Why do women need closure?

Ahadi

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Just leave it alone, they can’t rob you for the closure

I never give folks closure cause i got mine the moment we stopped talking

closure is usually code for guilt erasure most of the time

Thank you. I live by “shyt happens” oh well. If they chose to dip that’s fine. I don’t need to go soul searching for answers.
 

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Men and women want closure

The idea of getting closure from another person has never made sense to me. You should get closure from yourself. Once something has ended, it’s ended. Let it go. Heal from the inside out instead of trying to get it from someone else.

I gotta remember to rep you for this , almost exactly how I view how closure should be
 
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Because when a woman gets rejected, or a man breaks up with her, she thinks she’s not good enough.

Women tend to set their eyes on a man, and think because they like that man, that he must be exactly what she wants, which is why they will complain all the time, but stay with us. Or we tell them straight up that we don’t want a relationship, and they think if they keep smashing, we’ll eventually catch feelings. (It happens sometimes, but it’s rare) Then, when we don’t change for them, they think they’re not good enough.

They think their happiness is dependent on being with a particular person, regardless of that person’s attributes. And they don’t want to go through the process of finding and getting to know another man.
 

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What’s the point? Can’t you just leave things alone?
Because we don't wanna end up how a lot of men end up; stuck on one person forever and being unhappy with every other man that comes along because we refuse to deal with our feelings. Some guys will literally be unhappy for decades because one woman did them wrong. shyt is the exact opposite of logical.
 

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It depends on the person, some people pretend to want closure so they can possibly insult or guilt trip the other person one last time for ego purposes. Others genuinely want the truth about what went wrong :manny:

With how p*ssy and immature people are in society now it's pointless to expect closure with most people. A lot of people would rather "ghost" somebody just to make it easier on themselves or lie to coddle the other person. I can understand wanting closure from someone that a person has been with for years but most of the time it's not worth dwelling over.
 
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