Why is it not okay to pay for sex, but okay to go to a strip club?

[Knuckles Red]

The type of nikkas whos exclusively fucc escorts and the type of people who visit strip clubs aren't the same.

Strip clubs is more about having fun, thats why you see alot of women who go to strip clubs, not just dudes. Its just fun.
nikkas who fucc escorts are more weird and lame type of cats.

But should you really have to pay for female attention? Thats basically what a strip club is. Its almost like some weird form of foreplay. So you leave the strip club, after giving away your hard earned money, and go home with nothing. Seems pointless.

 

[Knuckles Red]

I also think people look down on paying for sex because of our culture that is still rooted in puritan beliefs regarding sex. We still shame people for being sexual in our culture even though our culture is also very hyper sexual. Theres this strange dichotomy.

 

[T.H.E. Goat]

Going to strip clubs is just a "cool" way of tricking basically since that's all you hear about in today's music.

Personally I think strip clubs are dumb and a waste of money, I would pay a female to fukk before I pay her to dance in my dikk

 

[richaveli83]

I worked as a valet at a strip club years ago and I definitely see your point. I never understood the appeal of giving some woman money for her to grind on me or whatever that I wasn't fukking. I would see dudes spend hundreds of dollars on drinks and lap dances and not even get some head. Just save time and money and go to backpage for the luxury of "paying her to leave."

 

[Knuckles Red]

Going to strip clubs is just a "cool" way of tricking basically since that's all you hear about in today's music.

Personally I think strip clubs are dumb and a waste of money, I would pay a female to fukk before I pay her to dance in my dikk

I get your point. I guess I was also talking about the stigma that surrounds paying for sex. That a guy who pays for sex is lame because he wants to pay for it. It seems more lame to pay for just the attention. People also pay for porn, too. There just doesn't seem to be any type of consistency, in terms of people's attitudes, when talking about paying for sex. Its just so strange to me.

 

[kingdizzy01]

There is a difference, though. One has an actual payoff while the other doesn't. I guess I can understand the social aspect of going to a strip club, but ultimately I want to fukk.

either way its suckers paying for something that others get free. i can understand paying for some top notch high quality birds if thats what you wanna do, but trickin on strippers and regular bootleg hoes aint the biz

 

[BrothaZay]

But should you really have to pay for female attention? Thats basically what a strip club is. Its almost like some weird form of foreplay. So you leave the strip club, after giving away your hard earned money, and go home with nothing. Seems pointless.

People go to the strip club for different things. 10 different people at the strip club, each one got a different reason why they there.
With johns, not so much.

 

[Neil Tyson]

People go to the strip club for different things. 10 different people at the strip club, each one got a different reason why they there.
With johns, not so much.

What reason is there to go to a strip club vs a lounge full of women who you don't have to "pay" for attention.

 

[Dank Hill]

i dont do either

 

[feelosofer]

Legit question.

 

[Knuckles Red]

either way its suckers paying for something that others get free

I guess. It just seems like one is more culturally acceptable while the other one isn't.

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

The strip club ISNT ok either

I've looked down on strip clubs since I turned 18. I never saw the point of paying to look at some girls get me riled up, then go home and beat my meat

I finally went to the strip club for the first time about 3 months ago with the girl I'm dating, she took me. It was whatever but when I got home I got to tear that thang up.

So IMO the only way I can say a strip club is dope is if you going with some chicks

So to you the strip club isn't okay because the guys are paying to look at women but aren't getting sex. While when paying for sex you actually get sex get you still have something against it?

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

either way its suckers paying for something that others get free. i can understand paying for some top notch high quality birds if thats what you wanna do, but trickin on strippers and regular bootleg hoes aint the biz

Paying for sex is minus any type of hassle or the possibility of shyt going wrong like being falsely accused of rape or whatever else. Don't act like paying for sex isn't convienient because it is.

 

[BrothaZay]

What reason is there to go to a strip club vs a lounge full of women who you don't have to "pay" for attention.

Plently.
-Wanna have a good time
-you wanna be seen
-you a hustler
-you a jackboy
etc

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

Paying for sex is about convienence for men. I don't know why a lot of guys up here think that just because the next man isn't paying for sex it's wrong.