Why women lose the dating game: A MUST READ! TOO MANY QUOTABLES!

[bouncy]

I think a lot of you are missing the undertone of "holier-than-thou" sense of entitlement that a lot of these women have!

fukk all the squabble about alpha v beta male.

Yeah, that's what I was noticing.

They are mad because they realize they may have to work longer then they expected which means less money to buy the things they want. What men fail to realize is that women like to spend YOUR money to buy things, and use hers to make sure her bills are paid, regardless of how much she makes. If she can get you to do both she has made it. I don't know why, the only thing I can say is they are selfish. I still love them though, I'm just aware of how they think,most not all, and use it to may advantage. Yeah, I may spend some money, but there is a difference between eating at a nice restaurant once in a while, and paying her bills or letting her stay in my place while she is just paying a phone or cable bill, when I'm paying for everything else. Not gonna happen unless I really trust you aren't going to use me as a come up, really care about me, and we are living together because we want to, not because we should or she needs to save money.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

That's not what I've seen when talking with older men at the ages of 50, and up. The one's who are complaining are the ones who are stuck in relationships they obviously aren't happy in, even though they say they are. The one's who know how to handle their finances, are the ones who are enjoying life. Yeah, they find some women who want some material things, and I thought they were tricking, but I realized they weren't really spending money like that. They were getting food cooked, treated well, good sex, not much arguing, and when things was too much, was able to end the relationship just to find someone else.

I used to think they were old, and couldn't find women, but that isn't the case. If anything I see the lonely older women going through the bullshyt, which is why I feel sorry for them sometimes, but then I realize they make up for it by having a lot of friends, and family, around them constantly. The men tend to be cool with hanging out once in a while, sit in the house watching some tv with a drink and/or some good herb to smoke.

I guess everything evens itself out when you play the game right in your youth. It's the people struggling financially who are not enjoying life.

It was a joke. I was referring to another thread where dudes were talking about getting older and moving to brazil to find women "worthy of their standards" because they couldn't find any in America.

I agree being financially stable is important when it comes to enjoying life. But I disagree with the notion that a man should wait till he's old and succesful to find a young petty girls to settle down. If that's how it happens so be it. But if your 20 and lame, being 30 with money doesn't make you any less lame. And fukking college students while your in your 30s doesn't mean your wining. It just means your lagging behind the rest of us. Most of us fukked college chicks while in college so we've been there done that, at that age you should be looking for meaningful interactions and relationships, not the youngest dumbest prettiest girl you can find.

 

[skeetsinternal]

What is an alpha male?

edit: nvm figured it out. wack article

Ask that bytch nikka Dachumpishere, dat nikka fascinated by that term

 

[bouncy]

It was a joke. I was referring to another thread where dudes were talking about getting older and moving to brazil to find women "worthy of their standards" because they couldn't find any in America.

I agree being financially stable is important when it comes to enjoying life. But I disagree with the notion that a man should wait till he's old and succesful to find a young petty girls to settle down. If that's how it happens so be it. But if your 20 and lame, being 30 with money doesn't make you any less lame. And fukking college students while your in your 30s doesn't mean your wining. It just means your lagging behind the rest of us. Most of us fukked college chicks while in college so we've been there done that, at that age you should be looking for meaningful interactions and relationships, not the youngest dumbest prettiest girl you can find.

I don't think they don't want a meaningful relationship, it's just not that easy to find, so why get with a woman who doesn't have a tight body, and comes with a lot of baggage?. I think people forget, the thing that brings you to someone is their sex appeal, you become friends AFTER all of that. Just because you sexed women in college doesn't mean you want to stop when you get older. If older men could find older women who kept their bodies tight for their age, had a good head on their shoulders, and enjoyed the things they enjoy, they would probably choose the older women. I always preferred someone around my age for a relationship, regardless of my age at that time, except for my early teens, then I wanted a older chick. fukking is another thing, as long as she isn't under 21, I'll get with her. Younger then that is corny because she can't drink with me without me getting in trouble if she does.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

I don't think they don't want a meaningful relationship, it's just not that easy to find, so why get with a woman who doesn't have a tight body, and comes with a lot of baggage?. I think people forget, the thing that brings you to someone is their sex appeal, you become friends AFTER all of that. Just because you sexed women in college doesn't mean you want to stop when you get older. If older men could find older women who kept their bodies tight for their age, had a good head on their shoulders, and enjoyed the things they enjoy, they would probably choose the older women. I always preferred someone around my age for a relationship, regardless of my age at that time, except for my early teens, then I wanted a older chick. fukking is another thing, as long as she isn't under 21, I'll get with her. Younger then that is corny because she can't drink with me without me getting in trouble if she does.

