Winter Came and Traci Ellis Ross Kept Warm in a Blanket of Regret

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I got a wedding to go to in 2 weeks amd you know at these things gender war conversations always pop up.... If I get dragged into the inevitable argument I'm dropping in this one to set off next level chaos...


B b bu but the Coli He-Man Club that never happens and if you think otherwise then grass must be touched! :damn:
 

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It still happens, my uncle's wife had their baby at 42 or 43.

But my point they don't make it to 40 without trying/having, not them reaching 40 and then deciding to try. The 34-39 stretch is the last 5 minutes of the game.

There's virtually no such thing as a full-blooded FBA.

Idk man there’s still a stigma about being an babymama among college educated higher earning and professional BW. Many of them were born to married parents who may or may not have eventually divorced but regardless they still have a strong preference for getting married first but that’s not happening at nearly the same rate for them as their mothers, aunts, etc. A lot of them would rather not have children if it means becoming a baby mama.
 

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Interesting conversation but for someone that success and universally attractive she is either not forthcoming about the real reason she is alone or she hasn't figured it out yet. No way most men her age that she meets are "toxic". it's more likely that the ones she is attracted to do not want to be with her long term or maybe she prefers younger men that only view her as a play thing or a novelty. it is obvious that she is not telling the entire story.


I would actually argue that shes mot "universally attractive". But at one point she was praised for having a big ass. This put her in a bad place,because she was praised for having a phat ass by HOLLYWOOD STANDARDS. As in you dont see real actresses with ass like that often.


So she probably has the inflated ego of any woman would rightfully have whos been praised as much as her. But when it comes time to choose? Men in her circles will want the women with fattest asses. Not the women whos ass is fat for an actress.


And quite honestly,shes attractive. But facially I could imagine getting tired of looking at her. So im curious what her type is and what she thinks she should be pulling in. Id say her t.v husband(Anthony Anderson) is what she should be shooting for. Although on paper,shes out of his league considering how praised she has been for her looks. But in reality they are equals and that would be her match:respect:
 

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Just finished watching the clips. What is toxic masculinity to her? That word is use vaguely by women when they don't like certain aspect of men but they rarely go into deep details on what turned them off by a man's behavior. I know that she gave examples but even those was kinda vague (Just could have said that the guy was homophobic and it was a turn-off for her). Also, she is right on not want to just have a partner to have a partner but do she really wants to be in a relationship or just have some companionship when it convenient for her? Marriage and kids are not for everyone and sometimes it just better to admit that you just prefer to be single and have your freedom than to live the "American" dream.
 

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Just finished watching the clips. What is toxic masculinity to her? That word is use vaguely by women when they don't like certain aspect of men but they rarely go into deep details on what turned them off by a man's behavior. I know that she gave examples but even those was kinda vague (Just could have said that the guy was homophobic and it was a turn-off for her). Also, she is right on not want to just have a partner to have a partner but do she really wants to be in a relationship or just have some companionship when it convenient for her? Marriage and kids are not for everyone and sometimes it just better to admit that you just prefer to be single and have your freedom than to live the "American" dream.
She didn't even go into detail of what the guy said about LBGT issues. For all we know he could've said something tame and she's blowing it outta proportion to make him seem homophonic. I think the whole convo is BS honestly.
 
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