Is Liggins the fukkING GOAT


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Why should she kill her own child just because some douche bag won't stick around to raise it? Does the child not deserve life? Is that the easy way for a lot of these cowards out here? To simply get rid of it?
and there in lies the problem here.
you know you have a huge hindrance to your future child but instead of considering that, you just brush it off and decide to be petty and blame someone else after the fact
 

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are you suggesting these women are completely oblivious to their baby daddies nature until the kid is born? are you suggesting these women still dont have sex with these dudes even after the kid is born? are you implying many of these nikkas dont already have kids by other women?

i am not condoning their behavior. i'm just stating facts. men wagging our fingers at deadbeats, wont change their behavior long as women are still laying with them.
Do you think it is okay for a man to abandon/ignore a child he sired simply b/c he can? Do you think a man should only have to take care of a child b/c he wants to?
 

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I been on LSA for awhile and I never ran into too many issues but they do warn you for everything. I was warned for calling Rihanna a benwench.
You can't even call her a bedwench because she screws everyone in the industry and doesn't really have a preference. But her music is still trash.
 

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Do you think it is okay for a man to abandon/ignore a child he sired simply b/c he want to?
no, i don't think it's okay.

but i also don't think its okay for the woman to knowingly have children with these type of men
 

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again men are already held accountable for it by the court.
with the system, biology, and medicine on your side how in the hell does the responsibility not fall in your favor? we've already been telling men to do better, when are we going to get on women?

Women are shamed for everything they do if it involves sexuality in any way. We have been being told to do better. I don't know where you all get women aren't shamed, every other word out of your mouths is hoe and slut and smut for a woman who behaves the same as you do (or would if you had the chance) sexually.

How is biology not in the favor of men? You can literally go out right now and have a minimally invasive, reversible procedure done to make you incapable of having children even with raw sex. And then when you are ready to have children, you can reverse it back. Yet men still cannot be held accountable for not having kids they won't be willing to take care of?

In the heat of the moment men can run to a corner store and buy a condom that is 98% effective in preventing pregnancy. They don't mess with your hormones at all and you don't need a prescription to get them. Yet men still cannot be held accountable for not having kids they won't be willing to take care of?

The thing is women are showing they are willing to take care of these kids, men are not, so at least logically it makes sense that women are becoming pregnant. But how the heck are men who don't want to take care of any kids kids still giving women the opportunity to have them??
 

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and there in lies the problem here.
you know you have a huge hindrance to your future child but instead of considering that, you just brush it off and decide to be petty and blame someone else after the fact
Henderence to what aspect of the child's life? The life it won't have after you take it away. It's easy for dudes to sit up here and claim women should have an abortion(in defense of fukking dead beat losers or reasons why they shouldn't be scrutinized might I add) but they won't stop to think about the fact that the woman might actually love the child. Why should a woman be faced with such a decision in the first place? This shyt is like a revolving door, it all leads back to the mans DECISION to not be in his child's life.
 

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Because the stats are bull, as a former social services case worker I can tell you that stats about single parent homes only tell you that the parents don't live together. You have to assume that the father doesn't provide for the child or otherwise meet the childs needs. Peolpe make this assumption because the father in question is black.

Many young people dont have money for lawyers, so they make informal arrangements that the women dont report when they come to social serves.
Anything the live in father boyfriend or husband earns is counted against her bebifits. In order to avoid a reduction in her benefits they will shack up without getting married or simply lie about living alone.

Some states require the mother to have a formal action for child support against the father. when they hear this they will withdraw their application for welfare because they are already getting money under the table from the father and don't wish to take him to court.

I could tell you many stories. With all that said based on my experience, immigrants from the Middle East North Africa and Asia are the ones cheating the system the most Not single mothers or Hispanics
Sooo, the ones milking the system the most, hardly get any camera time compared to the scapegoats that are black people? Informative......
 

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no, i don't think it's okay.

but i also don't think its okay for the woman to knowingly have children with these type of men
Why not? I mean if the fault only lies with the woman then why shouldn't he be able to not care for his child? I mean since women are to blame for getting pregnant why should a man ever have to care of a child if he doesn't want to?
 

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Why should a woman be faced with such a decision in the first place?
she wouldn't have to if she didnt let him bust raw in her :mjlol:

In the heat of the moment men can run to a corner store and buy a condom that is 98% effective in preventing pregnancy. They don't mess with your hormones at all and you don't need a prescription to get them. Yet men still cannot be held accountable for not having kids they won't be willing to take care of?
you're still somehow not grasping that dusty dudes dont care about condoms and the court is already standing by for them
again men are already held accountable legally, what is there for women and when will tell them to stop letting dusty nikkas hit raw?
 

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Why not? I mean if the fault only lies with the woman then why shouldn't he be able to not care for his child? I mean since women are to blame for getting pregnant why should a man ever have to care of a child if he doesn't want to?

because although the shyt may not seem fair, his sperm didn't magically float from his nuts into her womb. if you have a kid, ideally, you SHOULD take responsibility for it. problem is, in the real world, a lot of men just don't give a shyt. long as they're getting their nut, they're cool.

so i'm still left wondering why are women freely procreating with guys that hold this fukkin mentality? if you know dude has no means to provide, or doesn't want to be a father to your children, why are you still letting him squirt up in you? huh?
 

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you're still somehow not grasping that dusty dudes dont care about condoms and the court is already standing by for them

That's not a legitimate excuse. You guys have everything bad to say about a single mother but suddenly when it comes time to place blame she's never just excused and left alone with a "she was dusty and didn't care anyway"
 

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Because the stats are bull, as a former social services case worker I can tell you that stats about single parent homes only tell you that the parents don't live together. You have to assume that the father doesn't provide for the child or otherwise meet the childs needs. Peolpe make this assumption because the father in question is black.

Many young people dont have money for lawyers, so they make informal arrangements that the women dont report when they come to social serves.
Anything the live in father boyfriend or husband earns is counted against her bebifits. In order to avoid a reduction in her benefits they will shack up without getting married or simply lie about living alone.

Some states require the mother to have a formal action for child support against the father. when they hear this they will withdraw their application for welfare because they are already getting money under the table from the father and don't wish to take him to court.

I could tell you many stories. With all that said based on my experience, immigrants from the Middle East North Africa and Asia are the ones cheating the system the most Not single mothers or Hispanics
Y'all are just going to conveniently ignore this pound of truth? Not even gonna discuss this?
 
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