Why do women like guys that treat them like shyt?

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Did you ever think that they were ok with just being there to smash? Sometimes it goes the same way for girls- it doesn't matter how much of an ass you are if they only want that one thing as well.

As for relationships- I wouldn't put up with the ass part. I always need a nice guy. And I've been :blessed: to find them.
So whats a nice guy?
 

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i learned my many mistakes with me, it was because i didnt truly feel i was worthy of having a good nicca. i got pregnant at an early age, so i looked upon myself as damaged goods. i let myself down, i thought who is gonna want a chick with a ready made family , but after working on myself , having some thing to offer to a relationship with someone who truly adores me and acts like it, mayne im happy as hell. so to answer the question i think it has to do with how they look at themselves and their worth.
 

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i learned my many mistakes with me, it was because i didnt truly feel i was worthy of having a good nicca. i got pregnant at an early age, so i looked upon myself as damaged goods. i let myself down, i thought who is gonna want a chick with a ready made family , but after working on myself , having some thing to offer to a relationship with someone who truly adores me and acts like it, mayne im happy as hell. so to answer the question i think it has to do with how they look at themselves and their worth.

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Basically, you have to be better than her in whatever's really important to her. Then she'll chase you and put up with a lot bs. But if you're begging and too accommodating, she's going to feel like she's a princess and you're some peasant.


A lot of women want a man that better than they are. You have to be better or have better than her in whatever department that's very important to her. Whether it's money, looks, charisma or whatever. Smart chicks want stability and a great male figure. Usually ugly girls with money want a good looking dude foremost. Broke chicks want that paper. She just has to really admire something(s) about you. My last gf had looks and money, but was introverted. I'm decent looking, money str8, but she admire the way people responded to me.
 

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They like Guys who treat them like shyt cause they are nothing but the toilets the shyts run down.

I can understand 1 AND THE ROCK MEANS 1 MISTAKE with fukking with a no good nikka. If u continue to let the shyt run over u ( THE TOILET bytch ) Then it's not the shyt problem it's your ass for not handling the situation by cleaning yourself up mentally..

I personally have no feelings or regards to any chick who has more than 1 baby father and continue to have bad after bad relationships. fukk them..
 

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1. I think it was said here by a certain poster they don't kknow whether dude is going to beat their ass or embrace them. The thrill, the trying to be the one who can finally tame the wild stallion, the wild wildebeest.

2. low self esteem - like what @sanityovar8ted mentioned

3. they love the drama, the confrontations, the fights
 

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You know, they might have low self esteem and if someone is giving them attention they'll stick around and after a while they develop Stockholm Syndrome. :ld:They get so used to it, if they leave the relationship they'll go back to another a$$hole.
 

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You know, they might have low self esteem and if someone is giving them attention they'll stick around and after a while they develop Stockholm Syndrome. :ld:They get so used to it, if they leave the relationship they'll go back to another @sshole.


I remember years ago when I was a semi simp i dated a girl who was abused in her previous relationship, well she cheate don me 3 months in with her ex who used to beat her brains in and went back to him :manny:, guess i was to boring and predictable and not "man" enough to give them love beats :manny:
 

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I remember years ago when I was a semi simp i dated a girl who was abused in her previous relationship, well she cheate don me 3 months in with her ex who used to beat her brains in and went back to him :manny:, guess i was to boring and predictable and not "man" enough to give them love beats :manny:

Nah, it's not about that, girls might try to rationalize it by saying stuff like that. But it's more of a psychological issue, they should stay the fukk away from relationships until they get their heads right.
 

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Every female that I know who continuously lets a guy treat them like crap has some underlying issue. Whether it be self esteem, they were abused, daddy issues, abandonment issues, etc...I'm not going to say I have never been stupid before, but when I was it wasn't about dude. It was about me trying to prove something to myself. It couldn't go on for long and I was aware the whole time. Other than that I just keep it moving. Be content and you don't put up with BS.
 
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