Women are fed up of being approached by guys in the gym

[Weaver31]

I can understand her getting tired of attention but what do she expect from heterosexual males. She should be glad men are cold approaching her being that a lot of men lack the confidence and gonads to approach nowadays.

As long as they are respectable and not too creepy with it...and as long as they can take rejection, what's the issue? Folks complain about dumb shyt nowadays. Some people wish they could have the attention and hollas.

She probably mad that the high value men aren't approaching her.

 

[Mike Nasty]

She's cute, but her voice is like nails on a chalkboard.

 

[Oatmeal]

When I was in the gym on the regular pre rona I would just focus on my sets and I never even acknowledged anyone unless I was waiting on a machine. I'd see women doing exercises like thrusts and squats with like 2 lbs. weights and looking in the mirror to see if anyone was watching and I'd just be like . The thing is dudes would do that dumb stuff too, get in the mirror and talk selfies instead of lifting

 

[Ashley Banks]

I used to HATE this. Like idc at first if it was just 1 or 2 guys but when it’s a bunch asking you if you need help with the simplest stuff only to be like “actually I just needed a reason to talk to you”, then you gotta go into how you’re married, yes you’re happy, no you don’t cheat, no you don’t want friends and blah blah blah so I just switched to all women’s gyms and it was paradise ever since.

 

[AuntAnniesPretzels]

Probably was an ugly/no game having nikka that approached her. She's offended that an ugly dude is feeling himself too much by thinking he's in her league instead of knowing his place. It also makes her second guess her own rating, if an ugly guy thinks he has a shot.

As one poster said, let it be Idris Elba chirping at her...

There's an excuse for just about any place and time.

Approach at the gym - I'm busy working out.
Approach on the street - I'm doing errands
Approach at the club/bar - I'm just here to dance with my friends.
Approach at the library - I'm here to study.
Grocery store - I'm here to pick up food. It's not the club.

Which ever way you put it, someone's gonna be offended.

I'm not one of these people who's down for segregating genders. Men want to be with women, and women want to be with men.

I say shoot your shot, but be respectful, aware of the social environment, and be able to gracefully take the L on the chin if she's not feeling you.

We have actual women in here confirming that they don’t want to be bothered by thirst buckets but this thread is filled with thirsty nikkas justifying their BS

 

[Mike Nasty]

I'm almost 100% convinced that if my gym was split 50/50 the usual crossfit chicks would find a reason to be over on the men's side.

 

[Coco Loco]

Don't see the big deal with telling her she looks good sweaty

Please don't. PLEASE!!!! You may think that's a compliment and or sexy banter but it screams creep with his dikk out. The thought of a random man telling me I look good sweaty would cancel any and all further conversation. If we have that type of rapport and or already had sex, fine, if not, DON'T.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I'm almost 100% convinced that if my gym was split 50/50 the usual crossfit chicks would find a reason to be over on the men's side.

Women do not want to be in all womens gym

Heck they will pay extra just to be in mix gym

Unless shes married

 

[iceberg_is_on_fire]

I wouldn't you approach someone in the gym if that was your thing? Same with any other interest. Bird babble deluxe.

 

[invincible1914]

Humble bragging

Man women be falling in the gym with hardly anything on then they start hating on men for coming to them. It's a trap.

 

[Coli Bot]

So how does a man get women in your opinion? I'm not in the "cold approach, shoot at everything you like" boat but if you can't
Talk to someone you see while you're out, and
Can't DM women

Where is the connection coming from?

Dont know tbh

Being set up through people you know.

House parties and gatherings.

Work events/social events.

Holidays

Reconnecting with old flames

 

[AuntAnniesPretzels]

I can understand her getting tired of attention but what do she expect from heterosexual males. She should be glad men are cold approaching her being that a lot of men lack the confidence and gonads to approach nowadays.

As long as they are respectable and not too creepy with it...and as long as they can take rejection, what's the issue? Folks complain about dumb shyt nowadays. Some people wish they could have the attention and hollas.

She probably mad that the high value men aren't approaching her.

Most women don’t want to be approached by most men

 

[BlackMagnus514]

The gym is one of the worst places to meet women IMO. Any environment where they don’t have a choice to indicate choosing isn’t optimal. Like if you get curved at the gym and she’s there again and y’all see each other, she’s gonna be uncomfortable, if that makes sense. It’s not like a bar where she can just walk away and never go back and it’s not fair.

IMO, just small talk and light flirting if she shows interest is all I’ll do or have done.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

I can understand where she is coming from..
But at the same time..
This is what is creating the manosphere/MGTOW/Redpill..
Community growth ..
It’s consistent complaints from women about men..
Most nikkas in the gym..
Are not approaching like that..
It maybe that one overzealous nikka..
That can’t read the room and is going to..
Shoot his shot..
Regardless of your outfit..
I’m not condoning obvious harassment..
But 9 times out of 10..
I bet this interaction didn’t go like she described..
Muthafukkas be embellishing stories to illicit a reaction..
Either in real life conversations
Or
With online social media
Which then creates this vacuum of stories..
That paint all men as some monstrous beings..
Incapable of decorum and politely taking L’s..
Believe it or not ladies..
Some men not even shooting their shots..
When I was single..
If I saw a nice looking woman..
I would just compliment her..
Wish her a good day
And walk away..
I had no intentions behind it..
Just sometimes a compliment goes a long way..
Those same women would find me in the parking lot on some
I don’t know where society has gone wrong..
You want men to be men..
But then you put all these stipulations on us..
I understand but y’all are also digging your own graves
If they ever perfect robot p*ssy

 

[93 til]

I mean she is right in a way but I think in this situation it's a humble brag. I understand how it can be annoying if you tryna get your workout in and somebody tryna be in your face but I used to work at a gym 95% of the people there are tryna get their workout in and go home. She making it seem like dudes only go to the gym to look at females.

If she really wanted to be left alone put some headphones in and go to town. Most people let folks be once they see them focused. I think the issue here is that the wrong type of dude approached her.