Why women lose the dating game: A MUST READ! TOO MANY QUOTABLES!

[Mr Hate Coffee]

My only comment is women need to make a DECISION. That decision usually comes around 21 when you're finishing up that bachelors. Either you go hard for your potential family, or you go hard for your career.

Both are risks but its pretty damn hard to get what you want on both fronts.

Now admittedly so, there are a lot of chicks who choose career because nikkas aint really tryna settle down in their early 20's either. I'd like to see these guys who were dying to settle down and couldn't find a partner that this article keeps referring to.

Sounds like a lot of hurt feelings. Most guys are tryna smash as many women as possible in their 20's. Then they have the luxury of wifing a chick in her 20's while they are in their 30's.

Such a cruel world... I always got into this debate with my ex and told her its a numbers game. Never think you're so special you can win against basic math and statistics.

 

[The Nigerian]

Article is wack because it's written off the premise that only "successful" nikkas can bag these professional smuts. Bullshyt. I know plenty of broke nikkas with Game who have no problem fukking these so called professional women with successful careers. The dating game comes down to this: as long as you APPEAR like you got shyt going for you, bytches will spread their legs, even if you are just an average broke nikka. Women go off the surface. Dress nice, be attractive, and sound educated. Those are the only three ingredients you need to easily bag bytches.

shyt is mad easy.

Post some of these free women you're holding down. I want to see what you're capable of.

 

[MikelArteta]

Women are not actually attracted to men. There is a vague idea of what a man is physically, and some are better than others aesthetically speaking, but the purely physical appearance of a man is almost inconsequential unless he is horribly ugly or outrageously attractive.

Women are attracted to status, money, how much a man smiles and laughs, how many friends and resources a man has, how full a man's life is--how many "cool," "exciting" and prestigious things he is doing or connected to.

They are interested in how other people view him--how many people want to be around him, how other people interact with him and whether their interactions convey that he is special and amazing. They want him to be extremely outgoing and aggressive, they want him to demonstrate his status over other people by dominating them in various non-violent ways.

A woman's attraction to a man is a function of her jealousy at the thought of another woman having that man. She doesn't care who he actually is or EXACTLY what he looks like physically, she only cares about the VALUE of the life he has constructed around himself.

A woman basically is a greedy materialistic prostitute. Although that sounds vulgar, it's true. She trades her physical self to buy into the success a man has created for himself.

Waits for some chicks to say "I'm not like that"

 

[Mr. Pink]

DaChampisHere, stop projecting. It's not about revenge. It's about a shift in the market.

''I'm lucky,'' he says, ''to be in a buyer's market.''

When women are in their 20s, they're the "buyer" in the buyer's market. Men - the sellers- try and qualify for them. But time completely changes that. In their 30s the roles are reversed. Men now are the buyers and women are the sellers, women now have to qualify for men.
Is it men's fault that women failed to capitalize when in their 20s when they had the upper hand? No. As they say, use it or lose it.

Now that men in their 30s have the upper hand, why should they do the same mistake and waste it? Why should they go after women in their 30s when women in their 20s are much more attractive? Just because they refuse to make that obviously illogical choice they're automatically bitter losers who are just after revenge?

 

[Jone2three45]

....Damn son

I went into great deal on another forum about this but I don't feel like posting it here (the kids here are idiots anyway). But good job on the post.

Please post

 

[Binary]

Waits for some chicks to say "I'm not like that"

I'm not like that though :bitter:

 

[philmonroe]

Yep you got me there breh!. These nikkas describe me to the T.

But I rather be one of them nikkas than the nikka on a message board hating at a nikka enjoying his options in life.

Don't worry you are one of these nikkas cause I never hated on these dudes at all you over reaching like the Clippers for Olawakandi. shyt in my first post I said chicks do this same shyt too and its wack but nooooo you want to mention what I said about the guys so you must be one of the guys that I spoke on that do said complaining.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

DaChampisHere, stop projecting. It's not about revenge. It's about a shift in the market.
When women are in their 20s, they're the "buyer" in the buyer's market. Men - the sellers- try and qualify for them. But time completely changes that. In their 30s the roles are reversed. Men now are the buyers and women are the sellers, women now have to qualify for men.
Is it men's fault that women failed to capitalize when in their 20s when they had the upper hand? No. As they say, use it or lose it.

Now that men in their 30s have the upper hand, why should they do the same mistake and waste it? Why should they go after women in their 30s when women in their 20s are much more attractive? Just because they refuse to make that obviously illogical choice they're automatically bitter losers who are just after revenge?

AGAIN, for the 3rd time

I do not care about some finally being able to get p*ssy after a lifetime of not getting any. I have never said people should be turning down p*ssy. My responses have been to dudes thinking they are getting some kind of revenge on women who aren't even thinking about them.

Will you illiterates stop making up things (as if I was the only person who typed such when several other people said the same thing) that were already addressed?

 

[Un-AmericanDreamer]

Women are not actually attracted to men. There is a vague idea of what a man is physically, and some are better than others aesthetically speaking, but the purely physical appearance of a man is almost inconsequential unless he is horribly ugly or outrageously attractive.

Women are attracted to status, money, how much a man smiles and laughs, how many friends and resources a man has, how full a man's life is--how many "cool," "exciting" and prestigious things he is doing or connected to.

They are interested in how other people view him--how many people want to be around him, how other people interact with him and whether their interactions convey that he is special and amazing. They want him to be extremely outgoing and aggressive, they want him to demonstrate his status over other people by dominating them in various non-violent ways.

