That's what's crazy about women. They have no problem lying about who they are to get what they want. Your girl could have been an escorts, fukked the entire football team, broken marriages, etc and when it's time to settle down they can pretend they're angels to an inexperienced man. Men can't misrepresent who they are at that point. I can't pretend like my salary is double what it is. I can pretend my disk is 10 inches. Men may lie to get sex, but women usually know when they're being led on. They'd rather have an entertaining lie than a boring truth.Not arguing that I wasn't born yesterday. Just the fact women are all "she'll just lie" so simply like it's your fault for asking. Hearing it from a dude is one thing.... but damn.
the idea that chicks are willing to wear a mask for the duration of a LTR (which is possibly for LIFE) is just, wow. It's funny cause women like that only end up being their true selves for the side dude/hit&quit guy. These dudes know the real her. But she wears a mask for the dude you take vows for and presumably spend your life with. Like is that love or is he just a means to an end? Hoes be like "i changed" but did you really, or did you just submit to the shackles of marriage expectations? shyt is enough to give you trust issues for life.
It's another reason I don't feel bad just pursuing sex and not relationships. I truly don't care and don't judge em cause it's not my problem. in turn they're more likely to be open and honest cause they don't have to lie for any kind of expectation I might have. But the things I have heard be demonic sometimes and just makes me look at most dudes like suckers. I'm rambling but yea
That's why I tell dudes unless you can vouch, fukk these women. They have no problem playing you for what they need at the moment. Treat them like commodities until they prove to be assets in your life. Our matriarchal and misandric culture have ingrained in us that it's okay to be taken advantage of by women. That's why men measure their manhood by how much they can provide for women. I'm past that