Winter is Coming

[Vice Queen]

No disrespect at all, but if you are saying that I came forward I am saying that he hasn't done anything wrong to me. Nothing is wrong with a man talking to a woman when it is respectful. One just has to be careful of who they are speaking with. I didn't read through the whole thread, but I haven't seen him show the actions of some of the people in here I would consider weird. In addition to that yes this is a male dominated site but I would say be careful of posters regardless if they are male or female. There are some female who have no problem sharing your information with other posters or flipping the script. I understand why you made this thread but posters just have to watch out for themselves, leave if they feel their safety may eventually be at risk, or do as @Elle Driver said which is turn off PM.

It's not so much that he did anything questionable, just the fact that he was in our PMs at all.

 

[CinnaSlim]

No disrespect at all, but if you are saying that I came forward I am saying that he hasn't done anything wrong to me. Nothing is wrong with a man talking to a woman when it is respectful. One just has to be careful of who they are speaking with. I didn't read through the whole thread, but I haven't seen him show the actions of some of the people in here I would consider weird. In addition to that yes this is a male dominated site but I would say be careful of posters regardless if they are male or female. There are some female who have no problem sharing your information with other posters or flipping the script. I understand why you made this thread but posters just have to watch out for themselves, leave if they feel their safety may eventually be at risk, or do as @Elle Driver said which is turn off PM.

No not you, you defended him.

 

[Konnan]

Cmon brehs stop harassing the females

 

[CinnaSlim]

To be honest Cinna, I would fall back. If the ladies have a problem, let them speak for themselves don't be their mouth piece cause that shyt will come back to bite you if they decide against everything they claimed.

There's nothing to fall back on. It's already out which is what I think was needed. There's no disciplinary action to be taken. This thread is most likely gonna be buried by end of day. Now the women know. Now they can make smarter choices and look out for red flags.

My incident happened in July. I thought it was my fault and Im going crazy because everyone else was buddy buddy with him, now I know that I'm not and that I wasn't alone. He'll bounce back once people forget. I doubt he was even bothered by it.

 

[Raava]

So to be clear. The issue is not about exposing, though seeing Daria's situation it can lead to that. The issue is that he is a seemingly nice guy, but is very quick to flip on people. Passive aggressiveness. The thing that gets me is the denial, cryptic messages and making people think that they are crazy. Like I said at my job when all the ladies felt uncomfortable around my boss. If it's not just me and it's not just you and multiple women are feeling uncomfortable. We should stop whispering/pming and say something. Let it be known.

So...this is because he is passive aggressive and awkward? Like I mean is he actually harassing you? You say leave you alone and you stop responding and he keeps pming this is very vauge? I think they should speak for themselves and you should say what they are doing. Sounds like an ignore user situation or turn off your PMs.

 

[Dwolf]

No disrespect at all, but if you are saying that I came forward I am saying that he hasn't done anything wrong to me. Nothing is wrong with a man talking to a woman when it is respectful. One just has to be careful of who they are speaking with. I didn't read through the whole thread, but I haven't seen him show the actions of some of the people in here I would consider weird. In addition to that yes this is a male dominated site but I would say be careful of posters regardless if they are male or female. There are some female who have no problem sharing your information with other posters or flipping the script. I understand why you made this thread but posters just have to watch out for themselves, leave if they feel their safety may eventually be at risk, or do as @Elle Driver said which is turn off PM.

You prob should do that.

 

[Isaiah Bradley]

so?

that isn't what make them black.
anybody who wins a gold medal must be mad ******ish in your eyes.

caitlyn jenner is black as fukk brehs

I agree 100%
I'm just answering your question with honesty and sarcasm
Some of us believe that slavery spawned super negros, thus why such threads like this are created
Some of us want to claim random folks as black so badly, that we are willing to allow folks who don't look traditionally black, represent us. But yet many other cultures would not allow such representation

 

[Prynce]

@jeh a cool breh

I'm sure he means no harm

 

[Sassy]

This is 15 pages? O_O

 

[Elle Driver]

There's nothing to fall back on. It's already out which is what I think was needed. There's no disciplinary action to be taken. This thread is most likely gonna be buried by end of day. Now the women know. Now they can make smarter choices and look out for red flags.

My incident happened in July. I thought it was my fault and Im going crazy because everyone else was buddy buddy with him, now I know that I'm not and that I wasn't alone. He'll bounce back once people forget. I doubt he was even bothered by it.

You kinda newer than me Cinna, I'm just saying fall back. People take shyt to a NOTHA NOTHA level especially when they feel like you calling em out. If the ladies have something to say, let them do it individually. Being their mouth piece will do you no favors.

 

[Strawberry]

@KOOL-AID aka @Mr Coli used to be cool with me but one day decided to accuse me of being racist out of the blue, sayin I'm dropping n bombs all over and then he started negging me



Bish where?

Never been racist, never will be.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

All I'm seeing is "this guy did this" or "these guys did that." If these individuals are that bad name names please. Some of these incidents sound like harassment.

 

[jeh]

@jeh a cool breh

I'm sure he means no harm

My Zone 6 nikka what's good....Lol

Come thru the 4 we can get some Ikhlas my g.

But anyway, if me and Jane/John Doe having a conversation......and she/he wanna go and tell what we talk about. I don't care.

Why?

I don't send nudes, and I don't send disrespectful messages.

All this thread is is a "Who is Jeh messaging on thecoli"

That's it.. that is it breh.

If me and you chopping up game, and we aint shooting marble no more. shyt, its cool. I ain't gone take a certain part of the convo and misconstrued it to fit what im flexing on......come on breh lol

Like I said......nikkas know what's up with me. I joined this site, and kept it 100 from my first post. My shyt aint private. Lol


I'm flattered y'all made a thread about me. I guess lol.

But yeah, come thru OCP, cuzo just came down from M Town.

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

Bae, where ya been?

Just chillin, what about yourself?

 

[Elle Driver]

All I'm seeing is "this guy did this" or "these guys did that." If these individuals are that bad name names please. Some of these incidents sound like harassment.

Im saying though, or just use the damn report function.