Women are fed up of being approached by guys in the gym

Barlow

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Did you miss the part when I was asked what's a better approach? :mjtf:
my point is a "better" approach shouldnt matter if the problem is that you're being approached in the first place :comeon:

there's a difference between "men shouldn't talk to women/approach them" and "men shouldn't say you look good in those sweaty pants"(which i dont condone.)

also, id love a story on when you approached a guy for his number.
 

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Look man

I can empathize with the idea of not wanting to be bothered...the reality is this

Women and men aren’t switching sides anytime soon. I’m not going to bleed for you every month and you’re not trying pick up the bat and go hunting around the house at night when you hear strange sounds for me either. A man is expected to hunt and go for his and that will never change


9/10 women aren’t pursuing men they are into...shyt a lot of times they are bad at giving the impression that they are interested. How is a man to know what a woman is or isn’t into unless they try?

nikkax can’t read minds b

Be respectful
Don’t touch

That’s all you owe as a man. Don’t be the guy she’s talking about with her girlfriends...

“Girlll I seen some nikka today and he was real attractive but since he was acting scared to talk to me I damn sure wasn’t going talk to him.”

:yeshrug:

Generally speaking, I agree with you.

In a gym context I don't. That shyt's gotta be mad annoying. Nothing pisses me off more at the gym than people entering my bubble unnecessarily. It takes you out of the zone.

I can imagine other times like that too. To the extent that being a woman is anything like walking past people in organizations trying to get donations from you on the street, shyt must be terrible. Nothing worse than being in a rush to somewhere or only having a few minutes of peace over your lunch, and having those people prioritize getting your money over your time.

Honestly, for women, it sucks. But until we're on equal footing in terms of hunters / hunted, it'll be this way.
 
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Generally speaking, I agree with you.

In a gym context I don't. That shyt's gotta be mad annoying. Nothing pisses me off more at the gym than people entering my bubble unnecessarily. It takes you out of the zone.

I can imagine other times like that too. To the extent that being a woman is anything like walking past people in organizations trying to get donations from you on the street, shyt must be terrible. Nothing worse than being in a rush to somewhere or only having a few minutes of peace over your lunch, and having those people prioritize getting your money over your time.

Honestly, for women, it sucks. But until we're on equal footing in terms of hunters / hunted, it'll be this way.

That gym scenario is “generally speaking” :yeshrug:
 

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Leave black women alone.
 

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This shyt so wack. Because If it a certain "type" of guy she wouldn't have made this post. Let been some Trey Songz, Idris Elba , type cat holla at her at a gym. I highly doubt she would complain.

#metoo doesnt apply to men, especially the ones you listed the whole shyt a sham

go look at the comments under a trey songz or chris brown picture, sexual harassment way worse than this girl has ever experienced.
 

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Him: Hi, how are you?
Me: I'm fine and you?
Him: I wanted to say hi and if I can get to know you or anything non body, sweating, tight clothes related. Make it less awkward with a joke, I saw you over there dying on the treadmill etc. Finesse it. You look good sweaty automatically makes me think he's thinking of me naked, sweaty with my ass in the air :whoa:

Once I get to know a man or we've established some rapport he will find out how much I like to flirt and that I'm not as innocent as I look, all the sexual innuendos will be reciprocated but until then let's keep it respectable.

How bout:

“What you on shorty, I got a post workout blunt rolled up in the car for us. Put your number in my phone if you ain’t coming cause I’m bout to go in a second”
 
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