You want a cookie, I've heard / seen some grimey shyt as well. A lot women do fukked up / irrational things when their ego is hurt or their self esteem is low, it doesn't some how alot of men who boast about an easy lay some mythological player.
I've been on both sides of the coin as well, but really caught my attention was from outside looking in, where I was able to break down how alot of women cats are slaying are no prized possession to begin with, sure they maybe attractive, but the signs of craziness and instability are just oozing .
Are there the simps who are truly blindsided by extramarital affairs, and sexcades of their partners, sure, but a lot of "good/ loyal" women, are also blindsided when a man they entrusted, has side pieces or a whole other family some where else.....
I'd love to share my story; with a timeline, pics, and everything, but there's on going court case(not involving me directly); but it really changed my perspective. It makes me buy the player / player perspective even less.