush her, she’s showing her true colors.

 

[SAINT]

Jumpsuits are just rompers, but with pants

 

[Gold]

Jumpsuits are just rompers, but with pants

You arent wrong...

 

[verbalkint]

Yeah that pantsuit aint it...wouldn't throw a tantrum or anything tho.