Believe it or not, some of us aren't led around by our penises. Plus, as a Black man/woman, if you've unwilling (work, college etc.) spent any extended period of time around non-Black people, especially White people (Indians get a special mention
), I don't understand how you'd
willing want to be around them. There are cool ones, no doubt, but I've personally never met any non-Black person as cool as a Black person. For example, I've even had multiple classes with White people who act cool when the class is going, but outside of class, act like they don't even know you,
it's even worst when they're out with a group of White people. On the other hand, I've had a single class with multiple Black people and they never do that "I'm just going to act like I don't know or see him routine." It's always something, even a head nod. I can't really relate to people of other races.
Don't get me started on the passive-aggressive shyt if you have to live with them.