She better not bring a regular Joe Schmo guy around her Mama Diana Ross.....and still get a guy, so many of us hold out for a specific fantasy instead of just getting with somebody we're just comfortable with
Very much this. You got people who subscribe to these nonconformist ideologies, “my truth”, blah blah blah…only to get to the end of the road and realize they’ve cornered themselves into a colorless space of nothingness. Quit disturbing the ecosystem by making up extra shyt and just…be.
The convo here is going to go one of two ways..... will either be introspective and mature or devolve into jokes getting let off at the expense somebody else's pain cause it makes the joke dropper feel better about their life............ being here this will turn into the latter....![]()
It’s wild when you talk to people and realize just how delusional/hypocritical they are:
“I want a calm man who listens.”
Meanwhile…the chick herself is hostile af and always talkingso basically you WANT what you are NOT willing to first be YOURSELF. Expecting to GIVE nothing but still RECEIVE everything.
Society is cooked man.
It’s wild when you talk to people and realize just how delusional/hypocritical they are:
“I want a calm man who listens.”
Meanwhile…the chick herself is hostile af and always talkingso basically you WANT what you are NOT willing to first be YOURSELF. Expecting to GIVE nothing but still RECEIVE everything.
Society is cooked man.
they want slaves. The Black Man in America has been groomed to be a Slave to his woman which is why dudes go out seeking the best master (when dudes marry out it is never in the context of I found a woman who will be a mother and support but more so this new slave master gives me extra biscuits). The issue is this shyt goes against nature which is why you often see the extremes of Black men being Slaves or saying fukk the system I aint gonna be shyt and enjoy the burning down lol.
Nah.Doesn't make sense
If she grew up rich and also added her own money to it she has zero reason to value that in another person
A regular breh could probably wife her at this point but he'd have to dedicate all his energy to planning romantic shyt 24/7
Said it way better than I could. Last paragraph is basically gospelClearly a beautiful, intelligent woman. But not nearly as wise as she could be for her age.
She actually isn't wrong about not wanting to be with the wrong partner and being in relationships just to be in them, just to be securely attached even if it doesn't add to her life in anyway.
Where she lacks wisdom and quite frankly spiritual growth is realizing that the love and partnership you're looking for is UNCONDITIONAL. You want someone to meet you where you are in life and love you as is, without even being open to giving that back.
And when you actually are attuned to your spirit your people, in all facets of life will find you. There is no shortage of love for anybody walking this planet.
Case in point....she doesn't want children, doesn't get along with men her age, get's along fine with younger men but doesn't want to "raise" (improve upon) anybody and needs to someone with enough money/notoriety to have something to lose as well. She has likely shooed her "person" away for being too young or not having enough comparable money and status to lose. The love of her life couldn't get to her if they tried because her ego is in the way, as is the case for a lot of people playing the dating game.