Women of the Coli.... How has being here affected you?

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Just has made me wonder more about whether a lot more men that I know are as insecure as some that post on here (eg. all these crazy rules and double standards...kind of don't know guys in real life who think like this...or maybe I do and they don't talk about it).
There's probably some truth to your suspicions...but I wouldn't put much faith into people really thinking the thoughts they share on community websites...especially on sites like this where there is a lot of trolling and posts just for shock value.

What's probably true is that the men here are more forthcoming with any random thought about relationships and personal issues than women are.
Most women (it seems, because I'd rather not generalize too much), keep their personal thoughts close to their chest. So that alone makes the outlandish male comments and insecurities stand out.
 

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Just has made me wonder more about whether a lot more men that I know are as insecure as some that post on here (eg. all these crazy rules and double standards...kind of don't know guys in real life who think like this...or maybe I do and they don't talk about it).


You(and women in general) really think a guy's gonna talk about things the same way he talks to his boys about things. Some feelings are just innate within each sex that the other will never comprehend. At certain times my girl feels ways that I just don't understand or am able to solve. And what do I do? I drink a beer and go to sleep..or come on here to laugh at shyt. :yeshrug:
 

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It hasn't. This forum is the first where I am entertained (from the silly threads yall make) and also intellectually stimulated (higher ed section, etc). I lurk in other areas of the forum, but mostly post in TLR. I take everything with a grain of salt and take nothing personally regardless how much female bashing goes on. I enjoy the fukkery :ehh:.

To my brehs :salute:

Why don't you post in HL. I used to sleep on that section but there's alot of insight on a plethora of topics to be had on there. Needs more activity
 

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Why don't you post in HL. I used to sleep on that section but there's alot of insight on a plethora of topics to be had on there. Needs more activity

I think I might :ehh:

I usually lurk because depending on the topics, I may have nothing to add, but I definitely like to read everyone's responses.
 

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General hate for women that a lot men have on here, and the constant label that women are hoes, feminist, gold diggers, or not be trusted.
I didnt care for white folks before I came here but the racial angle on here made me hate them more with the constant post of Trayvon-ish type threads
I appreciate a lot of men here who are funny, witty, and upbeat.
 

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I remember when I started my account, I was sick of the foolishness on LSA. Also, I'm a more reasonable woman and I'm nothing like some of the women hating posters on here describe women. Some ( like one or two) of the Coli posters appreciate that. I actually feel bad for the ones that hate women, because they seem so damn insecure and pitiful...
what fooolishness goes on on lipstickalley?
 
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