Winter Came and Traci Ellis Ross Kept Warm in a Blanket of Regret

[Wiseborn]

I stopped once the guy started saying oh oh i can see that

You have your home, car, career and u 52, so what can a guy do to make your life better?

They never go in details when they say that bullshyt.

what she means is someone in the industry that was doing better than her.

 

[Wiseborn]

My baby Keri Hilson is taking the same road

You gotta wonder what’s wrong with her shorty dated mainly non industy nikkas who didn’t want clout she dated Serge Ibaka who bushed her. Shorty is fly and great arm candy so it’s clearly a her problem.

Way back in the day she said she used to go to R Kelly’s house to play basketball but apparently Kellz never knocked her down again why not?

 

[Wiseborn]

She does sound very sad. She doesn’t want to be alone but can’t find her match. I think her standards are fine in terms of what she’s looking for in another person. What I’m seeing as the issue is someone who is afraid to let a man in, afraid of being vulnerable. She’s been hurt before and doesn’t want to experience that again so she doesn’t let anyone in. If I were her therapist I’d try to unpack the hurts from the past, support her in understanding that whatever hurt she has experienced won’t necessarily be replayed in a new relationship, and encourage her to try again because she might just find someone really good for her. But if she is constantly protecting herself, which is what I see, then she’ll never be able to find a partner.

Nah she doesn’t need therapy she’s in an industry where Men have massive optionality any perceived flaw would get her bushed and it did.

She should’ve expanded her dating pool outside of the industry and outside of LA.

 

[lib123]

There's plenty of black businessmen, corporate black men, and black entrepreneurs that make money that would put her on a pedestal but they don't fit into her schedule and lifestyle. She's on the go most of the time. Where does she fit a relationship into that? Especially with a man that can't move around like because of his own career.

She boxed herself in unfortunately.

She’s 52 and the men that would do those things are 65+. She probably wants a successful man close to her age or slightly younger who looks above average but those men are going for women 10+ years younger than her for serious relationships. That’s lowkey the wall a lot of women run into, the men they want start wanting women younger than them.

 

[KidJSoul]

I mean this is all well and good but you think she gonna listen to your advice... you think she gonna lower her expectations to have a good relationship and have kids with a decent dude?

No I'm just speaking in general

 

[True Blue Moon]

Yes they’re lying to themselves and using copium.

When they hit 50 they reach the epiphany stage like Tracee did and say I wish I had found a decent Man and settled down.

Personally I think the delusion is part of the survival process meaning Human’s can’t procreate everytime they have sex like rabbits do so to prevent overpopulation despite being apex predators there’s things like Homosexuality and female delusion to self select out of the gene pool.

Spinsterhood and inceldom is a choice.

100%

 

[concise]

Doesn't make sense

If she grew up rich and also added her own money to it she has zero reason to value that in another person


A regular breh could probably wife her at this point but he'd have to dedicate all his energy to planning romantic shyt 24/7 that shyt can scare a nikka off unless he really dead set on making her his full time job

That sounds like a job for a dude with the mindset of @I love Latina women

They don't make too many like that.

 

[King Poetic]

what she means is someone in the industry that was doing better than her.

Nobody in the industry wants that long term

Similar to vivica fox, lisa raye, Claudia Jordan, sanna lathan, taraji p henson and the ton of other older chicks in that Hollywood life…

Those women was had their opportunities 20 years ago with the new edition, 50 cent, etc etc guys in they circles and u see how them dudes went on and just got regular chicks like a morris chestnut who not talking about being boss bytches, and other delusional bullshyt..

They still holding out for the fantasy or the dude like Lisa Raye says with a specific title to their name

I’ve seen plenty Hollywood dudes all around the city with just plain old regular chicks and your career and money doesn’t matter

 

[Wiseborn]

Nobody in the industry wants that long term

Similar to vivica fox, lisa raye, Claudia Jordan, sanna lathan, taraji p henson and the ton of other older chicks in that Hollywood life…

Those women was had their opportunities 20 years ago with the new edition, 50 cent, etc etc guys in they circles and u see how them dudes went on and just got regular chicks like a morris chestnut who not talking about being boss bytches, and other delusional bullshyt..

They still holding out for the fantasy or the dude like Lisa Raye says with a specific title to their name

I’ve seen plenty Hollywood dudes all around the city with just plain old regular chicks and your career and money doesn’t matter

as I said there’s people ( mainly women) who decide to help the environment and the species by not having kids when if they truely desired them they could’ve had them.

 

[lib123]

Notice you never see Male celebrities do interviews talking about they're lonely...they can't find a good woman...


If I ever seen it I would clown the F out that nygga... unless he was Fcking MICHAEL JACKSON!....then I get it

If a breh was saying this, @CreepyMcCreeperson would be all up in here. @Shadow King am I right?

 

[RAX 010]

She just need a nikka like me to be at it up and ghost her weekly to give her a sense of purpose

 

[Fillerguy]

She could adopt me. Or side on my face. I'm cool with either.

Edit:
"If I'm going to be in a relationship you're going to have to make my life better"
Expecting others to better your life will always lead to a failed relationship. Doesn’t matter whether it's friendly or romantic. Personal relationships aren't business transactions.

But she wouldn't have this problem if she sat on my face every weekend.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

If a breh was saying this, @CreepyMcCreeperson would be all up in here. @Shadow King am I right?

Male celebrities run through women all the time. Most of them actually are single by choice at this age. It’s easy for a wealthy man to find a cooperative woman. Even below average looking male celebs like Seth Rogan have wives. Kenan Thompson was married.

And there were rumors of Tracy messing with a married Anthony Anderson on Blackish.

And I didn’t come in here, because I’ve never found her attractive, so I didn’t click on the thread. Vivica, and Lisaraye are a different story. And your boy keeps accusing me of being a woman.

 

[Max Power]

She's got bug eyes.

I've never met a nice lady with bug eyes.

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

You gotta wonder what’s wrong with her shorty dated mainly non industy nikkas who didn’t want clout she dated Serge Ibaka who bushed her. Shorty is fly and great arm candy so it’s clearly a her problem.

Way back in the day she said she used to go to R Kelly’s house to play basketball but apparently Kellz never knocked her down again why not?

big p*ssy maybe?