I can't explain game breh. Well I can but it'll take a lifetime. It's like teaching your son how to deal with women. You tell him the basics, treat them right, cater to them, apologize when you're wrong, let them win.
Then when he comes back with another issue past that, tackle that. Then he'll conform to that. Then a totally new woman pops up with new issues.... he'll have to conform to that. And so on.... at some point, he'll be a master of all types of women.
But I digress. The most basic thing is this.... ask her what she's looking for. Ask her what she likes to do. Ask her her dreams. Ask her her wants. Her needs. Her goals.
Then transform into that man. Live that lie. Swallow your pride and live that lie. Be the man she's been begging and pleading and wishing and praying for since the age of 6. Walk her down that isle. Give her that wedding. That ring. That baby. That family. That commitment. Get her in with your family. Your moms. Everybody. She ain't leaving all that love
And no matter what you doing on the side or elsewhere, keep being that man.
So when you get caught up like kurt the first time.... she already in her dream house with kids and when you making it up to her, she already used to that and know you really love her. She ain't finding two dream men
When you get caught sneaking a whole nother apt like Kurt did, you already know she always wanted a store. So you already got your make up present ready when she catch you
When you have a baby on her like kurt did. She been with you 20 years, got grown kids, money tied up, house tied up, old, comfortable, and been through and seen her friends been through 150 men who ain't right.....
She damn well ain't about to start over and try and find ANOTHER perfect dream man at 45-50. Mo matter what she do or say. She ain't going nowhere if you keep on trying.
Kurt been doing it. You see waka on his third failure and still doing it. They gonna kick you out. They gonna "date" another man. They gonna bytch moan. File papers. Look at TI and Tiny. She'll be back.
Unless you on some "ok fine then fukk it" they gonna come back. And remember. You don't want to be 50, starting over either
And that's all the game I can give y'all today. I'm retired anyway.