Women Pulling The "I Have A Boyfriend" Card

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I've just about never heard that in my life, at least not directed toward me. Might of overheard a girl say that. The only time I ever came across something like this it was her friend telling me she was engaged
You obviously don't talk to bytches then:childplease:
 

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ftr when i say im married im really married :mjlol:
and im not the type of person to be shytty to someone just because i can be
so whenever i hear of some shyt like that, it boggles my mind.
its just uneccessary.
Maybe not you but the vast majority of women especially those on the younger side do. They will say "sorry, I have a boyfriend" only to go home and watch netflix by themselves and post on social media about how they are lonely and wish they had a man. :scust:
 

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Women have pulling that card since the dawn of "ugly dude wants to go out on a date with you" times.

I don't know what lie is worse. The "I have a boyfriend" or "I have a hair appointment" because who has a hair appointment on a Saturday evening? Come on. That's the worst lie ever. Ever. :sadbron:
I'm not ugly. I'm model status handsome :myman: and broads still be playing games. Haven't heard "I have a boyfriend" yet, but I've gotten numbers and no reply.
 

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Sometimes it's true.:yeshrug: Some guy tried to get all emotional when I was out with my friend and i said I had a boyfriend. We hadn't seen in each other in years and he just walks up interrupting our conversation. It was like that all night and got annoying. Anyway I do have one and i told him in a very nice way (plus i already had several drinks) and he got irritable. It was weird; even if I did,I wasn't trying to waste my time talking to anyone but my friend.

So what do you say to people like that?

-My friend and I are in a deep conversation, heading out in about 10 minutes
-" Ay, lemme buy you a drink:shaq:"
- "Oh no, that's okay. Sorry I have a boyfriend:yeshrug:"
-" Mmmhmm, I see how it is:martin:"
- "Umm...what?:what: I do have one"
- "Well where is he?:martin:"
- " At home. :what:I'm here with my friend who I never get to see"

How would you respond? lol. Do I owe him ANY response? All of sudden he gets insecure and I'm not there for him. Now i have to damage control this random person's feelings when all I want to do is say bye to my friend before another 5 month hiatus.

I have a coworker that reports the same findings weekly. Guys nowadays seem to get really angry and hateful when you turn em down in public...
Honestly, that is scary. Because you never know which one is going to try and do something insane.
:dame::merchant:
 

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Yo, what video is this from? I need to see this.

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im just trying to think positive thoughts for Kent.
theres somebody out there for him.
:yeshrug:
That welven da great dude gets women because of his fame and wealth. If he was a regular cat like Kent, he'd be far off worse because of his teeth/face, the way he talks etc. Kent doesn't have any type of physical deformity.
 

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im just trying to think positive thoughts for Kent.
theres somebody out there for him.
:yeshrug:
That welven da great dude gets women because of his fame and wealth. If he was a regular cat like Kent, he'd be far off worse because of his teeth/face, the way he talks etc. Kent doesn't have any type of physical deformity.
 

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`First of all, he dresses like a 12 year old boy and second he is overly emotional. It's not the women with the problem, it's his refusal to check himself that is the problem.
 

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Damn, this video is a different Kent. Pretty much referencing the fact that he wants to commit acts of violence against women who turn him down.

I'd be worried about this if the little nikka didn't have to sit on phone books to drive his whip.


Telling someone that they have a boyfriend is literally in a women's mind, the nicest way to turn a guy down and feel safe while doing so.

Kent would off himself if he kept hearing over and over again the true reason he gets no attention.
 

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Dude is just frustrated. Righteously so, if he's never had any success with women at all. Something tells me he's being a little over the top with some of his experiences. As in, something tells me dude has been on dates before and has maybe even had a few chicks he's dated. But he's either not happy with how infrequent that is or with the quality of the women he's pulling.

Dude simply needs a few wins under his belt. People always say "just keep shooting", but you need to see the ball go in the basket a few times to have the energy to keep throwing up shots. And once he sees the ball go in a few times, he'll start gunning like Curry.

I'm thinking that dude may be doing what alot of dudes in his position do. They focus on the women they want and instead of taking a good look around and seeing who wants them. The problem is, this type of guy wants women that he doesn't have the vibe to get and keep yet. Because if he were to get the women he wants, they wouldn't stay. And they might even cause him more damage than good at this point in his life.

First, dude needs to start focusing on his positive traits. His confidence and self image is extremely low. He needs to like himself first and appreciate what he brings to the game.

Second, dude needs to get some stuff going on that he likes...besides women. Become interesting by doing some things. Dudes want to get the chicks like the "Most Interesting Man in the World" but aren't interesting. Not to mention, you'll meet women doing these things.

Third, dude needs to improve himself...for himself. Hit the gym. Work on his wardrobe. Get those colognes right. Dudes want to get beautiful women but want to be shabby. Be the type of dude who would be the type of dude that woman would want.

Fourth, dude needs to start where he is in the game. Like I said above, I would bet dude is looking at all form of 8s, 9s and dimes getting upset over them not choosing up. But I bet he's ignoring the average to cute chicks giving him play. He needs to get some wins under the belt at his level. And by his level, I mean his game and confidence level. Once he gets some momentum going, the women will become consistently attractive.

Fifth, once he gets a chick around, he needs to stop talking so much. I can tell this is the type of dude to run his mouth and bore a b#tch to death. In fact, he's probably lost a few by talking their ear off. When you first meet a chick, the convo should be 75 her/25 you. A chick will talk herself into liking you if just ask the right questions, shut up and let her create her own fantasies about you. Besides, most dudes have no interesting sh#t to say, so they're best just letting her talk about herself.

I've seen way uglier and dustier dudes pull women. I mean, never single. So, it's not a question of his exterior. It's a question of his interior.

Peace
 
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