Because sex is biologically required to continue our species. You don't judge people for breathing or judge the pace of their heart rate.
I feel you completely that perhaps the non promiscuous and promiscuous do not mix. But where is the line?5, 10, 20 it only seems to matter if it's more than a man as deemed acceptable, either from his own experience or crazy enough could just be a arbitrary number
set by a man for a woman, just cause
I dig that you're borderline hoe acceptance but you still connect sexual choices to worth, value, and relationship qualities and the sexual spectrum is too varied for that. I get wanting someone compatible with YOU but a lot of people go haywire and all of sudden because a FEMALE human being has regular and various sex she's socially, emotionally and relationship wise worthless
I just think folks need to be real that it stems from feelings of male inadequacy. It's easy to spot the emotionally weak and sexually stunted by how much vitroL (or condescending tone) they display towards women who are not even their sexual partners
All I smell when that goes down is bytch nikkas and fear, it's quite palpable.
Let's be real here, how many people are fukking on the regular with the intent of continuing the species? My guess is a small amount. And if were putting sex in the same category as breathing,eating, or sleeping, then why do men and women place such a high value on it if it doesn't mean anything? Women have used the p*ssy to get gifts,money,attention, and all types of shyt from men, so it has to mean something.
A man wouldn't go that far, if he didn't see any value in it, and a woman wouldn't use it to her advantage if there wasn't any value in doing so either. She'd be out here fukking without thinking of getting anything in return for it. It would be an equal exchange. But we know that isn't the case which is why the game is alive and well.
I believe why sex is part physical and part spiritual. But for the sake of this shyt being too long on some metaphysics shyt, I'll stop there. But I definitely believe it is tied into self worth.
There was a time in my life where I had a low opinion of myself and I was lacking in self worth. And because I had little respect for myself, it spilled over into my relationships with women where I would be disrespected and cheated on.
Not to mention, I did my share of doing women dirty as well. And I had such a negative view of myself that I allowed that to spread and I hurt some good women in the process. I didn't value my mind, I didn't value my body, and I didn't value the women I slept with. And I've been with damaged women. I've been with women who have been molested, women with low self esteem who would sling nikkas the p*ssy in hopes of keeping them around and everything else in between. And most of the problems stemmed from a lack of a self worth.
Now are they're females out there who don't have a shytty past who happen to love fukking? Absolutely. Now how many of those females are gonna claim their shyt though? Not many because their is a perceived value in women not fukking alot of dudes. It's that exclusivity of getting something that few people have access too. And human beings have that relationship with alot of things in the world.
From that perspective, I don't think it's insecurity as much as it is perceiving something as valuable. And in that regard men and women attribute value to the p*ssy in varying degrees.
Holy fukk this shyt was long damn!
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& You keep saying "we good black men." The "good black men," need to start defending,supporting, & protecting black women,like black women do for black men.Until then,I am not phased.
The man should still put a fukking condom or get a vasectomy if he doesn't want kids. Plan B can be purchase at a reasonable price. That is not hard to comprehend. You are making these weak opinion that are light as a feather. Quit defending the fatherless culture that had failed society. Why your are a 
for deadbeat daddies? 
they take care of them by law with child support. like i said if you want to go past that and cry about him not being there holding you at night and changing the diapers then you should pick better partners or get an abortion.