KinksandCoils
African American Queen
the hell does this thread have to do with that? It's related to the other thread about the girl who didn't talk to the guy.
Why does simpin equal being soft?
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the hell does this thread have to do with that? It's related to the other thread about the girl who didn't talk to the guy.philmonroe
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Whatever manWhatever man
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Don't answer a question with a question.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
dude move along. This thread ain't about me personally. I'm not going to entertain your rude ass questions.Don't answer a question with a question.
The Devil's Advocate
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PEOPLE are gonna do what they want.
A woman will cheat, lie to, play, use a nice guy, just the same as they would a bad boy.
Or treat them both equally good.
There's no added reward with being extra nice. Doing things for women who haven't earned it yet.
If this is your woman. Or you'd like her to be. No man says "oh you simping. Buying your girl jewelry. Taking her out. Paying for her hair"
The problem comes when men do all this shyt on day one. Acting like they gonna get some special prize and treatment for it. Meanwhile you could just be yourself and get the same results
And visa versa for women to men. A woman buying me shyt and doing what I want ain't gonna make me treat her any different than if she was cool and laid back
Just be you
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
this is somewhat agreeable. Not fully because guys won't do nice gestures somestimes even if they know she's deserving.
philmonroe
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Must be ugly then because its not a rude question. Its just a question that can easily be answered by no I'm not. A rude question would be asking did you suck a dikk this morning or something like that not are you ugly when chances are you're not just frustrated like the rest of these clowns. I even explained why I asked so spare me the garbage of rude questions.
It was never equated to being soft, it was always equated to being stupid. You show your weakness and your desperation by simping. Desperation is always a turn off. Do you like desperate women? So, why expect a woman to like a desperate man?
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
asking someone if they are ugly is rude. Not my fault your mother didn't teach you the difference between couth and uncouth
Action Mike
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Thread can end with this
philmonroe
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My mom taught me more than enough though so I'm good with the lessons she taught me. Its only rude if you are ugly. Otherwise it wouldn't be just like you trying to say my mom didn't teach me something. Its not true so what you said ain't shyt but words
Elle Driver
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Majority of females don't appreciate any of that stuff, and while you shouldn't necessarily expect p*ssy or the girl falling hopelessly in love with you cause you practice chivalry on a couple dates, the harsh reality is that she has or possibly is popping that thang for a dude who does considerably less to express a healthy interest and would drop or disappear from the nice guy's life if the hardass gives the word at light speed.
Simp, a$$hole, or shades in between, nobody wants to feel played, especially not consistently.
@CeeMeWork is this good enough on a lazy Sunday afternoon?
It's not that women don't appreciate it, it's that if it comes from a guy you don't necessarily have feelings for, it's appreciated but it doesn't have the same effect.
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So why are you complaining? If you like and a man more than he likes you then you will have to put up with this nonsense.
With the exception of the OP's final example of the approach, I got the sense that this was about simping behavior once he's had multiple interactions with the woman and is showing effort.
If you know you ain't feeling him you could save him the trouble for someone else who would