Why women lose the dating game: A MUST READ! TOO MANY QUOTABLES!

[the bossman]

actually thats not true. if you believe you have to part with $$$$ to get a decent to hot chick. you dont know your way around women. and thats fine. take em out. pay for stuff. obviously you have money to blow. some people dont have it like that. and thats not a knock on them or you. unless they of course are being lazy. but there are a ton of dudes that work hard as hell but dont have a ton to show for it. vs some that dont work that hard, got lucky with some connections they have had and make a very good amt of money.

so again. if you have convo, and a decent smile. you can and will get the ladies. not all of em. but enough. and they do not have to be rats. and you do not have to blow your check on them for you to get their attention.

like dude tried to tell you. you can go around being a simp buying all type of stuff for them if you want to. there is some dude you think is a straight clown. with no job, a convo, a little game. and is all up in that same chicks crib the night after you drop her off back at home after you've just dropped $100 on her. believe it.

the moment a woman KNOWS she can get a free meal from you in the dating world. and if you are quote un quote not her type(dont have that swag/personality she loves). she will keep getting free meals and drinks from you while she's getting at the dude she really likes. so you are more or less footing the bill for some broke dude with game. since you are paying she gets her desires financially met by you. because of who he is, she gets her other desires met. she's in heaven to some degree. the only time a problem comes up is when she's ready to officially settle down. then she realizes oh boy can even pay his own rent, car note, insurance, etc. let alone help with hers. so here you come. and she might put out for you on that alone. but again she still aint feeling you like that regardless. so eventually you will roll out and feel used.

this is truth. do with it what you will.

 

[The Nigerian]

What kind of women are you pimps pulling on swag and conversation alone? I'm sure you Casinovas have a few photos on the Facebook. Post pics or STFU!

Also, why do broke people only date busted chicks? I never see broke dudes holding down desirable women. They're usually fat, poorly dressed, bad hair, bad teeth, etc…

Shouldn't more hot chicks be fvcking bums? Why do they all seem to gravitate toward providers?

 

[Kenny West]

I'm out here cosigning DaChampIsHere posts n shyt, this must be bixarro world Bruh

 

[rapbeats]

What kind of women are you pimps pulling on swag and conversation alone? I'm sure you Casinovas have a few photos on the Facebook. Post pics or STFU!

Also, why do broke people only date busted chicks? I never see broke dudes holding down desirable women. They're usually fat, poorly dressed, bad hair, bad teeth, etc…

Shouldn't more hot chicks be fvcking bums? Why do they all seem to gravitate toward providers?

no one is saying dont get your money right and be in a position to provide for YOUR real woman. but chicks. thats not your job. never has been. if you want to drop a few bills on a homegirl cause thats what yall do. she's going thru a rough patch. thats fine. yall are cool like that. yall go way back, got history etc. but on a random club chick, a random i met you in the grocery store i'm not really trying to bE with you like that but i just want to kick it chick.. why blow cheese on those types? its foolish spending. but hey its on you if you want to shell out your cash to help with your self esteem. cause usually thats what thats about. you needing to FEEL like you doing it big. so you go find chicks that will allow you to give them things. i'll say it for the next lady that gets a free meal out of you "thanks bruh, keep up the good work."

remember people are humans. people like to talk about everything, if you can do that, remain interesting and make a women laugh. its a wrap.

 

[bouncy]

Being open and honest about your feelings and expectations of a person, and being with them for more than superficial reasons(big booty/wallet)

None of what I'm posting is directed to you personaly because i don't know you personaly. But if you spend your life thinking you're manipulating and getting over on people to get what you want then you are setting yourself up to be used in the long run.

Also I disagree with the notion that you should pick someone "lower" than you. Getting with someone for monetary reasons is never a good idea. If she chose you just because you make more money than her, she will just as easily find someone who makes even more money. A man does not need to have more money in order to lead, or have power in a relationship. If she looks at you like the leader and king that you should be striving to be, your bank account won't matter.

Lastly I am a firm believer that you attract the types of people you deserve. If your opinion is that all women are just out looking to get what they can from you and they aren't looking for love, then that's a reflection on the types of women you attract, not women as a whole. Plenty of men and women find love everyday, but you won't attract the type of women who's looking for that type of thing if your busy "enjoying" yourself with undesirables. Work on yourself and only deal with those who are worthy of your attention and you will attract the right kind of women, until then you will continue to attract undesirables because the real women can see your game from a mile away, and they won't even acknowledge you.

Everything you wrote, I agree with, unfortunately that is not how life is for most people. I was just like you, and thought love and respect, was what women wanted, but security and being competitive with other women is more important to them. They say one thing, and when shyt hits the fan, they do another. All I know is if I see this from ALL TYPES OF WOMEN, why would I not learn from it?.

Also, a lot of people are in love when things are going good, it's when hard times come that you see they switch up on you. Hard times is different for everyone, but the outcome is still the same.

I'm telling you once you get into your late 20's, get some money, and don't let women know you have money, you will see a change in how they treat you once they find out you doing good for yourself. Their eyes light up, they become more nice, no talk back, everything you say is funny,etc., and I have no problem getting women, but when the questions of "what do you do?", and "where do you live?" pop up, and they pay attention to your watch, and say "that's a nice watch", then look at the shoes in more detail, the attitude changes. They do everything to get with you, but once you let it be known after a while that, you aren't going to fall for the "love" okey doke, and her being a real woman because she cooks & clean, which is her form of game, she starts pressing you to be serious so she can live with you, then starts dry snitching about her bills needs to be paid. She is expecting you to say you will help her out. I don't fall for it, but I love for them for who they are. I can see when someone is bullshytting me, and still respect them, especially if I'm fukking them. As long as you don't play me with something serious, I take it as a joke, because she thinks her game is really going to get me. Women love to play the romance game on men, but it works most of the time so I can't blame them for it.

