Wife finds out her husbands “niece” is actually his daughter

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Divorce should be the last option after all forms of reconciliation have been exhausted. She has a family with the man, why should the children suffer because of the dad. I don’t think divorce is warranted while emotions are high.


She would have to hit the chop shop. If she wanted to keep the baby, there are many factors I would have to consider before ending the marriage.
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She goes through the pregnancy with you thinking you’re the father and then you find out that you’re not. No giving the baby up, she wants to keep it and raise it in your house.

So she lied to you like this man lied to his wife and she’s asking you to raise the baby, keep your family together, despite the lie.

I’m just trying to make sure you aren’t being a hypocrite
I don’t know what I would do.
 

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Divorce should be the last option after all forms of reconciliation have been exhausted. She has a family with the man, why should the children suffer because of the dad. I don’t think divorce is warranted while emotions are high.


She would have to hit the chop shop. If she wanted to keep the baby, there are many factors I would have to consider before ending the marriage.
Kids suffer all the time because of the actions of a parent(s).
 

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So a Black man cheated on his wife.

The “skrong Black leader of the Nuclear family” you KoonCels always talk about.

Brought his illegitimate child into her house and lied about who she was.

And you goofies STILL find a way to put blame on Black women, instead of Black men creating broken homes outside of the “traditional Black family” y’all always talk about

LOST NIKKAS :scust:
 

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That makes you a hypocrite as you're telling her to do something that you aren't sure you would even do if you were in the same boat.
Seems like you were just it ch ing to use that word:pachaha:

I can say whatever now. I would like to think I’m mature and compassionate enough to put my ego to the side and try my best to keep my family intact, but I don’t know what I’d do in this situation. It will probably depend on the age of my current children, my stress levels, financial expectations, and what new terms I want in the marriage.

My thing is, in the heat of the moment, I don’t think it’s wise to make long term decisions, unless it’s a life or death situation.
 
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