Winter Came and Traci Ellis Ross Kept Warm in a Blanket of Regret

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They all say that

I saw vivica fox a few years ago who finally open up on vlad and said she regretted not having kids..

These women don’t want to look vulnerable in the public about it, but these are the same women behind closed doors was with the top actors, top singers, top athletes and was bussin it open for all these dudes and at the end of the day was left with a rubber on the bed..

These women hide behind their careers and money to not take accountability of they own bad decisions
 

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That loneliness really hit in their 50's... you ain't partying like you used, so you left with yourself and that inner voice...

You will find a lot of these women in the corporate world, they bury themselves in work to forgot until their body/mind breakdown and they end up talking to a shrink

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Yup

It’s crazy because even in their 40s and 50s and they have their career and money these women stay mentally acting like they are in their 20’s and they have unlimited options now..
 

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She must've had a rough past 2 years
I'm not one of those dudes that makes fun of older women for having kids. I think it's pathetic to do that and it ignores that not every woman wants kids.

I do think however that we need to end this current online trend of women acting like being single is inherently superior to being in a relationship. It's going to end up duping a lot of women who may have actually been happy.

That study that showed single childless women are the "happiest demographic" has been debunked.

Most people are happy in a relationship. It's okay if you are not. But we need to be teaching people good relationship skills.
 

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I'm not one of those dudes that makes fun of older women for having kids. I think it's pathetic to do that and it ignores that not every woman wants kids.

I do think however that we need to end this current online trend of women acting like being single is inherently superior to being in a relationship. It's going to end up duping a lot of women who may have actually been happy.

That study that showed single childless women are the "happiest demographic" has been debunked.

Most people are happy in a relationship. It's okay if you are not. But we need to be teaching people good relationship skills.

I mean this is all well and good but you think she gonna listen to your advice...:mjlol: you think she gonna lower her expectations to have a good relationship and have kids with a decent dude?
 

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She does sound very sad. She doesn’t want to be alone but can’t find her match. I think her standards are fine in terms of what she’s looking for in another person. What I’m seeing as the issue is someone who is afraid to let a man in, afraid of being vulnerable. She’s been hurt before and doesn’t want to experience that again so she doesn’t let anyone in. If I were her therapist I’d try to unpack the hurts from the past, support her in understanding that whatever hurt she has experienced won’t necessarily be replayed in a new relationship, and encourage her to try again because she might just find someone really good for her. But if she is constantly protecting herself, which is what I see, then she’ll never be able to find a partner.
 
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