A woman's attraction to a man is a function of her jealousy at the thought of another woman having that man. She doesn't care who he actually is or EXACTLY what he looks like physically, she only cares about the VALUE of the life he has constructed around himself.

A woman basically is a greedy materialistic prostitute. Although that sounds vulgar, it's true. She trades her physical self to buy into the success a man has created for himself.

I agree with everything except the greedy materialistic prostitute part. That may be a bit harsh, but the rest of it is pretty spot on.

 

[No_bammer_weed]

So enlighten me on what these nikkas should do then breh?

So these nikkas are bytches bc they couldn't attract women but now that they can they bytches for not settling for the very women that rejected them

You can't make this shyt up

You sound like one of these corny scorned lames in the article. Whats up with all this "women" this, "women" that ish? If a nicca wanna play the field and do him, cool --- but why all this talk about how "women" did him so wrong when he was a scrub? Why are the actions of other PEOPLE relevant to future interactions with different people?

Dumb stereotypes are for dumb people --- I guess you would have no problem if some woman reduced all men as dogs, or black people as criminals or thugs because of a few bad personal experiences.

In essence what these dudes are mad about is the fact that they didnt have the upper hand to play women when they were younger. Now that they have the upper hand, they are simply mimicking the behavior of the idiot women they claim to despise. Completely transparent. These arent good men --- these are just a-holes who want to mistreat people. Now that they can, you see the results.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

These arent good men --- these are just a-holes who want to mistreat people, just like they were mistreated. Now that they can, you see the results.

Yeah. I think the bolded is the idea that gets lost in the mix. These guys are essentially the self-proclaimed "Nice Guys" who are now trying to come up. I get the hustle and agree with the concept of such (getting something you were denied for a lifetime), but one thing I don't respect about it is the fact of mentioning that these women are "easy to play". Honestly, at that age or any age, if you're trying to play games with people, shyt's just not sweet. Keep it 100 up front and let people decide for themselves.

On some real shyt, the internet has shown me that there are a lot of men who are living on some 2nd childhood/I'mma get these hoes back kinda lifestyle all over not getting p*ssy some years ago (same dudes who will claim p*ssy is not that big of a deal to them). It's something I am trying to come to understand, but you honestly can't be playing Madden on Rookie level and expect nikkas playing on All-Madden to respect you and see you as legit.

I hope I never encounter this kinda nikkas in real life and I'm glad these dudes tend to be the more insecure, less confident types and therefore more inclined to not say such things out loud in reality because you know they'd sound awkward as fukk and weird.

 

[Rayzah]

Yeah. I think the bolded is the idea that gets lost in the mix. These guys are essentially the self-proclaimed "Nice Guys" who are now trying to come up. I get the hustle and agree with the concept of such (getting something you were denied for a lifetime), but one thing I don't respect about it is the fact of mentioning that these women are "easy to play". Honestly, at that age or any age, if you're trying to play games with people, shyt's just not sweet. Keep it 100 up front and let people decide for themselves.

On some real shyt, the internet has shown me that there are a lot of men who are living on some 2nd childhood/I'mma get these hoes back kinda lifestyle all over not getting p*ssy some years ago (same dudes who will claim p*ssy is not that big of a deal to them). It's something I am trying to come to understand, but you honestly can't be playing Madden on Rookie level and expect nikkas playing on All-Madden to respect you and see you as legit.

I hope I never encounter this kinda nikkas in real life and I'm glad these dudes tend to be the more insecure, less confident types and therefore more inclined to not say such things out loud in reality because you know they'd sound awkward as fukk and weird.

I agree with that 100%

 

[The Nigerian]

Yeah. I think the bolded is the idea that gets lost in the mix. These guys are essentially the self-proclaimed "Nice Guys" who are now trying to come up. I get the hustle and agree with the concept of such (getting something you were denied for a lifetime), but one thing I don't respect about it is the fact of mentioning that these women are "easy to play". Honestly, at that age or any age, if you're trying to play games with people, shyt's just not sweet. Keep it 100 up front and let people decide for themselves.

On some real shyt, the internet has shown me that there are a lot of men who are living on some 2nd childhood/I'mma get these hoes back kinda lifestyle all over not getting p*ssy some years ago (same dudes who will claim p*ssy is not that big of a deal to them). It's something I am trying to come to understand, but you honestly can't be playing Madden on Rookie level and expect nikkas playing on All-Madden to respect you and see you as legit.

I hope I never encounter this kinda nikkas in real life and I'm glad these dudes tend to be the more insecure, less confident types and therefore more inclined to not say such things out loud in reality because you know they'd sound awkward as fukk and weird.

Hate to break it to you buddy but dating is a game. Whether you want to play or not is up to you. That's the reality of the situation.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Hate to break it to you buddy but dating is a game. Whether you want to play or not is up to you. That's the reality of the situation.

You take women out on dates (an indicator of wanting to start a relationship), to get p*ssy (something that does not require a relationship at all).

See above reference about playing Madden on rookie level and realize why this conversation won't go good.

 

[The Nigerian]

You take women out on dates (an indicator of wanting to start a relationship), to get p*ssy (something that does not require a relationship at all).

See above reference about playing Madden on rookie level and realize why this conversation won't go good.

Show me pics of the women you were able to bag *purely* on conversation and "swag." I want to see what free pvssy looks like.