Winter Came and Traci Ellis Ross Kept Warm in a Blanket of Regret

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....and still get a guy, so many of us hold out for a specific fantasy instead of just getting with somebody we're just comfortable with
She better not bring a regular Joe Schmo guy around her Mama Diana Ross.

That’s a recipe for disaster

:whoa::whoa::whoa:


Breh better have a billion dollars and a Nobel prize

:hubie:
 

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Clearly a beautiful, intelligent woman. But not nearly as wise as she could be for her age.

She actually isn't wrong about not wanting to be with the wrong partner and being in relationships just to be in them, just to be securely attached even if it doesn't add to her life in anyway.

Where she lacks wisdom and quite frankly spiritual growth is realizing that the love and partnership you're looking for is UNCONDITIONAL. You want someone to meet you where you are in life and love you as is, without even being open to giving that back.

And when you actually are attuned to your spirit your people, in all facets of life will find you. There is no shortage of love for anybody walking this planet.

Case in point....she doesn't want children, doesn't get along with men her age, get's along fine with younger men but doesn't want to "raise" (improve upon) anybody and needs to someone with enough money/notoriety to have something to lose as well. She has likely shooed her "person" away for being too young or not having enough comparable money and status to lose. The love of her life couldn't get to her if they tried because her ego is in the way, as is the case for a lot of people playing the dating game.
 

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Very much this. You got people who subscribe to these nonconformist ideologies, “my truth”, blah blah blah…only to get to the end of the road and realize they’ve cornered themselves into a colorless space of nothingness. Quit disturbing the ecosystem by making up extra shyt and just…be.

All she did is voice her opinion and you aggy


The convo here is going to go one of two ways..... will either be introspective and mature or devolve into jokes getting let off at the expense somebody else's pain cause it makes the joke dropper feel better about their life............ being here this will turn into the latter.... :sas2:

Most of these dudes are borderline sociopaths.

Socially retarded and emotionally stunted.

and it's not just towards women as much as dudes like to harp on.
 

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It’s wild when you talk to people and realize just how delusional/hypocritical they are:

“I want a calm man who listens.”

Meanwhile…the chick herself is hostile af and always talking:mjlol: so basically you WANT what you are NOT willing to first be YOURSELF. Expecting to GIVE nothing but still RECEIVE everything.

Society is cooked man.

they want slaves. The Black Man in America has been groomed to be a Slave to his woman which is why dudes go out seeking the best master (when dudes marry out it is never in the context of I found a woman who will be a mother and support but more so this new slave master gives me extra biscuits). The issue is this shyt goes against nature which is why you often see the extremes of Black men being Slaves or saying fukk the system I aint gonna be shyt and enjoy the burning down lol.
 

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It’s wild when you talk to people and realize just how delusional/hypocritical they are:

“I want a calm man who listens.”

Meanwhile…the chick herself is hostile af and always talking:mjlol: so basically you WANT what you are NOT willing to first be YOURSELF. Expecting to GIVE nothing but still RECEIVE everything.

Society is cooked man.
they want slaves. The Black Man in America has been groomed to be a Slave to his woman which is why dudes go out seeking the best master (when dudes marry out it is never in the context of I found a woman who will be a mother and support but more so this new slave master gives me extra biscuits). The issue is this shyt goes against nature which is why you often see the extremes of Black men being Slaves or saying fukk the system I aint gonna be shyt and enjoy the burning down lol.

Women who know how to listen and take advice have happy marriages. No man wants to feel like a little boy in his household. He’ll go and find a woman who looks at him like a King.



Side note what do you call the King’s wife?

What do you call the Queen’s husband (if he’s not already royalty)?
 

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Interesting conversation but for someone that success and universally attractive she is either not forthcoming about the real reason she is alone or she hasn't figured it out yet. No way most men her age that she meets are "toxic". it's more likely that the ones she is attracted to do not want to be with her long term or maybe she prefers younger men that only view her as a play thing or a novelty. it is obvious that she is not telling the entire story.
 

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Doesn't make sense

If she grew up rich and also added her own money to it she has zero reason to value that in another person


A regular breh could probably wife her at this point but he'd have to dedicate all his energy to planning romantic shyt 24/7
Nah.

She grew up rich which means she has the “culture” of an upperclass raised woman. A regular dude not gonna understand the minutiae of that culture/etiquette. It would be awkward at dinner parties etc. especially because there’s additional layers to the culture of upperclass entertainment legacies.
 

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There is clearly some issue there that she won't get into, which is fine and it's her business. The "toxic" argument feels like a copout... She's likely surrounded by very liberal folk

She strikes me as being bright and self aware. The fact that she doesn't have a messy reputation and no kids means that she knows what she wants to some extent, being that she's famous and looks good

Her standards are likely unattainable but she's made peace with accepting that. She doesn't seem angry over it like so many others
 

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Clearly a beautiful, intelligent woman. But not nearly as wise as she could be for her age.

She actually isn't wrong about not wanting to be with the wrong partner and being in relationships just to be in them, just to be securely attached even if it doesn't add to her life in anyway.

Where she lacks wisdom and quite frankly spiritual growth is realizing that the love and partnership you're looking for is UNCONDITIONAL. You want someone to meet you where you are in life and love you as is, without even being open to giving that back.

And when you actually are attuned to your spirit your people, in all facets of life will find you. There is no shortage of love for anybody walking this planet.

Case in point....she doesn't want children, doesn't get along with men her age, get's along fine with younger men but doesn't want to "raise" (improve upon) anybody and needs to someone with enough money/notoriety to have something to lose as well. She has likely shooed her "person" away for being too young or not having enough comparable money and status to lose. The love of her life couldn't get to her if they tried because her ego is in the way, as is the case for a lot of people playing the dating game.
Said it way better than I could. Last paragraph is basically gospel
 
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