Why is it not okay to pay for sex, but okay to go to a strip club?

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As someone who has spent a lot of time in strip clubs, I don't knock dudes that pay for vagina. I do think it can be two different things, tho.

I can go to the strip club, have a few drinks, watch chicks dance, enjoy the music and bounce. To me it can just be another form of nightlife. Sometimes, it's more convenient because you don't have to wait for it to be "popping", it's open every night, usually no lines, and no dress code. For a dude with a girlfriend it's way easier to slide in to Blue Flame in a sweatshirt and timbs at 9:30, versus heading to some upscale club in Midtown all dressed up, and waiting 30 minutes to get in that b**ch.

Now I'd say half the times I went to the strip club I was on that tip. The other half I definitely was looking to feel on some grade A booty (especially before shots got popular), and basically get some form of sensuality from a chick that looked significantly better than any woman I've been with. That is akin to paying chicks for sex, I won't deny that. It's not comparable in price tho. I mean I might get 2-3 dances at 10$ a wop and walk out the club spending $50 in total. To sleep with a chick at that level you dropping 2 bills easy, and that would be a steal.

Either way, I don't see why you would knock someone that pays for p**sy anyways. Not every dude wants to be in the rat race of chasing chicks, dealing with women below their level to get bunz, lying and/or being slick about your intentions, hanging out with people you don't like to meet females, dealing with bogus chicks off Tinder/POF/Match, or whatever other bull***t these dudes deal with to have a fruitful sex life. To those who are doing damage in the game, props. But a lot of guys act like they winning but their receipts are looking funny in the light. When I look at the broads that half of these dudes are f***ing, I'm thinking I'd rather off myself than continuously have concede and compromise what I want. I'd be more happy paying for what I want, than settling for what I don't want.

Full disclosure: I've never actually paid for sex, tho. But I would in the right situation.
 

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I can only speak for dudes I'm around/associate with and the ones who do pay for p*ssy have no trouble getting it for free

One of my boys who literally had dudes at the door an any club of note in Miami lived in the strip club, I mean LIVED there. 36 hour binge sometimes, especially in Miami some of them strip clubs be servin' breakfast, ain't no reason to leave :heh: I had another boy down in Colombia, european cat, and Latina bishes love them so european :huhldup: All breh did was camp out in ho houses all day all night :heh: The nikkaz doin' the most gettin' it everyway, strip club, club, snapchat, anyway they can get it they doin' it, trust your breh knows from personal experience :wow:
 

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I couldn't imagine anybody in their 20's would want to go to a strip club. Your social network is so vast in that era. I didn't go until my 30's. I never was into dancing and shyt though. That is a waste of money. It really depends on what strip club you go to. Tootsies is the shyt. Use to go their religiously on Sunday to watch the games. To me it's more fun to watch the game at a strip club vs an over crowded sports bar. Drinks are cheaper and you get to see t*ts and ass at a half time. :manny:
 

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As someone who has spent a lot of time in strip clubs, I don't knock dudes that pay for vagina. I do think it can be two different things, tho.

I can go to the strip club, have a few drinks, watch chicks dance, enjoy the music and bounce. To me it can just be another form of nightlife. Sometimes, it's more convenient because you don't have to wait for it to be "popping", it's open every night, usually no lines, and no dress code. For a dude with a girlfriend it's way easier to slide in to Blue Flame in a sweatshirt and timbs at 9:30, versus heading to some upscale club in Midtown all dressed up, and waiting 30 minutes to get in that b**ch.

Now I'd say half the times I went to the strip club I was on that tip. The other half I definitely was looking to feel on some grade A booty (especially before shots got popular), and basically get some form of sensuality from a chick that looked significantly better than any woman I've been with. That is akin to paying chicks for sex, I won't deny that. It's not comparable in price tho. I mean I might get 2-3 dances at 10$ a wop and walk out the club spending $50 in total. To sleep with a chick at that level you dropping 2 bills easy, and that would be a steal.

Either way, I don't see why you would knock someone that pays for p**sy anyways. Not every dude wants to be in the rat race of chasing chicks, dealing with women below their level to get bunz, lying and/or being slick about your intentions, hanging out with people you don't like to meet females, dealing with bogus chicks off Tinder/POF/Match, or whatever other bull***t these dudes deal with to have a fruitful sex life. To those who are doing damage in the game, props. But a lot of guys act like they winning but their receipts are looking funny in the light. When I look at the broads that half of these dudes are f***ing, I'm thinking I'd rather off myself than continuously have concede and compromise what I want. I'd be more happy paying for what I want, than settling for what I don't want.

Full disclosure: I've never actually paid for sex, tho. But I would in the right situation.
Bad bytches out her giving the ass up for $40. You'd have $10 left over.
 

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One of my boys who literally had dudes at the door an any club of note in Miami lived in the strip club, I mean LIVED there. 36 hour binge sometimes, especially in Miami some of them strip clubs be servin' breakfast, ain't no reason to leave :heh: I had another boy down in Colombia, european cat, and Latina bishes love them so european :huhldup: All breh did was camp out in ho houses all day all night :heh: The nikkaz doin' the most gettin' it everyway, strip club, club, snapchat, anyway they can get it they doin' it, trust your breh knows from personal experience :wow:
Yeah I think Miami has the best strip clubs. So much more to offer. I can see why people would want to party at them. I just only did Tootsies. Half price drinks till 8. Sexy chicks from all over the world. Most strip clubs aren't like that.
 

