Winter is Coming

[CodeBlaMeVi]

You want a cookie, I've heard / seen some grimey shyt as well. A lot women do fukked up / irrational things when their ego is hurt or their self esteem is low, it doesn't some how alot of men who boast about an easy lay some mythological player.

I've been on both sides of the coin as well, but really caught my attention was from outside looking in, where I was able to break down how alot of women cats are slaying are no prized possession to begin with, sure they maybe attractive, but the signs of craziness and instability are just oozing .

Are there the simps who are truly blindsided by extramarital affairs, and sexcades of their partners, sure, but a lot of "good/ loyal" women, are also blindsided when a man they entrusted, has side pieces or a whole other family some where else.....

I'd love to share my story; with a timeline, pics, and everything, but there's on going court case(not involving me directly); but it really changed my perspective. It makes me buy the player / player perspective even less.

Huh?

 

[Just like bruddas]

It's like yall ain't even trying any more

 

[Macon Dead III]

Two points people need to consider about LSA:

1. LSA is allegedly white (Jewish) owned and the moderators are very biased, working in favor of the owners.

2. LSA has BEEN infiltrated by a huge non-black/cac troll population, many with a strong anti-black agenda. A lot of those "black women" over there aren't even black.

 

[#SOG_soldier]

What if she didn't want them to cuff? Why assume it was the man who decided?

I can see why 12 could be too much but if she was responsible and wasn't sleeping around how is she still a hoe? That's not even a guy a year.

Any woman that doesn't want long term relationships is not worth having. I hate these new age independent ladies.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

A hoe is a woman who sells her body or the idea of sex for money...after she receives said money, she gives management all of the money in exchange for shelter and guidance. That is a hoe.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

I really hate to be that nikka, but i gotta keep it 100

He made some good points, but lets not act like nikkas dont do the same shyt. They outchea wifing up these "thots" and simping on strippers just cuz they got big ass cheeks. I live in the A, and i see nikkas taking strippers and escorts out to Houstons, and other spots on the daily. So women dont have the exclusivity on making bad dating choices for superficial reasons.

This is true. I saw the video about some documentary in the A and dudes up there straight simps. nikka with a straight said strippers are their superstars.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Don't be a lawyer brehette... Dude was obviously talking about the consent to get pregnant and have a kid. Lmao

Get out the kool-aid. That is not what he is talking about. He is talking about not having to take care of a child he doesn't want; not whether the woman is allowed to have the child.

 

[KinksandCoils]

skeetsinternal negged you for your post in the thread Why doesn't the coli ever discuss "deadbeat" dads?. With the following comment: fukk u


deadbeat alert

 

[iBrowse]

Hoe a female that has sex with many many guys..basically she has no standards

Would smash anyone even if they dark blue like @KOOL-AID

How you gonna call @KOOL-AID dark blue

 

[-DMP-]

If you have to ask....

 

[FTBS]

I really hate to be that nikka, but i gotta keep it 100

He made some good points, but lets not act like nikkas dont do the same shyt. They outchea wifing up these "thots" and simping on strippers just cuz they got big ass cheeks. I live in the A, and i see nikkas taking strippers and escorts out to Houstons, and other spots on the daily. So women dont have the exclusivity on making bad dating choices for superficial reasons.

His point, albeit clearly fueled by bitterness and frustration, is that women not only make bad choices but then they turn around and blame all guys (including the nice ones who they curved) for their shytty selection. You look at the dudes that are wifing thots and tricking. You don't see these dudes running around crying talking about "where are all the good women?"/"females ain't shyt?"/"real women step up"/"females need to pick better". No it's the dudes who ain't gettin no love, who have limited options that do all the complaining (like ol' boy in the video). Women who get or at least used to get all the play do all the bytching. Dudes who get none of the play do all the bytching.

I understand what this dude is saying, and he definitely makes some valid points. I just feel like the problem with this argument is that it places all the blame on women without recognizing all the details. It also puts where we, as men, fall short on the back burner. To say that black women need to start picking better men implies that there are just as many educated and employed black men as there are crooked thugs, and we all know thats not true. Bottom line is that we, as men, have to stop blaming women and start looking at ourselves. And also, why do we criticize black women for going after the swagged out dude instead of the 9-5er, but we don't criticize the 9-5er going after the instagram model who friend zones him? Just because you have a job/education doesn't mean you're entitled to anyone, and that goes for both women AND men.

Well obviously there are more shytty, lazy people than there are hardworking, upstanding people. That doesn't excuse people who are in the latter category or at least claim to be from getting with those in the former category. Women are supposed to be hypergamous anyway. There is no benefit to them or to the community at large for them just be getting with whoever the majority happens to be. That said there are plenty of "good" dudes out here. We not gonna act like, all chicks have to pick from is crooked dudes.

You do realize that he was saying the bolded to women right? He was telling them to stop blaming dudes for your poor choices that get you in fukked up situations. There is no doubt that this goes both ways but we gotta stop acting like shyt is the same. A 21 year old dude who chases the wrong women is just gonna end up with hurt feelings. A 21 year old chick that chooses the wrong dudes is gonna end up with a couple kids and all the drama and stress that comes with single parent hood.

Not really the females fault.

The body wants what it wants. Think about it. if you as a man had the choice to either sleep with endless 9/10s OR wife a loyal 4/10 which one would you choose? The 9/10s. That female can be as loyal as she wants to be, if the attractions not there shes not gonna satisfy you.

That's the way things are. And i feel like the only people complaining are bitter females and the nikkas who're getting leftovers.

I could ride with this if it were true. Do you know how many short, fat, and/or broke nikkas are out here ? Beyond that, what constitutes a 9/10 for men and women are different. For men it's almost all physical. For women your swagger, your presence, your finances all play into it as well. You would hear far fewer complaints from dudes if it were only charismatic, rich, Michael Ealy looking dudes that were down to provide out here knocking all these chicks up.

 

[iBrowse]

Having sex with anyone who ain't me

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

It isn't that deep. I'm going to be a sharp attorney in a few years out of Howard Law, fukk the baddest chicks let them know there isn't a future. I have no issue jacking my dikk. They can go on whatever site and vent. I devoted too much time to women. That's the issue too much time on bytches. We got chicks who use to work in the White House acting up so .

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Dudes in here going hard for #teamabondonyourseed

 

[mamba]

ive always said theres a reason arranged marriages have persisted for thousands of years. Some women and men just dont know how to pick the right mate for their seed.
Altho women have to realise they will always have a dispoirtionate amount of bargaining power when it comes to sex and deciding which dude is going to nut in her raw. Its the reason why fathers are always more naturally protective of their daughters . Also women have to realise that the type of men they find attractive will not always make the greatest fathers. In the end, youre responsible for your own sexual decisions. It just comes with the territory. Great power (p*ssy) comes with great responsibility.

Exactly. Most women aren't even decisive enough to pick shyt off a menu.

Most of them aren't equipped to be able to pick the right man with whom to start and sustain a family.