I disagree. Meaningful relationships aren't hard to find. But if your 35 and haven't had a meaningful relationship it's you who holds the baggage, and the good women are either avoiding you, or already in a relationship with someone worthy of them. The young women who will mess with you are the same types that end up 35 with baggage of their own.

It's a viscous cycle of these men and women playing each other, and in the end they all end up alone and bitter.

 

[rapbeats]

This always happens with the Broke N!gga Brigade.

You're all talk, turbo. I know that bullsh!t may fly in whatever slum you live in but if you want your words to hold any weight amongst men of substance you're going to have to post something to substantiate your claims.

The idea that worthwhile women with options can be had with a wink and a nod is just old pimp fantasy. In reality, even Pimps had to part with dough in some form or another to pull the baddest b!tches into their stable.

actually thats not true. if you believe you have to part with $$$$ to get a decent to hot chick. you dont know your way around women. and thats fine. take em out. pay for stuff. obviously you have money to blow. some people dont have it like that. and thats not a knock on them or you. unless they of course are being lazy. but there are a ton of dudes that work hard as hell but dont have a ton to show for it. vs some that dont work that hard, got lucky with some connections they have had and make a very good amt of money.

so again. if you have convo, and a decent smile. you can and will get the ladies. not all of em. but enough. and they do not have to be rats. and you do not have to blow your check on them for you to get their attention.

like dude tried to tell you. you can go around being a simp buying all type of stuff for them if you want to. there is some dude you think is a straight clown. with no job, a convo, a little game. and is all up in that same chicks crib the night after you drop her off back at home after you've just dropped $100 on her. believe it.

the moment a woman KNOWS she can get a free meal from you in the dating world. and if you are quote un quote not her type(dont have that swag/personality she loves). she will keep getting free meals and drinks from you while she's getting at the dude she really likes. so you are more or less footing the bill for some broke dude with game. since you are paying she gets her desires financially met by you. because of who he is, she gets her other desires met. she's in heaven to some degree. the only time a problem comes up is when she's ready to officially settle down. then she realizes oh boy can even pay his own rent, car note, insurance, etc. let alone help with hers. so here you come. and she might put out for you on that alone. but again she still aint feeling you like that regardless. so eventually you will roll out and feel used.

this is truth. do with it what you will.

 

[Un-AmericanDreamer]

If LoudAffair can pull em, theres no excuse why your average suited and booted brother can't pull quality dimes, but it becomes a numbers game for men too. How many women out there are really wifey material past a certain age?

 

[bouncy]

I disagree. Meaningful relationships aren't hard to find. But if your 35 and haven't had a meaningful relationship it's you who holds the baggage, and the good women are either avoiding you, or already in a relationship with someone worthy of them. The young women who will mess with you are the same types that end up 35 with baggage of their own.

It's a viscous cycle of these men and women playing each other, and in the end they all end up alone and bitter.

What do you consider a meaningful relationship? I know for me, when I hear women say this, it really has no substance. Again, I love women, but they tend to go with their emotions, and love what you can do for them not necessarily you as a person so their meaning of a meaningful relationship is how long you can keep the things they want going. Once that stops or they think you can't do it anymore their love for you changes. I seen it all the time. It was crazy. This is why it is important to find someone "lower" then you meaning if you make $35,000 you need to get with someone who makes $25,000, and I guarantee you she would be a good woman to you, until she finds someone who makes much more then you, but that is rare as people tend to live and hang with those in their same financial bracket.

As for being lonely and bitter, like I stated earlier, that tends to be women, but from what I notice they don't necessarily want a man for "love", they want him to do things for them. I know it sounds foul, but until I accepted this, life is less stressful when dealing with women,and not just dating but family members. I always thought it was about love, meaning how your mother loves you, but that isn't how it is for women. They love the THOUGHT of being in love, not the things that come with it such as loyalty, going through thick and thin, and honesty. Again some do, but for most of them they don't, and I'm not just talking about my experiences, but from what I've seen. I've lived in different parts of the country that also had women form different parts of the world, and they don't see love as those things neither. They say they do, but their actions say the opposite.

Maybe this is how life is supposed to be, I don't know, but that's how it is. You won't see it, until you go deep into the way people think.

This is something I've learned the hard way. If I see this is how it is for most women, why would I argue for them to change, and waste my time on this earth when I could learn how they work and enjoy myself. When they are told these things, they just argue with us, and nothing changes for the better. If the woman who does see love like I see it comes along then I made good, if not I'm still happy with my life.

 

[Sharp]

I see it like this...

B*tches ain't shyt

If you're offended, then you should be

And the same bytches I disrespect will be the ones to let me f*ck the quickest

Why? Because that's the way you hoes are wired

And a broad can say whatever she wants but when you got a good job, nice crib, dress nice, well spoken, attractive, and put in that work... you're the f*ckin man. When you young and not established all you have is your looks and your gift of gab to bag b*tches, which leaves about 80% of dudes out in the cold.

