Women of the Coli.....

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

It's understandable why some women wouldn't want to take such a risk. No woman wants to feel like she's obligated to take care of a grown man. However, I try to see the potential in a person and not judge them from where they are at right now..who knows what could happen down the road?...You gotta start out somewhere (and that's usually at the bottom)

 

[devizelle]

I don't understand how guys ask questions, and then when the questions are answered they're like "that's not how you really feel!"

To answer the questions:
1. If I'm able to be in a relationship with them, then i've gotten over the fact that they make less than me
2. why would that make me uncomfortable
3. if he's taking control and in his role, none of this should be a problem

 

[TayMarie]

1. how uncomfortable would you be dating a guy who makes say 10-15 grand less than you?
I am 19 so I am NOT expecting someone my age to make a lot of money
Now once I graduate and have a job I expect the same.
2. how uncomfortable would you be if you had a car while he took the bus?
It is a hassle to have a car on campus. I live in Texas so a car is the only reliable source of transportation so I expect someone to have a car once you at least graduate


3. would this make you feel in control of the relationship and look at him like less of man?

I do not want another father nor do I want a child to take care of

Let be honest though guys have expectations and so do women. I highly doubt men would date someone they do find a attractive so it is a two way street. What you put in is what you get.


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[Astroslik]

1. how uncomfortable would you be dating a guy who makes say 10-15 grand less than you?
I am 19 so I am expecting someone my age to make a lot of money
Now once I graduate and have a job I expect the same.
2. how uncomfortable would you be if you had a car while he took the bus?
It is a hassle to have a car on campus. I live in Texas so a car is the only reliable source of transportation so I expect someone to have a car once you at least graduate


3. would this make you feel in control of the relationship and look at him like less of man?

I do not want another father nor do I want a child to take care of

Let be honest though guys have expectations and so do women. I highly doubt men would date someone they do find a attractive so it is a two way street. What you put in is what you get.

fukk outta here you thot

 

[James Carter]

dis gon b turribull, with dudes making up 90% of the posts, mostly bickering with each other and nitpicking at the content of the first actual post from a female.

The post that changed the thread

 

[TayMarie]

[quote="Astroslik, post: 5040726, member: fukk outta here you thot[/quote]
Lol that was a typo I meant to say I am NOT EXPECTING

 

[RandomRN86]

1. Slightly
2. Slightly
3. Not if he acts like a man...but I love West Indian men..they typically don't handle is well.

Honestly

 

[HarlemsOwn]

1. No
2. No
3. Yes

Honestly

aint you from NY

 

[RandomRN86]

aint you from NY

Darn you for quoting me before the edit...:shakes fist: no, I'm on LI, you must drive..

 

[HarlemsOwn]

Darn you for quoting me before the edit...:shakes fist: no, I'm on LI, you must drive..

but but but but its ny you should be use to public transportation aint that right @concise

you cant be in the middle ,,,,its either yes or no...lol dont get political

 

[Nintendough]

1. Slightly
2. Slightly
3. Not if he acts like a man...but I love West Indian men..they typically don't handle is well.

Honestly

The Avi.

 

[No_bammer_weed]

I dont believe in one person having "control" over a relationship. Each person brings their own strengths to the table in order for the relationship to flourish.

 

[concise]

The post that changed the thread

jinx

but but but but its ny you should be use to public transportation aint that right @concise

you cant be in the middle ,,,,its either yes or no...lol dont get political

political

 

[beenz]

1. how uncomfortable would you be dating a guy who makes say 10-15 grand less than you?

2. how uncomfortable would you be if you had a car while he took the bus?

3. would this make you feel in control of the relationship and look at him like less of man?

1. the only way I'd feel uncomfortable if my lady made more than me was if I was contingent on her income to support my way of life. for instance, if I made 100K and she made 115K,

I would be regardless of being with her or not.

but on the flipside if I made 25k and she made 40k, then I'd kinda be needing her to live.

2. for your second point, my sister and her husband only have 1 car. usually he drops her off at work, or she bikes or takes the bus. then again, my sister hasn't had a car on her own in like 7 years cuz she lived in an area that was so crowded, having a car was almost pointless cuz of the parking situation. and it's not like they can't afford a 2nd car. they just don't have one.

 

[MurderSheWrote]

My answers will piss nikkas off

Why? Because you don't want a broke ass underachieving ninja?

I kept it real with my comment.

Some women can overlook the shortcomings of a man...I can't...not when they are dealing with money.

A few character flaws? Yeah maybe. But the shyt that will sustain our household? Nope!