I know I sound fukked up, but I'm cool, just blunt when it comes to people, and how we treat each other. I was a sucker once, but never again, it doesn't mean I want to see others hurt, it just means I want to protect myself so it won't happen again. People forget, if the world was so good, why the high divorce rate? Why do so many people cheat on each other?. Why do so many people lie to each other?. Why do so many people talk negative about each other?. You know how many women tell me about their ex-boyfriend's, who they JUST broke up with, business, and use me to try to make them jealous. Or they are with their boyfriend, and breaking their neck to look at me without him knowing.

Like I stated, I'm just living in this world, not trying to change it. I'll leave that up to others. I'll change MY world as time goes on.

 

[#1 pick]

If LoudAffair can pull em, theres no excuse why your average suited and booted brother can't pull quality dimes, but it becomes a numbers game for men too. How many women out there are really wifey material past a certain age?

LoudAffair had a lot of game. A lot of these dudes want to believe they have game but they really don't. LoudAffair is about what he says. Women call him short and ugly and still f**k him. Women clown him but gladly have his baby. Sometimes dudes got to be real with themselves. If I am playing college hoops and I tell you I will beat you 21-0. I will beat you 21-0. No lie, no bullshyt. Sometimes you need to know your skill-set, you need to have measurable goals, you need to have your head on straight.

Most of the dudes on here are just getting by with no direction with women. They just living life and sometimes it doesn't work that way. You need to really have a mindset of where you want to go with the woman or women. I tell this to any one. I can tell the ones that got it and the ones that don't. A lot of ya'll just really need to evaluate what makes you happy and go from there. Having sex every night with different chicks ain't no life any man should have and be happy of if it makes you happy just know it comes at a price.

 

[Wild self]

LoudAffair had a lot of game. A lot of these dudes want to believe they have game but they really don't. LoudAffair is about what he says. Women call him short and ugly and still f**k him. Women clown him but gladly have his baby. Sometimes dudes got to be real with themselves. If I am playing college hoops and I tell you I will beat you 21-0. I will beat you 21-0. No lie, no bullshyt. Sometimes you need to know your skill-set, you need to have measurable goals, you need to have your head on straight.

Most of the dudes on here are just getting by with no direction with women. They just living life and sometimes it doesn't work that way. You need to really have a mindset of where you want to go with the woman or women. I tell this to any one. I can tell the ones that got it and the ones that don't. A lot of ya'll just really need to evaluate what makes you happy and go from there. Having sex every night with different chicks ain't no life any man should have and be happy of if it makes you happy just know it comes at a price.

Loudaffair is using the "trap nikka" angle to get these girls heads. Women who are in the hood or fascinated about the hood love them some goons that do jail time. If you that, a small time rapper, or some random nikka getting money outside of a 9-5, you game.

 

[#1 pick]

Loudaffair is using the "trap nikka" angle to get these girls heads. Women who are in the hood or fascinated about the hood love them some goons that do jail time. If you that, a small time rapper, or some random nikka getting money outside of a 9-5, you game.

You can come up with what, where, when, and how but you still got to do it. He could have came with the corporate America angle and he still will be eating a lot more than a good number of these dudes. You guys got an excuse for everything. Sometimes, you just got to admit when you don't have it and find suitable ways to get it.

 

[Wild self]

You can come up with what, where, when, and how but you still got to do it. He could have came with the corporate America angle and he still will be eating a lot more than a good number of these dudes. You guys got an excuse for everything. Sometimes, you just got to admit when you don't have it and find suitable ways to get it.

Trust me, the type of nikka women like is the risky lifestyle. Not hating, but he knows women's weaknesses from the get go. It's not that hard to do that, actually, once understood.

 

[Cory MBA]

I see it like this...

B*tches ain't shyt

If you're offended, then you should be

And the same bytches I disrespect will be the ones to let me f*ck the quickest

Why? Because that's the way you hoes are wired

And a broad can say whatever she wants but when you got a good job, nice crib, dress nice, well spoken, attractive, and put in that work... you're the f*ckin man. When you young and not established all you have is your looks and your gift of gab to bag b*tches, which leaves about 80% of dudes out in the cold.

Confidence comes from being accomplished and feeling good about yourself and how you're living. Hoes are attracted to confidence, and arrogance. They might not admit it, but arrogance gets you the p*ssy not that humble sh*t.

These hoes ain't even worth these words of wisdom. Man, fukk em.

 

[jalamanta]

I see it like this...

B*tches ain't shyt

If you're offended, then you should be

And the same bytches I disrespect will be the ones to let me f*ck the quickest

Why? Because that's the way you hoes are wired

And a broad can say whatever she wants but when you got a good job, nice crib, dress nice, well spoken, attractive, and put in that work... you're the f*ckin man. When you young and not established all you have is your looks and your gift of gab to bag b*tches, which leaves about 80% of dudes out in the cold.

Confidence comes from being accomplished and feeling good about yourself and how you're living. Hoes are attracted to confidence, and arrogance. They might not admit it, but arrogance gets you the p*ssy not that humble sh*t.

These hoes ain't even worth these words of wisdom. Man, fukk em.

This is too true.

 

[MikelArteta]

All you old hags keep waiting thinking your going to win

 

[151_Pr00f]

LOL classic thread. Im using this as a reference when I start sugar daddy bawlin' breh's

 

[Da_Eggman]

Truth tho