Confidence comes from being accomplished and feeling good about yourself and how you're living. Hoes are attracted to confidence, and arrogance. They might not admit it, but arrogance gets you the p*ssy not that humble sh*t.

These hoes ain't even worth these words of wisdom. Man, fukk em.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

actually thats not true. if you believe you have to part with $$$$ to get a decent to hot chick. you dont know your way around women. and thats fine. take em out. pay for stuff. obviously you have money to blow. some people dont have it like that. and thats not a knock on them or you. unless they of course are being lazy. but there are a ton of dudes that work hard as hell but dont have a ton to show for it. vs some that dont work that hard, got lucky with some connections they have had and make a very good amt of money.

so again. if you have convo, and a decent smile. you can and will get the ladies. not all of em. but enough. and they do not have to be rats. and you do not have to blow your check on them for you to get their attention.

like dude tried to tell you. you can go around being a simp buying all type of stuff for them if you want to. there is some dude you think is a straight clown. with no job, a convo, a little game. and is all up in that same chicks crib the night after you drop her off back at home after you've just dropped $100 on her. believe it.

the moment a woman KNOWS she can get a free meal from you in the dating world. and if you are quote un quote not her type(dont have that swag/personality she loves). she will keep getting free meals and drinks from you while she's getting at the dude she really likes. so you are more or less footing the bill for some broke dude with game. since you are paying she gets her desires financially met by you. because of who he is, she gets her other desires met. she's in heaven to some degree. the only time a problem comes up is when she's ready to officially settle down. then she realizes oh boy can even pay his own rent, car note, insurance, etc. let alone help with hers. so here you come. and she might put out for you on that alone. but again she still aint feeling you like that regardless. so eventually you will roll out and feel used.

this is truth. do with it what you will.

Trill shyt. Funny thing is, I'm not even broke, far from it. It's just that my mom and dad taught me not to spend my finances on women who I didn't intend on making mine. I don't care if I got it. That doesn't mean I have to or that I'm gonna give it away.

A lot of women want sex just as much as men. I'm not footing the bill for something we have already decided we both want. That's just stupid.

I'm a Jew when it comes to the p*ssy. If we can negotiate the price down to free, ain't no need for me to pull this wallet out. And if you don't wanna sell, I'll get my numbers game on. Someone will.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

What do you consider a meaningful relationship? I know for me, when I hear women say this, it really has no substance. Again, I love women, but they tend to go with their emotions, and love what you can do for them not necessarily you as a person so their meaning of a meaningful relationship is how long you can keep the things they want going. Once that stops or they think you can't do it anymore their love for you changes. I seen it all the time. It was crazy. This is why it is important to find someone "lower" then you meaning if you make $35,000 you need to get with someone who makes $25,000, and I guarantee you she would be a good woman to you, until she finds someone who makes much more then you, but that is rare as people tend to live and hang with those in their same financial bracket.

As for being lonely and bitter, like I stated earlier, that tends to be women, but from what I notice they don't necessarily want a man for "love", they want him to do things for them. I know it sounds foul, but until I accepted this, life is less stressful when dealing with women,and not just dating but family members. I always thought it was about love, meaning how your mother loves you, but that isn't how it is for women. They love the THOUGHT of being in love, not the things that come with it such as loyalty, going through thick and thin, and honesty. Again some do, but for most of them they don't, and I'm not just talking about my experiences, but from what I've seen. I've lived in different parts of the country that also had women form different parts of the world, and they don't see love as those things neither. They say they do, but their actions say the opposite.

Maybe this is how life is supposed to be, I don't know, but that's how it is. You won't see it, until you go deep into the way people think.

This is something I've learned the hard way. If I see this is how it is for most women, why would I argue for them to change, and waste my time on this earth when I could learn how they work and enjoy myself. When they are told these things, they just argue with us, and nothing changes for the better. If the woman who does see love like I see it comes along then I made good, if not I'm still happy with my life.

Being open and honest about your feelings and expectations of a person, and being with them for more than superficial reasons(big booty/wallet)

None of what I'm posting is directed to you personaly because i don't know you personaly. But if you spend your life thinking you're manipulating and getting over on people to get what you want then you are setting yourself up to be used in the long run.

Also I disagree with the notion that you should pick someone "lower" than you. Getting with someone for monetary reasons is never a good idea. If she chose you just because you make more money than her, she will just as easily find someone who makes even more money. A man does not need to have more money in order to lead, or have power in a relationship. If she looks at you like the leader and king that you should be striving to be, your bank account won't matter.

