Why would a guy date or marry a single mother?

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yep. a dude i went to highschool with has 6 kids by 5 different mothers and he got married to a chick 2 years ago with no kids at all. she is pretty, sexy, very nice, and has a degree and a good job. had her own house and car when they met. and believe me, dude AINT shyt. had me like :dwillhuh::ohhh: the whole time at the wedding. i still can't believe it 2 years later....:wow:

but are his 5 baby mommas marry?
 

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yep. a dude i went to highschool with has 6 kids by 5 different mothers and he got married to a chick 2 years ago with no kids at all. she is pretty, sexy, very nice, and has a degree and a good job. had her own house and car when they met. and believe me, dude AINT shyt. had me like :dwillhuh::ohhh: the whole time at the wedding. i still can't believe it 2 years later....:wow:

Sounds like the type of woman that's goin end up in one of those feminist meetings @Willstyles attended :ohhh:
 
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some women were just born to be mothers.
sometimes you will luck up and find that chick
who got shyt together.....
a few degrees from college,beamer,fly ass crib,
loves to cook,bookworm for a kid who speaks
perfect english and shows respect,loves to cook
and comes from a family of go getters.
you just gotta avoid the bear traps.
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1. most single fathers don't have custody of their children.
2. A single dad is not viewed the same as a single mom and you now that.
3. Single mom and her child are a package deal, so the primary thing would be working out a relationship with both of them.

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1. Meaning what, exactly?
2. In the sense that single fathers aren't stigmatized the way single mothers are? Sure.
3. Eventually. But since I don't think children should be exposed to everyone their parent dates (not early on, anyway), I think the initial connection is with the parent.
 

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re:
1. Meaning what, exactly?
2. In the sense that single fathers aren't stigmatized the way single mothers are? Sure.
3. Eventually. But since I don't think children should be exposed to everyone their parent dates (not early on, anyway), I think the initial connection is with the parent.

1. well most dads dont have custody so the child is rarely around. if your dating a single mom more than likely she has custody and the child will be around.

2. :ehh:

3. so what would be an acceptable timeframe for you?

4. so if there are two women, both the same age, both have careers, both are about the same look wise, but one has a child. Which one are you choosing?
 

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1. well most dads dont have custody so the child is rarely around. if your dating a single mom more than likely she has custody and the child will be around.

2. :ehh:

3. so what would be an acceptable timeframe for you?

4. so if there are two women, both the same age, both have careers, both are about the same look wise, but one has a child. Which one are you choosing?

3. Acceptable time frame to what? Be involved with the child? Man, I don't know.
4. Whichever one I cared about more.
 

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nikkas on here stay shytting on single mothers
when half these fakkits damn sure didn't grow up with a father in their life
 

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relationships are hard already with just you and a chick, think of every relationship you had.

Now think about adding a child, a baby dad, his family

like why make your life harder than it has to be :snoop:
 

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relationships are hard already with just you and a chick, think of every relationship you had.
Now think about adding a child, a baby dad, his family
like why make your life harder than it has to be :snoop:
People love who they love. And usually the other stuff gets worked around.
Relationships aren't always ideal or "logical".
I hesitate to use the word logical because I don't mean to say "rational" though they could be taken to mean the same thing.
 
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