It’s dehumanising to tell someone they can’t express themselves. This is why so many men use their fist in an argument; they were never taught how to express themselves so they resort to violence.
Yo main want u to be strong
Like the man she wished her father was
Or like the father she never had
Or like the man she thought her father was
So she want u to be emotional
But only in the sense that u express love for her and be loving kind and generous
But she don't want the burden of vulnerability
She don't want u depressed if your mother passes
She don't want to hear about u being nervous about your future
Honestly most don't want u happy if it is not her and only her who makes u happy
Men die way earlier than women
Because women get affection and love from multiple sources
Family
Men
Friends
Strangers
Men dont
Men
Have no emotional outlets
Except sidepieces
And sex workers
Now imagine being a Black man
U literally get hate all damm day
The news
Tv
Movies
Internet
Church
School systems
Law enforcement
Music
All races
And even other black men
Telling him he ain't shyt
All u can do is whoop people ass
Kill who u gotta kill
Get money
Smash randoms
Love your parents
Get a dog
Collect things that make u nostalgic about your childhood
And die handsome
With your dog by your side