Why Isn't Your FWB or Casual Sex Partner Your Girlfriend?

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Because the relationship is built purely off of sex and hanging out inside afterwards (watching a movie/tv show/drinking/smoking). We’ve never gone out on a date. We don’t talk on the phone consistently. We just fukk and chill. It’s fun while it lasts but she will eventually get frustrated if you never take her out and end things. I had one tell me her father is dying of cancer and his wish was that she’d get married so she had to stop messing with me because she knew it wasn’t going anywhere. I felt bad for a second not gonna lie
 
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Thavoiceofthevoiceless said:
Because she’s 52 and still married :francis:

She views me as a “placeholder” that’s good enough to fukk, but not date long term because of the age difference.
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What qualities does she have that makes her relationship material? She's way past her prime and is literally cheating on her husband with you. Do you really think she's going to be loyal to you? Do you not have other options when it comes to potential girlfriends?

Thavoiceofthevoiceless said:
With the chemistry and genuine connection that we’ve developed, yes. Hence me being conflicted about the situation.

It’s ironic that someone upped this thread today because me and her have been discussing it these past few hours.
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Sunk cost fallacy. There's no genuine connection, she's just using you for dikk and attention and stringing you along knowing that you want something more with her.

Is this really what you want to bring into the new year?

There's chicks literally half her age who would make better girlfriends
 
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Giselle said:
They had a thread like this on lsa a long time ago. Common Answers were:

*they not asking bc that’s a man’s job
* they just got out of a relationship
*they are lonely and just wanted company but you’re not compatible
* attractive but dumb
*attractive but broke

Search it on lsa
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Interesting on Reddit women were giving those two as reasons.
 
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bourgeoisie tall freak said:
i don't really do the fwb/casual partner. i might be "dating" someone and seeing if we are sexually compatible is an important part of that. but after like 2-3 times we either together or just regular friends. i try not to contiuously expose myself to men i don't want to be with like that, it's like once i know you not it then i will get grossed out by that type of attention. idk how yall do it.
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i'm the same way with women I have no interest in or detest.
 
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bourgeoisie tall freak said:
i don't really do the fwb/casual partner. i might be "dating" someone and seeing if we are sexually compatible is an important part of that. but after like 2-3 times we either together or just regular friends. i try not to contiuously expose myself to men i don't want to be with like that, it's like once i know you not it then i will get grossed out by that type of attention. idk how yall do it.
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readying your name on here... enquiring minds would like to know.... are you really a freak like that?
 
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UWasntThere said:
How often have you had to shelf otherwise good/compatible men for having a weak stroke?
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never.
when i was first starting sex, there was a few guys i just tried out just because... no real good reason and i could tell then doing that sex for sport shyt was wack. not because they were wack, but because i didn't really like them like that. that's when i knew i had to be into someone to have sex with them. but thankfully since then i haven't had bad enough sex to bush someone over it. ima sucker for love :pachaha:
 
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Thavoiceofthevoiceless said:
It's rather complicated but her husband fukked up REALLY REALLY bad, but they're staying divorced as the kids are still on his health insurance and yes they have kids.

No mommy issues on my end. Just a sucker for good, genuine connection.
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You 32 fukking around with a woman that could be you mamas age :dahell:.

And it isn't even a sugar mama situation :what:


You ABSOLUTELY DO have mommy issues.


You're only goal should be trying to get MONEY out of that bytch.
fukking an old chick who has 20 years on you for "a connection"? nikka :what:
 
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