Would you consider this c00n shyt?

[TL15]

Anyone who says "the race card" is definitely on that

but is there a reason that in this thread you weren't specific about "what you thought was racist"?

Maybe she just thought you were on that "woe is me" about something that you could've fixed yourself. As a black man you definitely need to be careful who you voice your frustrations to.

 

[Balla]

Basically I felt I was not being treated fairly because of my race because there's was no logical explanation as to why I was the only one getting in trouble at my job while cacs could do what they want.

What did u think was racist? People in here responding and dont even know what the convo was about. Lets here it.

 

[Bubba T]

I bet she is a fan of Shonda Rhimes work

 

[Balla]

I wrote what happened above.



It could sound woe is me, but I was saying logical shyt that I felt was true.

But she got furious at me for saying that and she said she hates when black people play the race card.

She acted like I was talking shyt to her with her anger.

She's dealt with colorism her whole life, so it confuses me on why she's such a c00n.

As you can see with many black women, if you can't beat em, try to join em.

Sad shyt, she need to get her head out her ass.

Anyone who says "the race card" is definitely on that

but is there a reason that in this thread you weren't specific about "what you thought was racist"?

Maybe she just thought you were on that "woe is me" about something that you could've fixed yourself. As a black man you definitely need to be careful who you voice your frustrations to.

 

[smokeurobinson]

Basically I felt I was not being treated fairly because of my race because there's was no logical explanation as to why I was the only one getting in trouble at my job while cacs could do what they want.

OK...So this was some work place shyt. I get it.

I thought this was your homegirl from the block the way u were telling the story in the op.

 

[TL15]

I wrote what happened above.



It could sound woe is me, but I was saying logical shyt that I felt was true.

But she got furious at me for saying that and she said she hates when black people play the race card.

She acted like I was talking shyt to her with her anger.

She's dealt with colorism her whole life, so it confuses me on why she's such a c00n.

As you can see with many black women, if you can't beat em, try to join em.

Sad shyt, she need to get her head out her ass.

The hard thing about workplace drama is that you never know what someone else had to go through to get there.

Your complaint about white people could fall on deaf ears because she might have the same complaint about "men" and you fall in that category.

You have a lot in common with her race wise, but airing grievances to her might not come off the right way because she might see favoritism that you are privy to that you aren't acknowledging. So what may not come off as "woe is me" to you, might come off that way to her.

Regardless, just learn not to complain about her.

I'm genuinely curious about the bolded. From what you mentioned, all you did was complain to her and she reacted the wrong way. What does that have to do with "can't beat em, join em" and what does that have to do with other black women? I don't want to get too deep if you don't want to, but it seems like you're taking her reaction a little too personal, and if so, maybe what you were saying DID come off more complaining than you might think

 

[DUCKED_OFF]

yes, be careful around her

 

[Balla]

I was fukkin her, she wasn't working with me there.

OK...So this was some work place shyt. I get it.

I thought this was your homegirl from the block the way u were telling the story in the op.

 

[Balla]

She's said many c00n things about dating cacs, to me she's sticking up for them with the race card talk.

I say other black women cuz they act like it too.

The hard thing about workplace drama is that you never know what someone else had to go through to get there.

Your complaint about white people could fall on deaf ears because she might have the same complaint about "men" and you fall in that category.

You have a lot in common with her race wise, but airing grievances to her might not come off the right way because she might see favoritism that you are privy to that you aren't acknowledging. So what may not come off as "woe is me" to you, might come off that way to her.

Regardless, just learn not to complain about her.

I'm genuinely curious about the bolded. From what you mentioned, all you did was complain to her and she reacted the wrong way. What does that have to do with "can't beat em, join em" and what does that have to do with other black women? I don't want to get too deep if you don't want to, but it seems like you're taking her reaction a little too personal, and if so, maybe what you were saying DID come off more complaining than you might think

 

[saturn7]

You sound like a "reverse racist" bruh.

Nah for real she sounds like a lost cause. On some, "the most racism I faced came from other blacks" shyt.

Just don't do no dirt around her and expect her to rat you out.

 

[Lifejennings]

The second the words race card came out of her dumbass mouth you should have ended the convo. She's clearly mentally ill.