Just don't go through life assuming too. In high school it was fairly obvious, or at least I thought, to weed out the thots. But college was a real eye opener. While it's true the love and hip hop wanna be ratchet hoes get down, I was also seeing the most pro black neo soul black queens getting dikked down, cause my room mate was a trey songs pretty boy ass nikka and was always bringing chicks in the room. So don't go assuming just cause she look like a good girl she is.
I just calm my mind by automatically assuming every chick was a hoe in college right from jump and just move on from there.
Thats how you gotta cope. It always gives you carte-Blanche to fukk around if you want, cause she had her fun too.