Lastly I am a firm believer that you attract the types of people you deserve. If your opinion is that all women are just out looking to get what they can from you and they aren't looking for love, then that's a reflection on the types of women you attract, not women as a whole. Plenty of men and women find love everyday, but you won't attract the type of women who's looking for that type of thing if your busy "enjoying" yourself with undesirables. Work on yourself and only deal with those who are worthy of your attention and you will attract the right kind of women, until then you will continue to attract undesirables because the real women can see your game from a mile away, and they won't even acknowledge you.

 

[Gus Money]

They stopped smiling at me, shifted awkwardly in their seats and looked me up and down as if they were trying to figure out how a girl who still wears jeans and ballet flats could land a guy like that.

I just wanted to say that I love it when women wear ballet flats

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

I'm not even disputing your argument. My point is: you don't need bank to get these bytches. Yeah, if you want a wife, you got to have something to show. But a lot of these nikkas out here, including those with money, only want to fukk these birds. And that doesn't take any real money whatsoever.

I see what you saying.Look fly on the surface and make females wanna have nasty porno sex.I agree with you there.I've seen broke nikkaz pull females who're way out of their league with that approach.They never lock her down for life, but they had a lot of fun times with her.Probably more fun and nasty sex than she'll ever have with her future husband.


Women do wild , crazy, uncharacteristic shyt with dudes like that.They figure "he really ain't shyt, so he won't judge me....I'mma do some nasty, freaky shyt with this nikka"

They get caught in "limbo" like that from time to time.Where they know the guy they're fukking with is a dead end nikka, but they're feeling his style and swag.And if he's tearing her back out, they get caught up in a dikk jones.At that point, he becomes an asset.She'll start to become a lil more territorial.She'll probably fight another girl over dude, but not because she loves him, but for the simple fact that women can't stand the idea of another "bytch" possessing an asset in which they feel like they had to put in work to cultivate & groom.Some, not all...SOME women are savagely narcissistic.You have to peel your eyes back and tune your mind into some keen/metaphysical shyt to peep it, though


That's female logic for that ass

 

[kermit da hustla]

I see what you saying.Look fly on the surface and make females wanna have nasty porno sex.I agree with you there.I've seen broke nikkaz pull females who're way out of their league with that approach.They never lock her down for life, but they had a lot of fun times with her.Probably more fun and nasty sex than she'll ever have with her future husband.


Women do wild , crazy, uncharacteristic shyt with dudes like that.They figure "he really ain't shyt, so he won't judge me....I'mma do some nasty, freaky shyt with this nikka"

They get caught in "limbo" like that from time to time.Where they know the guy they're fukking with is a dead end nikka, but they're feeling his style and swag.And if he's tearing her back out, they get caught up in a dikk jones.At that point, he becomes an asset.She'll start to become a lil more territorial.She'll probably fight another girl over dude, but not because she loves him, but for the simple fact that women can't stand the idea of another "bytch" possessing an asset in which they feel like they had to put in work to cultivate & groom.Some, not all...SOME women are savagely narcissistic.You have to peel your eyes back and tune your mind into some keen/metaphysical shyt to peep it, though


That's female logic for that ass

Couldn't have said it any better. Females, unforthnately, sre kind if dumb and predictable. That's why a lot of so called broke nikkas can bag chicks. Buy a hit outfit, go to the right spot, and you'll get a few birds that'll give you the p*ssy until they get tired of you or realize your appeal is all surface. IMO, true dimes are the women who are dope on all levels and they don't fall for those games. Those are the females that make dating fun. The challenge of breaking through their barrier is intoxicating. Once you get that p*ssy, you're like

 

[MadameMoreaux]

Being open and honest about your feelings and expectations of a person, and being with them for more than superficial reasons(big booty/wallet)

None of what I'm posting is directed to you personaly because i don't know you personaly. But if you spend your life thinking you're manipulating and getting over on people to get what you want then you are setting yourself up to be used in the long run.

Also I disagree with the notion that you should pick someone "lower" than you. Getting with someone for monetary reasons is never a good idea. If she chose you just because you make more money than her, she will just as easily find someone who makes even more money. A man does not need to have more money in order to lead, or have power in a relationship. If she looks at you like the leader and king that you should be striving to be, your bank account won't matter.

Lastly I am a firm believer that you attract the types of people you deserve. If your opinion is that all women are just out looking to get what they can from you and they aren't looking for love, then that's a reflection on the types of women you attract, not women as a whole. Plenty of men and women find love everyday, but you won't attract the type of women who's looking for that type of thing if your busy "enjoying" yourself with undesirables. Work on yourself and only deal with those who are worthy of your attention and you will attract the right kind of women, until then you will continue to attract undesirables because the real women can see your game from a mile away, and they won't even acknowledge you.

Why are yall not listening to this man!!!
Brother you are breaking it down to these young boys and they are blessed to have someone speaking such truth to them.