These guys are not trying to dictate what women wear or should not.
There just trying to gain a understanding.
Just like if girls went to a dance club but didn't dance at all, why not just hit a bar?
If they ladies don't like the men talking to them, why not a girls club ?
No one has the right to dictate, but to gather a understanding why certain things are or not done is a reasonable question to ask.....even if most of us know the answer..
You need to check the white man and slave based ideal.
that women are our slaves and owe us an explanation.
They don't owe us a damn thing, breh.
They don't have to tell us shyt and they don't.
Females do not break kayfabe.
Nor, do they always keep it real.
when it comes to their real feeling about their actions.
Do you not realize that women are only free in the us.
They have an entire slave based mentality built in survival against men.
That us as black men should know all about.
All because black men before us marched to free women, solely in the us.
Only thing I can tell you is get know more of them personally.
So, you can get and create your generalizations about them.
that makes any gateway interaction and possible relationships with them better.
Art Barr