So do you believe in marriage?
Because many people complain about marriage being a fraud or not worth it these days (and rightfully so) but then complain about children born OOW.
People realizing marriage isn't for them isn't a bad thing but a lot of these people still want kids. And honestly not everyone is fit to be a parent
. And I respect people who are honest with themselves and realize that compared to people who have kids they can't take care of. Society as a whole still expects everyone to want to have children and if someone says they don't want kids a good portion of men AND women will look at that person as weird.