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One of these days yall youngins gone realize that no matter what more often than not a man is paying for p*ssy...

Take a broad out and pay for dinner and smash...you paid for it...just like the nikka that skipped dinner and ordered p*ssy by the hour at his doorstep...

Bought your wife an expensive gift for her birthday/anniversary/February jew holiday/ and she let you smash...You paid for it...

That's a mans life bruh, we always paying unless you're pimping...
 

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As someone who has spent a lot of time in strip clubs, I don't knock dudes that pay for vagina. I do think it can be two different things, tho.

I can go to the strip club, have a few drinks, watch chicks dance, enjoy the music and bounce. To me it can just be another form of nightlife. Sometimes, it's more convenient because you don't have to wait for it to be "popping", it's open every night, usually no lines, and no dress code. For a dude with a girlfriend it's way easier to slide in to Blue Flame in a sweatshirt and timbs at 9:30, versus heading to some upscale club in Midtown all dressed up, and waiting 30 minutes to get in that b**ch.

Now I'd say half the times I went to the strip club I was on that tip. The other half I definitely was looking to feel on some grade A booty (especially before shots got popular), and basically get some form of sensuality from a chick that looked significantly better than any woman I've been with. That is akin to paying chicks for sex, I won't deny that. It's not comparable in price tho. I mean I might get 2-3 dances at 10$ a wop and walk out the club spending $50 in total. To sleep with a chick at that level you dropping 2 bills easy, and that would be a steal.

Either way, I don't see why you would knock someone that pays for p**sy anyways. Not every dude wants to be in the rat race of chasing chicks, dealing with women below their level to get bunz, lying and/or being slick about your intentions, hanging out with people you don't like to meet females, dealing with bogus chicks off Tinder/POF/Match, or whatever other bull***t these dudes deal with to have a fruitful sex life. To those who are doing damage in the game, props. But a lot of guys act like they winning but their receipts are looking funny in the light. When I look at the broads that half of these dudes are f***ing, I'm thinking I'd rather off myself than continuously have concede and compromise what I want. I'd be more happy paying for what I want, than settling for what I don't want.

Full disclosure: I've never actually paid for sex, tho. But I would in the right situation.

Agree with everything you wrote. I'm not into the strip club at night. I think its a waste of money IMO. But at least in Miami, The strip club is like a regular club and you actually can come up cheaper going there vs the pretentious night clubs there. Bottles and admission is cheaper. I noticed a trend before I left. A lot of men and regular women started to party at strip clubs.
 

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I couldn't imagine anybody in their 20's would want to go to a strip club. Your social network is so vast in that era. I didn't go until my 30's. I never was into dancing and shyt though. That is a waste of money. It really depends on what strip club you go to. Tootsies is the shyt. Use to go their religiously on Sunday to watch the games. To me it's more fun to watch the game at a strip club vs an over crowded sports bar. Drinks are cheaper and you get to see t*ts and ass at a half time. :manny:
Yo I never thot of watching games at the strip club :ohhh:
 

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Bad bytches out her giving the ass up for $40. You'd have $10 left over.

School me on that sir. I've visited backpage to see what's out there and the chicks under a bill be looking dusty. If I were to do it, shorty would need to be at 2007 Bria Myles level of fineness.
 

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One of these days yall youngins gone realize that no matter what more often than not a man is paying for p*ssy...

Take a broad out and pay for dinner and smash...you paid for it...just like the nikka that skipped dinner and ordered p*ssy by the hour at his doorstep...

Bought your wife an expensive gift for her birthday/anniversary/February jew holiday/ and she let you smash...You paid for it...

That's a mans life bruh, we always paying unless your pimping...
Breh you don't know how many times this has crossed my mind. Do you know how stupid money is out there to be made....
 

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Yo I never thot of watching games at the strip club :ohhh:
Honestly that what got me to go. I was a die hard Ale House guy about 6 years ago. A new manager pissed me off. They always put the game on for me no matter what. He didn't. I remember a cat told me about Tootsies. I thought he was lying about it because all the clubs in Miami has a tip walk. I don't like that shyt. Ended up going and that was all she wrote. Once the bouncers and managers new me, they would put my Niners on the big screen and even would have the sound a lot of times. :wow:
 

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One of my boys who literally had dudes at the door an any club of note in Miami lived in the strip club, I mean LIVED there. 36 hour binge sometimes, especially in Miami some of them strip clubs be servin' breakfast, ain't no reason to leave :heh: I had another boy down in Colombia, european cat, and Latina bishes love them so european :huhldup: All breh did was camp out in ho houses all day all night :heh: The nikkaz doin' the most gettin' it everyway, strip club, club, snapchat, anyway they can get it they doin' it, trust your breh knows from personal experience :wow:
I feel that, and from what I've witnessed in my life nikkas that get the most p*ssy are getting it from every angle, tricking included.
 

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I couldn't imagine anybody in their 20's would want to go to a strip club. Your social network is so vast in that era. I didn't go until my 30's. I never was into dancing and shyt though. That is a waste of money. It really depends on what strip club you go to. Tootsies is the shyt. Use to go their religiously on Sunday to watch the games. To me it's more fun to watch the game at a strip club vs an over crowded sports bar. Drinks are cheaper and you get to see t*ts and ass at a half time. :manny:
Can't even be mad at that, that's some next level shyt right there
 
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